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We stopped talking for no reason so how do I become his friend again?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - i like this boy named robert. we used to be the good of friends but we stopped talking for some reason i dont know why, but what should i do for us to get back friends again?... (37 words

Is this due to low self esteem or could I be gay?

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am a woman and at 23 I am still a virgin. I have had boyfriends in the past but found it hard to be intimate. I am attracted to men but I am sexually attracted to women. is this due to low self esteem or could I be gay? I need help!... (53 words

People have a big problem with our age difference, how can we solve this?

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18 April 2008 (M age 51-59 - i am 43 and she is 18 but we really like each other we have a lot of fun but her parents and other people have a thing about our age difference how do i solve this... (37 words

Any tips on how to lose weight?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi im quiete young (14) and i really need to lose weight! i'm about 5"9 and weigh just over 13st!!!!!!!!!!!! i think im clincly obease! and need some will power anybody got any tips how to lose weightt? please please help me!! ... (51 words

Is he being a baby or am I just insensitive?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I got into a fight over how many roomates to have when we move out into an apartment. He was saying something about having multiple roomates after I already told him numerous times that I didnt like that idea. Well today he brought it up again the idea of ... (87 words

I'm 12yrs old and I like my 38yr old band teacher! I want to kiss him, help!

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18 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I really like my band teacher. he ALWAYS hugs me and kisses me on the head. he's like 38 and is my neighbor! he's not married. he always really open to me, like he'll tell me if something is bothering him. at the dance a song came on that we love and we danced, he always ... (167 words

A dear cupid STD riddle, can someone solve it?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - This is a dearcupid riddle... Who's done it??? Girl A is long distance girlfriend of Man B, but Man B also has an affair with girl C. Man B has unprotected sexual relationships with Girl A and also with Girl C. Recently Man B has had sex with Girl A in February and no... (249 words

I'm in love with my brother's girlfriend, what do I do?

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18 April 2008 (? age 36-40 - For just over 4 years now I have been in love with my brother's girlfriend and have no idea of what to do. I know that she feels the same way about me because two years and half ago she confessed her feelings to me and for six months we were seeing each other. My brother and ... (318 words

He only climaxes during oral if he gets himself off. What am I doing wrong?

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18 April 2008 (F age - please can somebody tell me what i am doing wrong. i am trying to give my partner a satisfying blow job. i am 48 and he is 57. despite reading all the advice on this site and putting it into practice he only ever climaxes by jacking himself vigourously then putting it into my ... (88 words

My boyfriend won't let me go out! What can I do? I really want to see my friend.

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - i want to go out tonight but my boyfriend soon to be x, wont let me, i did tell him not to let me spend any more money but i really want to go out, im 22 yrs old and wont see my friend for 6 months as she is moving to spain,ill only see her friday which she is having a party ... (74 words

How can I make sure my boyfriend doesn't have any STD's??

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, Me and my bf have been dating a while and the topic of sex has come up alot. Now I am a virgin and he is not and i am not ready to have sex, and he knows I am not and said he would wait fot me, so what I am worried about is Sexually Transmited Diseases, he says he does not... (86 words

Why doesn't he cum from oral?

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18 April 2008 (? age 30-35 - I love to give my bf oral, and i understand that making him cum is not everything, but he never does cum. Although he claims to enjoy it! But it puts me off doin it when i feel like i cant even make him cum. The whole on-goin argument about spit or swallow makes it very cle... (109 words

I live with my girlfriend but getting in deeper with someone else. What do I do?

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18 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, need some help! I have a gf who i live with and have done for two years. The past 6 months have been pretty crap and i ended up meeting another girl katey who is a year older than me (24). We were meeting up and having a laugh every time then it got more serious and i was ... (131 words

My brother has Aspergers Syndrome and he makes my life HELL! I don't know how to cope.

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, i'm sorry if this is pretty long, this is about my brother. i've been meaning to write for some time, but never plucked up the courage. first things first, i love my brother so much. this isn't about any sexual love AT ALL. just to get that straight, :). Well, my bro... (465 words

How do I ask her to the prom, any romantic ideas?

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18 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - a friend of mine does not have feelings for me but were friends. I like her though. I wanna ask her out to prom. Could anyone give me suggestions as u know i cannot do romantic stuff it will freak her out! Plz help means so much to me if she accepts. ... (52 words

I'm afraid I ruined my friendship with this girl by asking her out. It's ripping me apart!

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18 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - I asked this girl out a month ago. She didnt feel same. We were close friends. We did talk less after. I rang her few days ago to see how she was n she was out n busy obviously. So I said ring me wen ur free I'll call u bk. She hasn't n I txt askin if I shud call n no reply. I ... (81 words

My overseas player who never asked me for sex is playing games with me! What is his deal?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - i dnt knw where to start but i heard something about me thats soo not true..here..goes...i use to date a guy back in high school, he was a guy that every girl wanted and i was a girl that every guy wanted anyways we dated and while in high school. i'd hear rumors that he has ... (1229 words

The reason of the break was my bipolar disorder, we still see each other and kiss, should I wait for him?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend been on a break for about 3 months. The reason of the break was cuz of my bipolar. I stoped taking my pill wen I started to go out with him. And he didn't know I had bipolar. The relationship was good for the 9 month we were together. But my pers... (165 words

In a long distance relation, how to cope with the distance at our young age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

18 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - i have a boyfrined and (yes i know i am young for my age to have a bf) but the distance is killing im in (i am going to use other states not my or my bf's actual state) new york and he is all the way in florida the distance is killing us what should i do?... (58 words

Harmless flirting or does he like me

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - im confused over whether this lad likes me or not. well me n this lad have been friends for around 14 months now n we get on REALLY well. about 4 months ago he asked for my number so i gave it him n weve been texting almost everyday ever since. he compliments me a lot - saying ... (145 words

I worry about HIV, could I have caught it in a moment of madness?

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, This is probably a really stupid question but i'll ask none the less. A few years back I was really drunk and thought it was a brilliant idea to take off my shoes and go wading around in the city fountain in Leicester. I didn't get far and got out almost straight away... (200 words

With my bf for about 6 months but I have always felt really nervous about initiating anything sexual,

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, i actually posted this same querie before but it was edited so it was nothing at all to do with my problem so here it is again lol. I have been with my bf for about 6 months but i have always felt really nervous about initiating anything sexual, i have always left it to him ... (182 words

How do I know what colours suit me?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am the ty[e of girl who only wears black, grey, white clothes.. im not a goth or nything.. i just dint think colour suites me.. i really want to wear colour tho.. how do i know what colours suit me?... (41 words

I will be 21 soon and I know that I will want to go out and meet new people, but part of me just won't and can't let go of him.

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Well after reading all of these situations, I can say I feel a lot better. Heres the WHOLE STORY! Almost two years ago had broken up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years and about a month later I met this guy. Right after I met him we became unseperatable. I had two weeks until I ... (918 words

I'm confused, mixed signals, I don't know whats going on here....

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey everybody! I think i need to tell my guy friend something. I like to hang out with him and go running with him and we have a lot in common. However, through some of the things he does I feel that he just wants to be more than friends for now. I am happy with that too as my ... (377 words

Ok to use something like certain dry even if you are not diagnosed with a condition such as axillary hyperhidrosis?

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - hey i DONT have mega sweating problems and dont sweat an awful lot, however no deodorants seem to work on me. I asked about this a cou[ple of months ago and was advised by several to get certain dri anti-perspirant. i am only just getting round to looking into this due to... (106 words

I don't know what to do,my boyfriend of a year and half has a commitment problem

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of a year and half has a commitment problem. I asked him what his plans were and now he has said he wants a break. I dont know what to do as I love him alot but I dont know what he wants. He said he wants a break as he feels pressured but today at work he h... (81 words

Can anyone help me I don't feeel well right now!

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Please can somebody help me ? i am 14 ( 15 on tuesday) and i came on my period 2-3 hours ago. and since then i have feel nauseaic, i am shaking like a leave and feel like i am going to be sick, crying lots. I know most of these happen when you are on your period but this ... (119 words

Now I like him but not allowed to see him

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone, i had just recently wrote about a guy younger then me that i felt liked me..i had thought a lot about it and realized that if he asked me out i would say yes as i realized i do have feelings for him. last night was one of the nights that we gather together... (447 words

Advice on my bob hairstyle?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey all i was just lookin for some advice i have a bob hairstyle.. its like as short aas victoria beckhams and that very style..but is there anything else i can so with it apart from keep it straight an bob like? i fancy a change but not a huge one lol xx... (57 words

My Fiance broke it off with me because he said I have a lot of issues and I need to get them taking care of

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - My Finance broke it off with me because he said i have a lot of issues and i need to get them taking care of. I doesn't make sense to me hes not helping me hes hurting me. Hes my push he stopped me from cutting. He takes all my pain away. I love him with all my heart N i ... (187 words

Should I hang on to my online guy?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello. I will be as short as I can. I am pretty much a loner, apart from a few acquaintances, my problem is that I don't like any of these people. I have had an online relationship with a guy for about three years, and I am now holding onto this relationship for dear life, a... (165 words

How do I go about kissing my bf of 5 months?

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18 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months, and i want to kiss him, but i dont know how and i dont want to feel like an idiot. Any sugestions?... (32 words

On BC. Can you still take the pills at your usual time even though, the clocks has changed?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello, dear members. When the clock automactically sets 1 hour more because, of the the seasonal change do I keep taking my pills at the original time? For instance. My pill time should be always 6:05pm. Since, the clock changed it's 7:05pm. Do I keep taking it at t... (91 words

Should I confront my freind about calling me ugly or should I just forget about it?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid, in january i was talking to this boy on msn and he catches my freinds bus.he asked my freinds what i look like and one of my freinds on the bus told me that there were bad comments being said by my freinds.there was an argument about this before but it died down... (144 words

I have always been quite shy about initiating sex and initiating kisses -tips?

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, i have been seeing my boyfriend for about 6 months but i have always been quite shy about initiating sex and initiating kisses etc. i don't know why it makes me nervous, but it does. Recently my bf says he doesnt like having to initiate everything anymore, it makes him feel ... (197 words

I don't want to play games and don't want to seem clingy although I feel it inside-what do I do?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi,i have started seeing this guy,we have seen each other over the course of a few days now, we both seemed to get on really well, the last time i saw him we went to his place, i forgot my coat!(honestly), i called to apologize(after all i certainly didnt want him to think i ... (384 words

Help please for the sake of my baby, my life is such a mess!

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - my life is in real mess now. i fell in love wid another guy while bein married. i disclosed dis to my husband and wanted to seperate from him. but he insisted on staying together adue to his conservative family background. v stopped all physical relations amongst us and i ... (417 words

What is the term used for cousins in real love?

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18 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - What is the term used for cousins in real love?... (10 words

Should he stay a virgin?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

18 April 2008 (F - Hi all, I find it really disturbing that one of our Aunts (WE ALL KNOW WHO) is ranting and raving over religion. He is clearly very disturbed, and should anyone that has such extreme views be giving advice? We are all entitled to believe in what we like, but this man is tr... (100 words

He gets defensive when I talk about our sex life and porn! How do I talk to him?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I really need some relationship advice. I live with my boyfriend and at first everything was perfect. Then we got near to Christmas and it all started going wrong, I know he used to have a problem smoking cannabis but he quit a yr and a half ago. Well he started up again and ... (497 words

How can I re-kindle love?

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18 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - I still have feelings for my ex. I call him sometimes and sometimes he calls me. I recently told him that I wanted to see him and he agreed. When I went to see him he acted like it was the first time he had seen me. He stared at me and when I looked up he acted as if he wasn't ... (137 words

Any usefull advice on how NOT to get stretch marks?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi all, I have found out I am pregant but I am terrified about getting stretch marks. Can anyone suggest anything that actually WORKS that I can use to prevent this? I know people will prob slate me saying I am vain and its the last thing I should be thinking about and joys of m... (186 words

Questions about the olympic Games! Why is there so much trouble?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

18 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hello, I see all the things on TV with the olympic tourch but I dont really understand what the protests are for. What did China do that was wrong and why are people doing this? Why didnt people want China to have the Olympics? Sorry if this is a stupid question. I asked my teac... (83 words

Can I trust her, even though she still see's her ex?

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18 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - My post is pretty long, but its a collection of things... If anyone would read through it and possibly give me some advice here... It would be great. I feel like I am falling apart, I cant eat, sleep, or think strait... I need some answers.. So, I seem to find my self beco... (809 words

What can I do knowing that she's out there with some guy being all happy?

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18 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi All, my ex gf of 2 years broke up with me about 2 months ago saying that she didnt have *them* feelings for me anymore. We had a hard last few months of both of us not really being interested, and making little effort. I guess I knew it was coming, although it was still a ... (254 words

I feel my Boyfriend is really depressed! any advice please?

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend is really depressed, he is going through a divorce, has a 4 year old little boy, his job is not secure and therefore money is extremely tight for him so he has the added stress of not being able to pay the morgage and bills, he has his mother constantly on his case ... (194 words

What predominantly makes a relationship "tick"?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm in a pickle and caught between 2 men who I love for different traits and reasons... I was with my ex boyfriend for a year, lived together, the relationship was more based around me being attracted to his personality than looks, and we have an amazing chemistry, we ju... (175 words

How can I get hubby to pay a little attention to me and not spend as much time on the computer?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - When my husband gets home from work he goes right to his computer and I would like him to spend a little time with me but he says I am being selfish. Am I being Selfish?... (40 words

Why doesn't he say the three magic words I want to hear?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. We are so loving towards each other......looking into each others eyes......kissing my eye lids........etc...... But, he hasn't said the 3 words.....I love you. I keep wanting to say it so bad, but I am scared. I am... (117 words

I really tried to forget her, and continue my life so what is going on now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

18 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - we broke up 2 months before.we met again after a month and we said that we would have contact in order to understand if the things that made us break it,had been overcome.i couldn't though act to her like i didn't want her madly.so i told her to stop yhis contact.i didn;t call ... (229 words

Two Q's..Why do people have sex changes?-Why are teacher/pupil relationships against the law?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Just out of interest, I have 2 questions which i'd like answers to; Why do people have sex changes? - I know it isn't exactly common, but why can't a person just accept the gender they are! I thought maybe it's because they have feelings for the same sex but are afraid ... (126 words

How not to appeal to their interests and have them see me as a mere friend?

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I don't consider myself to be all that attractive, but obviously some people are attracted to me. How do i not appeal to men. I'm the kind of person who get's along better with males than females and I assosciate in a crowd that is heavily male populated. I find myself chatting ... (139 words

He says he hasn't cheated on me or met with anyone. what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - What should I do. I have been married for 14 Years. We dated two years before we got married.Well last year my husband started acting weird. It all started when we switched cell phone companies. He started playing games on his phone. Then he decides he wants text mess on our ... (516 words

I'm pregnant, he is cheating , he is denying the baby and I am stressed out of my mind.

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am 24 and 5 months pregnant,i have dated my boyfriend for 5 years.on our 3rd year together he accused me of sleeping with his friend, he would not listen and he did not believe me when i told him that we did not have sex. then last year he accused me of sleeping with his ... (308 words

Is it ok to have relationship with my aunts ex husband?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - is it wrong to start an extra marital relationship with my aunts ex husband? is he still legally classed as my uncle?... (22 words

His ex saying bad things about me while I was away broke us up, now she is back with him again, what do I do?

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I was dating this guy for 9 months, i went on holiday over the christmas period and his exgirlfrind kept calling him and telling him i was seing someone else, i found out she was calling him so i kept asking him questions i became paranoid, we broke up because i was always ... (88 words

Could he be trying to split us by telling my bf that I kissed him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Sorry this is going to be long and complicated but i really need some advice. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we are very happy together, i love him so much. The problem is his friend kissed me recently, i pulled back straight away and told him to keep away... (224 words

Why do some married men think it is ok to watch porn?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

18 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - Why do some married men think it is ok to watch porn? I dont see how that is respecting their vow to forsake all others and cherish their wives...Im not religious but believe in commitment in marriage. If I share my body with a man I fee that is a really special thing which is ... (265 words

How do I avoid having sex with him?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Please help. So I'm going to this guy I'm dating's house today for lunch. The thing is 2 weeks ago we hung out at his place and we had sex. We used to date about 2 years ago and we stopped talking and now we met up again (about 2 months ago). I don't want him to think that I'm ... (113 words

Can "shemales" become parents?

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18 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have 2 Questions 1. Can Shemales become pregnant 2. Could Shemales make a Lady Pregnant... (18 words

He's giving me mixed messages-Should I leave him alone or am I overreacting?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I met this really nice guy at a company party 2 1/2 months ago. We got along very good, and things seemed nice. We went on our first date to a nice restaurant, and after went back to his apartment and ended up having sex. Since then, we have been very close and talk on the ... (154 words

Husband of 5yrs, two children, living seret life of porn and secret e-mail addresses!

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I recently had a baby, he's 2 months now. About 3 weeks ago I left my husband for a week so we could get some issues settled so we could continue our marriage happily. We also have one other child that is almost 4 yrs. old now. I'm breastfeeding the 2 month old and if you know ... (253 words

Why is it that some people in this world always think that just because there are other people also suffering in this world the problem that you have is nothing?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Why is it that some people in this world always think that just because there are other people also suffering in this world the problem that you have is nothing? Yes there are people in this world going through worse things that you and yes we are grateful for our blessings and ... (187 words

It is horrible feeling like your happiness depends on someone else. How do I change this?

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18 April 2008 (F - My self opinion is based on what other people think of me, and so if i dont have a bf I feel like i am worthless and not loveable. I hate feeling like this. It is horrible feeling like your happiness depends on someone else. How do i change this? Ive tried self esteem activiti... (338 words

Why does he keep flirting with my friend!

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - every time me and my boyfriend hang out with one of my best friends he seems to always flirt with her. whenever we arent with her he says we should go hang out with her. what should I do???... (39 words

I need advice on tonghts date with my friend

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18 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am really nervous bout tonight. I have a friend comming over for a nice dinner and a move.this is a big thing, because she lives bout an hour from me. At first i didnt think anything bout it, just two friends having dinner and a movie. I joked on the phone the other to her, ... (123 words

I need advice on how to meet girls or go up to girls in normal places ie clubs, bars, etc for a threesome

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I need advice on how to meet girls or go up to girls in normal places ie clubs, bars, etc for a threesome?? I know there are books written giving guides or opener lines to use, tips, strategies etc. But wondering if anyone has any suggestions or ideas or better yet EXPERIENCE ... (368 words

What should I do?? Desperate for advice.

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 16 and a sophomore in High School. I am absolutley madly in love with my World Studies teacher. He's married and has two kids. I think he is about 38. At the beginning of the year I didn't really have feelings for him. Then, I started to fantasize about him. I tried my ... (128 words

Any inspirational words to help me move on guys?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I had a relationship with a girl and I met her in a bad point in her life when she had no one else. Basically long story short is that I did everything for her to turn her life around - got her out of the wrong crowd, beat alcoholism, let her live with me for free, found her ... (565 words

I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm terrified!

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - So I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm terrified. I do love my fiance but I'm not passionately madly in love with him. He is a wonderful man and I think I would regret it if I left him. Can love build? Should I really try and make this work or is hopeless? I don't want to ... (79 words

I can't erect when with my girlfriend please help!

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18 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - so this just started like 2 weeks ago. now i never had a problem getting rock hard before and i can get hard to beat off but just not when we wana have sex. i dont know why or whats wrong. if i watch porn it goes right up and everythings ok but with her it just wont get fully ... (89 words

Did I scare him away by appearing to eager?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I like this guy in my english class. Long story short, on Sunday, I asked him if he wanted to get lunch or possibly dinner with me one day. He said he was free on Monday after our english class. We went out and had the best time. He was funny, cute and very entertaining. He ... (262 words

Need advice, does she like me as more than a friend?

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18 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello you guys i need help well you see i had a friend from 9 month ago we were the best of friends all of a sudden she appeard TODAY!. But when i tend to be open minded about somethings she tells me to shut up and sort.What do i do i mean we used to argue everytime she arrived ... (325 words

My periods are not normal and I'm worried in case it's serious.

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I am 24 years old female from India. I started to masturbate since 16 years. My periods are regular at present. Last month i had a problem with my periods got extended, normally i have my periods at the max of 7 time, but last month even after 7 days, i saw blood, t... (129 words

I had a period, but could I still be pregnant?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend 4 days before my period was due. He came in me. 3 times. I did get my period, but I'm still a bit worried that this doesn't definitely mean I'm not pregnant? Is there a chance I am? ... (50 words

Did I frigten him away by telling him that I care about him?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - He sent me an emial asking how I was and I replied to him, and among other things I said that I do care about me friends and he's certainly a very very dear one, he didn't reply. The thing is that I don't know if he thought I wasn't serious, cuz we only met once and then by ... (102 words

Can you get pregnant by injecting sperm?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am just wondering the possibilities of getting pregnant by putting sperm in yourself around your ovulation... My girlfriend and I want a baby.. we are trying to take the cheap way my brother is donating the sperm..... (38 words

Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a bad or good thing?

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18 April 2008 (M - Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a good or a bad thing? Sure you don't feel like it so why shouldn't you say no? But is that the sort of way you'd like your partner to treat you when you're the one wanting it? Personally if my partner wanted sex then we'd ha... (231 words

I want him to find a girl already so he won't like her and come back! How long should I wait?

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18 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 14 months. Recently, he decided that he needed to break up with me to date other people. I'm sad that this has to happen but I do agree that he needs to go out there and date (as much as it would hurt me to know that he will be ... (197 words

He's moody and blunt, does this mean he's not serious about me?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, ok me an my bf have been daten for 4 months now it been great ive been so happy but l8y he has been so moody an very blunt towards me, i thought it was because im always there so thought i would go home for a few nights but then he spits it... he wont talk to me bout it, is ... (73 words

I want her back even though she's moved on. How can I regain her love?

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18 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - I was in a year and a half long relationship with someone i absolutly love with all my heart. I inevitably drove her out of my life because i was scared of being hurt. she did'nt want to break up but i insisted i needed time to figure out what i wanted. I know know i want her... (173 words

Why does my boyfriend deny everything he felt now that we have broken up?

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay. me and my boyfriend of 4 months broke up yesterday. i still loved him tremendously, yes we were young. 14. but i know i was in love. well anyways he ended it because he had to catch up on school and his sports because he was falling behind. I respect that reason to be ... (227 words

I'm pregnant and found out my boyfriend is still seeing his ex! I'm so sick and drained....

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18 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok so im 5 and a half months pregnant and it was unplanned my bf is 5 years old than me. He was more pleased about the baby than i was and he wanted us to get married. But 2 weeks ago I found out he was still seeing his ex. He texts her everyday and when i ask him who it is he ... (287 words

How can I win her over, even thought she doesn't like me?

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18 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - I fancy this girl but she doesn't like me back. Does anybody have any tips to win her over.... (20 words

Is she playing a game with me by avoiding me?

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18 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - I like this girl, she first showed an interest in me and now that I'm trying to spend time with her it feels like she's avoiding me. Did I do something wrong or is she playing a game with me?... (40 words

Did I scare him away by leaving a "freaky" message on his voicemail?

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18 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok.. I am in some desperate need of advice. I just started dating one of my sisters friends. I met him a while ago but have only been talking to him for like 4 days. There is a strong sexual connection between us and really thats the only reason we were going to hook up. Even ... (131 words

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