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relationship help and advice

I've kissed many guys before, and wouldnt normally get worked up however this feels a lot more nerve-wracking

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - Okay a while ago i auditioined for the part mariah in the show west side story, with the local acting school. i got the part and one of my other good friends got the part as tony. Wev been working on the play for a while now and are getting closer to the final performa... (250 words

How do I establish that I don't want sex with a guy in a way that he won't try to pressure me into it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I just finished my freshman year of college. I recently (5-6 months ago) broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, my first real relationship. I’ve been trying to get myself back into a dating for some time now, but in all honesty, I don’t think I’m ready yet. I still think about ... (342 words


   

I sweat too much! what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - hi everyone ok this question is a little weird i know that this happens to everyone but its terrible! ok its really embarrassing to talk about but i suffer from excessive sweating and i dont know how to control it ive taken pills, ive tried medicaations i dont know what to do ... (82 words

I want to be able to move on or get him back?

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26 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - okay i have been on this site with lots of questions and i have recieved alot of help that i am grateful for. I have a new problem tho, my life seems to be full of them lol MY boyfriend and me split up like 2 weeks ago, he is moving on and its killing me on the inside, yes we ... (196 words

Is she interested, not sure, or just politely saying no?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - hello all, I've recently been showing an interest in a girl at my local church, we both get along fine and talk to eachother.I emailed her to suggest we watch a film sometime. She emailed me back a few days later and said she will do a film sometime. However firstly, she ment... (103 words

   

Is he gay? He's my first gay love help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

26 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - Im 16 bi and I met this guy about 6 months ago, at first it seems like nothing special but later on I started to like him. Where not friends but know each other. He doesnt know that Im bi but I acted like one. He's my first gay love and would like to know if hes gay or bi too. ... (240 words

Do I have a butt fetish here? Anyone else? Does it make me a pervet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

26 April 2008 (M age 51-59 - Ladies, do you like it when a guy kisses and licks your butt cheeks? Does it make you sexually aroused? The reason I ask is I love doing this for a woman. I think a woman's butt is the sexiest part of her body, so when I see a woman's bare butt, I want to smother her butt ... (91 words

Do I let him go or keep trying to capture his attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - there is this guy i liked for 8 years we are friends..... and he knows i like him. and i feel he does too.. sometimes he says i love u.... he sometime flirts with me... and gets red when he sees me..... and everytime we see each other he gets red and we see each other eye ... (143 words

I complain that he does not care, he complains that I am unkind... What should we do?

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26 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Im 24, my bf 28, we are together for 4 years. now we have a lot of problems, we wait to be with each other, but on the other hand, I complain that he doesnt care about me, and he complains that im not kind with him, and i exagerate every little thing, he is not punctual,and ... (109 words

My girlfriend's parents pretend that I buy all that is necessary to their daughter! I'm her partner, not her sustainer!

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26 April 2008 (M - The parents of my gf is getting on my last nerve(The father is who I dislike the most). On one end I have the mother telling her to get what she can and what ever she does get paid for it. And on the other side the father is telling me that it is my job to take care of her. No... (292 words

Some of the kisses were initiated by her on the few occasions we were close... why the sudden withdrawal?? I wanted to be with her.

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26 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - Hey, This is an issue that has been bugging me a lot over the past few days. I met a girl at work, and we kissed on the way home. We met up a few days later, and spent pretty much all night together, kissing all the way, some I was starting off and others she would be lean... (200 words

My best friend and I have kissed, but we have not yet discussed about us? What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - My problem is about my best friend who is a boy. Ever since we met, we always had a connection and there's always been something there. Recently, we have spent a lot of time together and one day, we kissed. It felt so right and from then I began to like him alot. Now I ... (108 words

He says he loves me but he says it sarcastically at times, I have doubts he does...

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26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - hi all.... i have a question ok im madly in love with my boyfriend and he tells me he loves me all the time but sometimes he says it with sarcasm and it makes me think is he just saying it to make me happy? but also we have been trying to get pregnant since september of 07 and ... (166 words

I feel really bad as I can't help thinking I'm wrecking a family apart. We've gone as far as kissing, what now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F - O.k i REALLY need help with this. theres this guy (we will call him john) whos ive known for 10 years. he was my brother and cousins best mate. and he still is but they dont see each other much. well my mate is going out with his brother and john and i have been spending mor... (344 words

How do I buy a pregnancy test or ask someone to buy it for me without being judgemental? How does alcohol affect pregnancies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - I feel that I'm pregnant. By reading a lot of questions and answers to those who do think they are pregnant, I know that I should consider taking a pregnancy test... I had sex in February, February 12 to be exact. I have been having my periods irregularly, which only last ... (289 words

I've eaten some raw meat without realising you had to cook it first!!

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26 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - This might not appear much of a big deal to you guys, but I've eaten some raw meat without realising you had to cook it first! What's the likelyhood I'll get food poisoning? I'm kinda worried because I got an oral exam on Monday and MUST attend school that day!... (52 words

Why this endless flirting that doesn't state his intentions openly? How can I make him be more direct?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Why love is so complicated?why guys act like women?Why they don't make the big step?What they are afraid? I'm in love with a man that God he is so smart,so charmy..and so mature! He started first flirting with me...he always looks at me secretly..he smiles to me..he shows his... (139 words

I want to be free of her, but I'm worried it'll break her heart.

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26 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have a girlfriend which happens to be my officemate. She is very possessive, a very jealous type of person, and always talks about my past especially my ex so we ended up fighting everyday. I can't be myself whenever i am with her, my family don't like her, and she don't like ... (130 words

He's flirting with me, but is he really interested in me?

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26 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - This guy I really like flirts with me, nothing explicit, just like smiling, staring and winking at me. However, I know he has a girlfriend. Not knowing his current situation with his girlfriend, they maybe on the verge of breaking up for all I know...does anyone have any ... (77 words

Is it normal that I find it very relaxing to watch porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

26 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - Is it normal that i find it very relaxing to watch porn?... (12 words

I want to know if you think he likes me by the way he acts around me.

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26 April 2008 (F age 10-12 - I really like this boy and he knows that i like him, but were still friends. Anyway he is really nice, great personality and drop dead gorgeous. I don't know if he likes me though because he flirts with everyone, but we always play-insult eachother When he sees me he alway... (67 words

I am 18 and he is 27 and we're in love. Could problems arise with this age difference between us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hello all, I recently got involved with a man a fair bit older than I. We both new that it was probably not a good idea, but we just fell in love. I am 18 and he is 27. He is very kind and polite, he does not rush me in anything. Are there problems that could arise that I... (87 words

How can I make him interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hello! I need you to help understand something and maybe give me some tips on what I should do. There's a friend I've know since I was 9. We were at school together for 4 years. We were kids back then but we always got along very well. I haven't seen him for a quite lon... (203 words

I don't have a boyfriend, it's not because I don't want one, it's because I hate men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - I am a high school student of 17 years, but still do not have a boyfriend, not because i don't want to - but that i hate men, and partly because my friends are the same as i am. So i feel strong in that decision, but sometimes i fear i might just end up like this. Please i need... (66 words

My parents are constantly complaining. I'm doing everything properly, so why??

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26 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - My parents stop me or complain constantly when i do things properly. I play the organ, cycle and run alot and most recently i have taken up karate. I stay active as a way to control my agression. However my parents constantly have a go saying i am crazy mental and over the top ... (104 words

What will he think of my new hairdo?

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26 April 2008 (F age - I feel great!! Went to the hairdresser and got a new hairdo. I've always cut my hair in the past but just decided I wanted something different after all these years with the same look. Also, it's distracting me in a nice way from obsessing with my attraction to Al. I have bac... (78 words

What's her game plan and what is she up to?

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26 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - Opinion please. I go out with a girl for two years, I find out she has being seeing someone else by chance… I don’t know the full details but I say, fair enough and walk away heartbroken, but maintain my dignity. Weeks later she comes to me with some tale about getting ... (442 words

I became closed after my first relationship (with a manipulator) and it's affecting my current relation. How do I learn to GIVE again?

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26 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I need help learning to love and give again... When I was younger (18) I was involved in a relationship with someone much older. It took 3 years to figure out that he was someone with big issues and my continous pouring of love into the relationship was like filling a bucket... (420 words

I am always falling for the wrong guys, is there something I am doing wrong?

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26 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - I have just turned 16 and I have come to realize that I am a fairly attractive, confident young lady and I have been getting plenty of attention from the opposite sex. But I have realized a pattern: either I like a guy and he has no idea that I exist, or I think that I lik... (110 words

Is my best friend jealous? Is she even my friend?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - -When I tell her who I like, she either puts them down or starts flirting/talking with them and when I ask later on what she was doing she says whatever she wants. I'm not the only person she does this to. -I'll say "I'm sexy" and things of that nature (when everyone includin... (214 words

My first time sex did not hurt, only after the act I felt pain in the stomach. Is it normal?

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26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi again. My bf and I decided to have sex last night, and I was wondering since I was a virgin it didn't hurt when he went inside me is that a problem cause I heard that it hurts, I'm so confused. And after that my stomach started hurtin what's up with that. Thanx... (54 words

How do you deal with someone who wants more from you, without being mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (M age 22-25 - When growing up one of the hardest distinctions to impose is between love and a fumble. I have both been involved in sexual encounters that I wanted to pursue further (but they didn't), or ones that they wanted to take to the dating stage (but I didn't). It's rare a one night ... (221 words

Pregnancy risk in case of anal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend is 22 years older than me and I am 29 year old female and underweight but healthy. We had anal sex and he ejaculated in me without a condom. He did not ejaculate anywhere else. Is there a pregnancy risk here?... (43 words

Not sure what to do... my husband had a 1 year affair.

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26 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I don't know what to do..my husband had a year long affair and a close connection with the other woman. I found out through his phone - lots of text messages and he confessed. He immediately stopped all contact with her and is extremely remorseful. I just don't know if I can ... (211 words

Confused by the way a teacher acts.

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26 April 2008 (F age 13-15 - If one of your teachers makes constant eye contact with you during class and outside of class whenever you see him what could it possibly mean. He blushes whenever you are with him or say hi to him and turns really red even though your behaviour is normal and not flirty or ... (111 words

What compliments do women like to hear?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

26 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello Everyone Thanks for taking the time for reading this question. I'd like to know, what do women like to hear when you are trying to compliment them (in letter or in person), e.g your beautiful, sexy, your my best friend, I love being in your company........etc La... (69 words

We were in the middle of sex and he ran out to watch a match! Tired of his obsession for footbal!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Well me and my boyfriend have been together a year and half now, and everything is great. We have a great time, we're both completely loyal, we both love each other to pieces. I know you're probably thinking "What's the problem here?" The problem is this... He is way too ob... (155 words

Survey: how many of you (women) have climaxed during one night stands?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Non Scientific Survey Etc But how many of you (women) have had an organism on a one night stand - with someone you literally met for the first time on that night - .. not with someone you have known casually for a while - or a friend with benefits etc ... (55 words

I want to immigrate without expense of a single penny, is there a legal way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I am Indian. I want to immigrate in any of developed Countries but I don't have handful of money. Is there any way out to be married and settled in any other Country without expense of a single penny? I am ready to accept any terms and conditions.Looks... (62 words

What do you feel about the issue of men watching porn together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - (1).what is the opinion of both men and women about the issue of men watching porn together, even if it is heterosexual porn. (2). My husband likes to go a football game in Florida every year, which I have not caused commotion about. Sometimes he goes with a longtime college... (176 words

My fiance slept with my acquaintance during a brief split, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - I came accross this website because I was searching online for answers to my situation. I met this wonderful girl when she newly relocated to my city in Ohio. She's highly educated, professional, corporate, we clicked so magically, intellectually, socially, interests, value... (409 words

I don't want to abandon him while he destroys himself, but at the same time I don't want to destroy myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I'm having serious issues with my ex. He broke up with me because of his low self-esteem and his misplaced belief that I am too young for him. I was absolutely devastated, still am, because it was the last think I expected and I thought we were perfect together. As it is ... (446 words

I'm beginning to lose the urge to want to be intimate with my boyfriend of 7 years, and I find myself attracted to a young lady in the net! What to do?

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26 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have a boyfriend and we've been living together for the past 7 years. i love him, and am very used to have him in my life, but i'm beginning to lose the urge to want to get intimate with him. we're very busy with our work...sometimes we don't even get to talk to each other ... (327 words

How can I make a man tell me what he feels about me?

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26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - How can make a man tell me what he feel?I mean i understand that he want me..he is flirting me he laugh with me all the time..he smiles to me!and sometimes i catch him looking at me and then he turn his look!That shows that he is shy?But he is 30..he must be more..of a man..... (56 words

My friend wants to trick her parents into leaving the house to go on a date, how'd she do that?

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26 April 2008 (F age 10-12 - my friend going to the cinema on a date with a boy who asked her out so she needs help 1.how can she get out the house without telling her parents 2.what shold she do like hand holding stuff like that 3.how shuld she act 4.he said he was gonna spend money on her but how ... (96 words

Can women have orgasms from anal sex? Do certain prefer this form of sex to regular sex?

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26 April 2008 (M age 51-59 - Can women have orgasms from anal sex? I had read in the past that women could not orgasm from anal sex, but in recent years I've been read conflicting things about it, mainly that some women do enjoy anal sex. I had been lead to believe that most women hate anal sex because it ... (96 words

Do you think he's being immature with the details of his exes and the jokes about marriage and kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I've been dating my man for about 2 months now and we're in love. At least I think so. He hasn't said the L-word yet and he won't talk about marrying me (instead jokingly, but I don't take it seriously and neither does he). Sometimes he jokes with me about having babies and ... (736 words

Does love fade in time? He doesn't make me feel as special as once...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - is there such a thing as not loving someone the same? i love my boyfriend very deeply, and he loves me, but there are moments that i think that he doesn't love me as mch as i love him. but when we talk it seems as though his way of loving someone is different. there... (186 words

My boyfriend judged me because of my past and the fact I lied about it, so he dumped me! My self esteem is on the rocks now.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I'm so sad now! I've been dealing with a lot of insecurities and negative emotions, because I have low self esteem and lately it had been sabotaging my life, etc... I was just very low and had support mostly from my family and BF because I have no close friends. But ... (542 words

How can I be more outgoing and fun for my boyfriend?

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26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - How do I become more outgoing and fun and not scared to talk to people. Me and my boy friend been on a break for 3 months now. Next week we going out to dinner. I want to show him how out going and fun im. How do I do that.... (52 words

I am so tense and jumpy in intimacy, how can I become more relaxed??

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26 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - How can I relax enough to be intimate with my boyfriend? I want to do things with him and when I do, it feels wonderful, but I am so tense and jumpy. I freak out when we try something new and I just cant relax beacause I am so scared. When something feels so good, I push it ... (94 words

Penetrative sex gives me no pleasure, why?

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26 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend nearly two years and first tried penetrative sex about 6 months ago, but I don't get any pleasure from it. I come when I do other things with him (oral, etc) but penetration for me does not feel nice or sexy at all, I lie there waiting for it to ... (145 words

My boyfriend of 2 years makes me feel... insignificant. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Ok I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. Lately theres been a few things that have really gotten me upset. 1. This morning (I stayed over at his the night before) we both woke up to his phone ringing, it was his friend. When he hung up, he jumped up got dr... (242 words

Is this statement meant to protect my feelings (about not having enjoyed the one night stand)?

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26 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - My partner had a one night stand recently. I ma not very happy as you can imagine. one comfort though is she claims she did not enjoy it at all and did not have an orgasm with the man she slept with. I find this difficult to believe - is it possible for a woman to have a one ... (74 words

What should I do to break the ice and get my ex to talk to me again?

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26 April 2008 (M age 18-21 - what should i do to break the ice and get her to talk to me again? Me and my ex have a complicated history, weve dated twice and it hasnt really worked out, i really care about her even now 9 months on.Shes my first and only real love. Anyhows she's with someone ele... (158 words

I love him but is our relationship doomed if we don't want the same things?

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26 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I am 28 and have a 9 year old daughter. I am in a long term relationship with a man for 5 years. I desperatly want to get married and have done for 2 years but he's not having it, coming up with excuses. I have recently moved 300 miles away from friends and family to move... (122 words

Every time we have got back together, it has always ended the same way: he gradually loses interest! I'm trying to understand his behaviour!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 68 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, About 4 years ago I met this guy and we went out for a few weeks. I was a bit dubious about going out with him because he was 8 years younger than me, but he seemed charming so i thought what the hell, age is just a number! Anyway he was really nice at first, taking me... (485 words

We live in different countries, am I being paranoid about his not returning my calls in the past week?

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26 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend hasnt called in a week and he used to call daily.does that mean he's not interested anymore.I have dropped messages,called him but he wasnt picking the calls,or am i being paranoid,he could be sick or out of the country? Didi i mention we dont stay in the same cou... (72 words

I cannot let him choose between his family and I, but how to forget him since we work together?

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26 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - My close friend told me about 7 months that he loved me and i was so shocked, but then i realised i liked him too... the situation was difficult because he was married but seperated and we work together so we were I guess sneaking around. He is Indian and totally my "one"... (269 words

I want to go abroad and teach for a short period, has anyone done this or know how I go about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - Bit of a break from relationship worries... I want to go abroad and teach - one of those trips where you go to China or Argentinia and teach English. I don't want to have to pay for the trip - I will go as a volunteer, but a friend said you can get some places that will pa... (134 words

Constant stomach pain, Could it be serious?

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26 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - Hi! I'm concerned about a stomach pain i've had for about 3 weeks! It's similar to period pain but not as low down, and the pain started as 'the time of the month' was approaching. Anyway they finished over a week ago and still... i'm havin bad pain. It's constant aswel, s... (133 words

I'm constantly just too tired for sex!

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26 April 2008 (? age 16-17 - I'm having a real big problem here. My boyfriend is CONSTANTLY horny. And I am CONSTANTLY tired. When we have sex, I do love it. He always makes sure I orgasm, and he always cums at least twice. It's just, I don't have the energy for sex every night. I've been to the... (154 words

He still keeps referring to the fact about how skinny I am, is he just insecure?

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26 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I got drunk at a friend's wedding 2 months ago and hooked up with a "sorta-friend" (sorta-friends as in we've known each other for a few years, have mutual friends but only ever hung out at big events like birthdays or large parties)! Before that night, I had never been ... (641 words

How do I make myself appear more intersesting?

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26 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - im a quieter person with few friends, but am good at making smalltalk with ppl. when ppl meet me for the first time, in a social situation, i say hi and make small talk, ask them about themselves, try to appear interested etc, but.. then they often loose interest and ... (164 words

Please I need your help to ask this guy out?

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26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - i like this guy. but we've never talked, he always look at me . it seems he likes me too. but i don't know what to do. i tried once to ask him out but i was shy. i don't know what to tell him. please i need your help. ... (50 words

I am not sure how to say goodbye to his daughter. I really like the kid, and will miss her.

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26 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - I just broke up with my boyfriend. When we got together, he was still very involved with his ex-girlfriend, they were sleeping together, he was paying her rent, he would compliment me and say "but C can never know that I said that." He told me that she hears everything. I ... (353 words

If you had a bf/gf who was shy around your friends (but not you) would you be annoyed/upset?

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26 April 2008 (F - My question is if you had a bf/gf who was shy around your friends (but not you) would you be annoyed/upset? And would you go as far as dumping them because your friends didnt approve of your gf/bf due to their shyness? Ive only had two bfs and my first one after 8 months s... (411 words

I finished with him because he was mean so why am I bothered he is with some one else now?

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26 April 2008 (F - my ex, who i finished with 2 months ago because he was a bastard to me, slept wiv somone else lastnite and for sum reason I feel gutted. I feel like im gonna cry. I think that they are seeing each other as well. The thing that makes it worse is that this girl who he slept wiv, ... (105 words

I'm scared to let lads touch me or get close to me-is this abnormal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

26 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - This is kind of a sensitive question but one i really need help with! well my problem is that im scared to let lads touch me or get close to me and i really dont know why! im not scared of lads - just letting them see my body and touch me! im worried - is this abnormal? whats ... (62 words

I have no shortage of men willing to take me out. But the ONE guy that I really want won't give me the time of day!

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26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - So there's a guy that I CANNOT stop thinking about. I'm an attractive, popular girl, and I have no shortage of men willing to take me out. But the ONE guy that I really want won't give me the time of day, and it's driving me MAD! We've worked together for quite a while, a... (380 words

My wife does not get pleasure with lovemaking. Any tips or advice?

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26 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I got married 1.5 yr back.My height is 5.8 Ft and my wife is 5.5 Ft and having a 5.5month old baby.My penis size is 5 inches and slightly bent towards left.I experienced that my wife didnot get pleasure at the time of lovemaking. Only she get litle pleasure on puting my penis... (117 words

Do I have any chance when she thinks of me more as a brother or best friend ?

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26 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - Hello, I met this girl back during football season in like september she was a trainer and we became friends and I kinda liked her but let it go till recently i saw her and got her number.. later that day we went to the mall with two friends and the friends went wherever making ... (233 words

Should I attempt to save the marriage or get out now?

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26 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband had an emotional affair with his personal trainer. He claims they were just good friends but she had a key to his apt., and there were many texts and calls over a period of several months. Should I attempt to save the marriage or get out now?... (50 words

I just want to know if I like men...but I'm challenging that, to know for sure if I do or not.

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26 April 2008 (F age 22-25 - I am doubting my love for my b/f because of questioning sexuality. I asked a question just a week ago and people said that I should stick with him (and i want to) because I love him, but I'm questioning that now. I'm questioning if i truly am attracted to him (eventhough a week... (151 words

Is it okay to date or have a sexual relationship with your cousin?

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26 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - I haven't seen my second cousin in 28 years and she a complete knock out. I asked her if she wanted to do lunch and she accepted. We did lunch. I'm just not sure if it's okay to continue this fraternizing. We talk a lot with each other. We have good communication with each ... (191 words

What does it mean when your ex calls you rather late at night after being out with another girl socially?

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26 April 2008 (F - My ex and I broke up about two months ago. We have known eachother for a year and dated for 9 months. He has been going out with or flirting with a couple of different girls, one in particular, and last night he called me late, after being out at a bar with her and her ... (507 words

I suffer from acne, and I don't want to use the stuff my doctor prescribed.

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26 April 2008 (F age 10-12 - Ok this isn't an actual problem or anything, i just need to know something. I turn 13 soon and have acne. My doctor says it's hormonal and gave me something called 'Duac'. I want to start using 'Dermalogica'. How old do you have to be to start using it?? Thank you!... (53 words

Why is it guys are more attracted to me when I'm not all dressed up?

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26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - I've noticed that when I try to look and dress cute, guys won't pay attention to me. But when I'm dressed down and not really lookin to meet anyone, guys will flirt with me. Like yesterday, a college student my age was trying to give ppl free quotes on decks, fences thin... (182 words

Is his porn wathching affecting our sex life?

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26 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Our sex life is not normal. I initiate sex 100% of the time, and he does it when he knows it's about time or I will be crying from the lack of sex. He does not cum unless he is back from a business trip. If it was up to him we'd probably have sex once a month. We are less than ... (262 words

Is having no sex unhealthy?

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26 April 2008 (M age 26-29 - Would it be unhealthy to remain a virgin for my whole life?... (12 words

This is the BEST and WORST situation EVER!!

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26 April 2008 (M age 16-17 - Ok, last year my dad met a woman...She is a really nice woman and I have no problem whatsoever with her. And they moved in with is. She has a daughter 1 year younger than me, and she is pretty much drop dead gorgeous. My dad and her mom are not getting married...so she's not ... (190 words

Ii had cancer...is there a link as to why I cant get pregnant?

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26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi all, i have a question. Ok now, my medical history is messed up, when i was 7 i had cancer(leukemia) and the doctors told me that there is a possibility i couldn't get pregnant. Now i'm a little freaked out that i wont be able to get pregnant, because i've been trying sinc... (117 words

Why are all these catty bitches getting on my sh*t about my boyfriend? He said we'd get back together!

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26 April 2008 (F age 16-17 - okay, well my problem is that me and my bf broke up like 2 weeks ago, but thats beside the point. He told me that once he gets school and baseball fixed (we broke up due to him not focusing on school work and feelings did change for us) we are 14.. but he said that we will ... (157 words

Is there anything my boyfriend and I can do besides sitting at home?!!

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26 April 2008 (F age 18-21 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we love each other very much. we are both at uni and we find it hard to see each other. He doesnt have his lisence but if he did he couldnt afford a car anyways so to see him i pick him up from uni some days. Im always up for ... (139 words

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