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Is he still hiding something if he gives me all his passwords?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi i have a question its kinda iffy so could all of you answer it the best u can thanks. my boyfriend gave me his password to everything that needs a password so does that mean that he has nothing to hide or does he still have something to hide but he thinks that i wont find ... (154 words

I'm moving to another State and I don't want to lose contact, how do I go about staying in touch with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, let's keep this simple. There's this guy at school who I have a HUGE crush on. Well, here's the story: I started liking him in the beginning of the last school year (Or, that's when I started acknowledging it). He sat in front of me on the bus, and we'd talk every once ... (276 words

I heard "she just doesn't like me that way". What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Rite...one my best friends is this girl I like recently weve been pretty close and everyone thinks that were headed for a relationship the thing is that 2day a mutual friend came up 2 me and asked me if I liked her...i truthfully said yes...then he tells me that he's talked... (105 words

How do I approach this girl and make small talk? I've liked her for several years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Well there is this girl that I've had a crush on since about 7th grade... and I'm now a Senior in high school. The reason I haven't made any advances with her is because I never really came out and became more outgoing until about a year ago, along with me hardly ever seeing ... (143 words

Why has he not called after the great time we had together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi,i met this fella through a friend,we arranged to meet up and seemed to both get on really great, so much so he stayed with me for nearly 4 days,took a day off work and also cancelled a previous arrangement.Anyway he has gone home now and although could have called had he ... (215 words

Can stress cause these health problems I'm experiencing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I feel as if my life is going wrong in all different aspects at the same time and I think it's starting to affect my health now as well. It's causing me stress where Im working, thats why Im looking for another job but Ive also got lack of money. Also there is lack of a ... (124 words

Will I be healed enough to have intercourse again so soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

17 April 2008 (? age 36-40 - Hey guys, this is kind of personal but i need to know some opinions as i have got loads of different accounts about this of the internet. Ok so monday night i had intercourse for the first time and i bled quite a bit and just finished today.i no longer feel sore either. ... (90 words

How do I decide my feelings about this MSN relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - right there this lad who i know likes me and we talk a lot on msn but when he rang me the other day it felt so awkward i think its because i am not sure about my feelings towards him will we only ever have an msn relationship and how can i decide on my feelings towards him ? ... (67 words

What are some side effects from taking the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey there, I was wondering if theres any side effects to using the pill, only i've heard it makes you gain weight. I'm not sure if it's true or not. Well any info would be greatly appreciated thank you! ... (43 words

He changed his password after a suspicious voicemail. Should I break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - After I find out on my boyfriend's cell phone that another left a voicemail for him by calling him baby all that, so I ask him about it and he gets mad. Now he change his cell phone password. What is that telling you guys? To me I think he cheating on me and hidding something ... (72 words

I would like to get to know him before I leave school, how to start the conversation? - I'm shy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F - Hi, I really like this boy in the year below me at school. Only im really really shy and not sure if he likes me back, im 18 and he is 17. He doesnt really know me right now, although he has acknowledged me at school a few times. Im leaving school soon and hopefully starti... (98 words

My boyfriend always wants to have sex, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - What should i do?? My boyfriend always wants 2 have sex... And i dont wat should i do??... (18 words

Should I tell her that I think her friend is gay, as I don't want her to get hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - My friend likes this guy and I think he might be gay because of the signals he has been sending her, among other things that me and other people find obvious but she thinks he might like her, and she really likes him. They have things in common and he asked her to go to a ... (190 words

How do I make my teacher kiss me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - how can i get my teacher to kiss me or like be in a relationship with me as im in love with him and i would love to share a kiss with him. im 16 and im leaving in june and i want to share a kiss or more with him at the last day. ... (57 words

How frequently is it healthy for a guy to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - hope all is well for whoever visits this site as much as i do. Pliz ladies and gentle men i have one hell of a dielma! How frequently is it healthy for a guy like between 24-30yrs to have sex, as in with a chic? Even then is it possible for a girl, especially in he... (73 words

I'm going out with my ex's friend, is this okay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

17 April 2008 (? age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend of 5yrs. We have a crazy relationship. On then off, then on again. Just recently we had a problem where we stopped talkin to for a couple of days. I decided to accept an invitation to dinner with a male friend of mines. But now my boyfriend and I are back ... (92 words

Going to write her a letter. If this was you, what would you write?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - I want to write a letter to my girlfriend and I need some good ideas. My girlfriend lives in Southern California and I live in Northern California (about 400 miles away). She is currently 5 and 1/2 months pregnant with my son. She is with her family and I am with mine. We ... (227 words

I told her I liked her many times. I have her number but don't know what to say

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - hi, Please please please someone help?? Basically, when i used to go to school, i really liked this girl who was 2 years below me, this is in upper school. I did't say anything as i was scared and all the rest. she use to smile at me all the time cos i'm sure she kne... (621 words

I bottled out of our date and made her feelo bad, but I do really like her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (M - Hi all i hope you can help me with your advice i was meant to be meeting up with a girl the other week when we went out in rite ( i was out with my mates she was out with hers) she textd me and said were she was so later on we went to this club when i was walkin pass the ... (226 words

Am I being a complete idiot and clinging onto something that isnt going to work.. or is there light at the end of the tunnel?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - Okay.. I have been seeing this guy since last July, and we hit it off straight away. He is 10 years older than me and had just come out of a 23 year relationship.. He has 2 children, one of 10 and another 20.. He moved out and rented his own flat. He has always kept in contact ... (710 words

Am I over-reacting over these nude pictures (he keeps under his pillow)?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - i dont mind my bf watching porn, but i dont like it wen he looks at pictures of naked women as this leads to him obviously fantasiing about them. he promised me he wouldnt look at pictures like that, but the other day i found pictures of naked models under his pillow and it ... (86 words

Depressed recently as the babys father, my boyfriend, has been sent to jail!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - wel i dont no wer 2 start! im 16 and 7 months pregnant but thats not the hard bit i feel really depressed recently as the babys father my boyfriend has been sent 2 jail on remand but hes not coming out for a while! but it is for the best in a way bcuz hes on drugs meanin c... (210 words

Dating step uncle right or wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1580 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a freind who is dating her step uncle, they are not related by blood at all, but is it right? because i feel i should advise my freind on this!... (32 words

We see each other 24/7 and it's suffocating me, is it normal to want to see a little less of my husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, my husband and i have been together for 5 yrs married for 3 and we constantly argue over inconsequential things... we work together and see each other 24/7 literally i think an getting to the point where want to see less of him... i kno that i should appreciate the fact ... (177 words

I have a boyfriend but I'm still not over my previous crush

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I had a crush on this guy called Paul, so i asked him out and he said no, then i got over him. Now i have a boyfriend called Josh and now i have started to like Paul again... I dont know what to do! Please help me!... (53 words

What can I do in order for him to tell me what he thinks about our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Idk what to do in order for him to tell me his information. He´s very secretive. The thing is we met like a year ago , he´s Air force and we did made click when we met,we flirted but we didn´t actually had any chance to do anything cuz he left short afterwards. But we had kep... (456 words

I love him so much but he doesn't trust me and I feel jealous abut his friend-What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - Never in my life love someone like that the way I love my boyfriend well I don't think if I should call him my boyfriend cause thing are different between us now. When I wana talk about our relationships or sex life, he always he doest like talking about those things. And when ... (448 words

Where can I get Lapdancing/Stripping lessons?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - i want to give my boyfriend a striptease or a lapdance, does anyone know any sites that have tutorials..? (preferably videos) any tips would be much apreciated. thanks!... (29 words

I want him to know how much I like him, but is he a "player"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hiya.. right i really like this boy,lets call him Ryan. Its abit confusing this whole thing. Ryan asked one of his mates for my numbrer acoiple of weeks ago and then he started texting me and added me on facecbook and stuff. So we have started to talk quite alot now, and he's ... (316 words

He is two years younger than me..but mature for his age, could it work out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a little problem... My cuzins and I gather together 3 times a week and this guy teaches us dance... Since the first day I realized that he keeps looking at me and flirting with me. Wen he teaches us the dance he keeps coming by me and holding my hand and teaching me one ... (157 words

SITE NEWS: New feature, "watched questions" list

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

17 April 2008 (M - I've added a new feature that lets you add questions to your "watched questions" page. It's just an easy way to make a list of questions that interest you and that you want to keep track of. It's easy to remove items from the list or clear it. For ages I've resisted ma... (87 words

Should I be at boyfriends all-male surprise birthday party I've arranged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I want to throw a surprise birthday weekend for my boyfriend, but the problem is that all of his friends are male. Some of his friends are married, but the wives will not be able to come because of small children they have to look after (his friends are coming from out of ... (160 words

How can I get him to genuinely like me and not wind me up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 26-29 - i really like this lad but he is 3-4 years older than me and he likes someoneelse. i talk to him on msn every nite and we flirt with each other but in his case he is just winding me up because he knows i like him. how can i get him to like me back ????... (57 words

I really need to know how early into a pregnancy you can miscarry

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - hey guys, well this might sound a bit stupid but i have a question. im on the pill, had my period about 2 weeks ago. i had sex most recently on sunday night, its now thurs. i have been having abdominal pain and cramps and today experienced some browny/red discharge. i have read ... (104 words

Is he planning to attend the same university because of me? Or could I be reading too much into that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - The man I'm interested in is coming back to town this weekend. He was out of the country for a while before then and came back for two weeks before he had to leave again for a job out of state. We spoke a little the first week, his family had a little gathering for his welcome ... (209 words

Should I contact my boyfriend's friend and ex's to find out what happend in past? And is he telling the truth about an upcoming event?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age - I am really having a problem in believing my boyfriend still. He is going to a concert on friday with one of his friends. So he says he name is Brian. He has spoken to him a few times while I was around, but won't finish the conversation until I leave his place. If I have ... (168 words

I'm suffering because of my husband's lack of affection towards me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband is not affectioniate towards me now that i am pregnant, i feel so alone and not loved, What should i do? please help... (25 words

I want to look sexy, but how should I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi all i need some help on this okay now my boyfriend is leaving today to go hunting with his friend and his dad and we wont be back until sunday but i wont be able to see him until monday and i really want to do something very sexy for him he tellsme that i have great sex ... (126 words

How long to fall pregnant after sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - My current girlfriend fell pregnant two months after she was dumped by her former boyfriend. Is it possible that her former boyfriend is the father of the child? Some people are suggesting that she might have slept with someone else after the split-up before she met me. Please ... (49 words

How do we get out of the same old boring routine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - i am in an almost 5yr relationship w/ my byfrnd. i am 34 he is 33. we live together, but it is more like roomates, how do we get out of this bored routine?... (34 words

Should I worry about my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi all my boyfriend is leaving today and i wont be able to see him he'll be gone until sunday and even then i cant see him not until monday. he just informed me today that hes going up north with one of his guy friends and his dad to go hunting and im a little worried that ... (118 words

He's asked me for my patience and support, and to do what I do best: love him. But what if he will never reciprocate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so things were going okay with my boyfriend. We'd met up, kissed, cuddled, held hands and been going out for two weeks. In the last few days we'd been chatting every night, and he confided in me yesterday that he was finding them hard, and awkward (we're fine when we meet ... (260 words

Should I pretend that I like it when he hurts me during sex??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - me and a guy that i call my sex partner has sex. Its great and all but when he has sex with me he bagans to go faster and i tell him to STOP bcuz he is hurting me that i began to scream. I think he thought i was liking the feeling but i didnt. He loves to finger me and i lo... (118 words

My husband insulted me while drunk and his friends calumniate me! Should I forgive this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - i am 28 married with 2 kids. we got married in june last year but b4 then we used to have problems coz his friends tell him so many false stories about me. one time he came to my mothers home drunk and stsrted shouting on the top of his voice at night that i am a bitch, y... (134 words

Will this man ever ask me out?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - Will this man ever ask me out? I am a member of a sports club,he is a teacher there, we are both single and in our 30s. Have known him since august and its doing my head in not knowing if anything will happen with him! He gives me all the signals, massive eye contact, looks at... (145 words

I want to call him as he suggested. Any tips about prom and... him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F - I'm going to my prom with my friend's brother. It was her idea to have us go together. She is going with his friend. She realized while picking out the tuxes that it might be akward. Me and my two friends and our prom dates (none of us are a couple yet) went to the mall to g... (248 words

I feel like I'm the one that makes more effort in this but I like him a lot! What can I do to turn things around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys i posted this question here a few days ago but only got one answer so im posting it again in the hope for more suggestions. Ive been seeing a guy for two months. Things are going well and i think we both like each other. One thing bothers me. I sometimes feel i am ... (294 words

I have met someone I want to spend my life with, but am not sure I should give my marriage another try first

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm asking for a male friend who's 45-50. I've been married for 21 years and the have three young children. The magic has been out of our relationship for many years and we are more like friends who take each other for granted. I've met someone through work who I have ... (96 words

How do I get my self confidence back after what he said to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have been dating this guy for 6 months and he had a girlfriend and never told me about her in the first 3 months in our relationship.We carried on after I've found out that he made the girl pregnant. he was very much jealous of me talking to other guys and one sunday night he ... (119 words

My heart is broken into little bits and he wont take responsibility

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I apologize that this is very long, i feel i need to explain the events, please if you could, just give me some insight: Our 1 year anniversary would have been next week. I met him, and fell for him right away, he always told me he always knew what he wanted, and it was me. E... (1578 words

I am getting sore. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been masturbating about once a day lately. I didn't use to do it so frequently. Now I'm getting a bit sore down there and my arms are aching as if I've just finished a session at the gym. I can't control. Any advice?... (46 words

How do I kiss my boyfriend without bumping teeth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - HI :-) Sorry if i sound really stupid but i recently got my first boyfriend. I really want to kiss him properly but i'm really bad at it and keep bumping teeth! How do i do it right?? xx... (39 words

My partner of 4 years has been cheating on me. Can we overcome this betrayal together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I need some advice, I have just recently found out that my partner of 4 years had been cheating on me, it wasn't an complete shock as I had suspected he was up to no good for a while now. The truth was a lot worse than I had ever expected, and now I'm struggling to come to ... (160 words

Feeling very unconfortable about an incident with my Mom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi I am a virgin in my early twenties.My problem is I am obsessed about a past incident. That was the time when there was whitewashing going in our house.The whole furniture was accomodated in one room with family sleeping in that roomonly. My mom was sleeping besides... (189 words

Is there any way I can get over his past lies and trust him 110%?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, Well im not exactly the best lookin girl ever but my boyfriend says im beautiful and i know he loves me. We have been together for 14 months now and it is love. We have the best times when we are together and i know he would never cheat on me, but i do know he flirts w... (216 words

I wake up thinking about my ex. What does this mean and what can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (M - I keep waking up thinking of my ex girlfriend of about 6 months ago. We were together on and off for five and a half years. I think I'm still harbouring feelings for her. What could this mean and what can I do to address these thoughts of someone who is really no longer in ... (60 words

Our first 'date' istoday! I need some advice fast!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - im seeing this girl today.. We are friends but i want us to be more then that.. And i think she wants to be more too!! We are seeing each other later today.. Our first official date.. Or not a date but we made arrangements to see eacg other.. At her house now.. So i was wond... (126 words

Please help me with my insecurities. I think they derive from witnessing infidelity in my family.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi, sorry if this is long! when i was young my mum got cheated on by my dad and how it was done was very sneeky that now has made me feel inscure.my current bf is lovely, but has lied to me about other aspects of our relationship and i find it hard to trust him...he trys h... (142 words

The thought of sleeping with someone else when I've only ever slept with my ex really scares me... besides I don't want to be used just for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok I really need some help please guys...I recently came out of a 3 1/2 year relationship, which ended 6 months ago. Since then, I've been feeling really down and found it hard to go out and talk to guys. I've been slowly feeling better, keeping myself busy and seeing friends a ... (267 words

My last pregnancy test resulted positive, how accurate are they? I'm starting to panick.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey, im just panicking a little bit, i took a home pregnancy test yesterday and it came back positive, but my partners been away with work since the end of january, and id taken a test not long after he left and they both came back negative. My friend thinks its very likely ... (87 words

My boyfriend lives with his ex, I feel like an outsider but am afraid to discuss it with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and love him very much. However, I am finding things difficult as he still lives with his ex and I feel a bit like an outsider in his life. He recently said that he is happy living with his ex. I would love to ask him to ... (101 words

My brotherly love for her has turned into romantic love, but she is married. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 36-40 - hi, i had met this lady abt 7 yrs ago through a online chatroom..since then we have been havin this brother n sister relationship. i jus realise recently that i may had fallen in love with her. i m 22 n she is 38 n married for 15 yr..what should i do? thanks... (54 words

Please help me get my relationship back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi I really need some help. I have been in a relationship for about 1 and a half years. For the past week everything just seemed to be going downhill. I feel frustrated and we are just constantly fighting.I can remember the last time that we held each other and said i love ... (185 words

Does anyone know if any bookstores or online sells books on fantasies, etc.???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi!!! I have a question and it may seem a little wierd, but here it is: I was wondering if they sell books that have like fantasies, outfits and sexual positions. Does anyone know??? If so, would you please tell me where to get those??? Thanks much. ... (47 words

Need help he never rang back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi I need advice what to do, been seeing a lovely guy for around 8months, never really argued, treated eachother equally, he rings me all the time, he works away and just got back home and rang me, everything was fine, and he said he had a lot to do at home this time around, so ... (167 words

I’m starting to feel like I was born to be treated inappropriately.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am battling to come to terms with the fact that a man who left me is now engaged to be married late this year. I still want him and I thought and prayed that he comes back to me. He hasn’t and now I feel that even though I prayed God decided to give him the happiness of ... (346 words

Her parents beat her to stop her seeing me. How do I get her back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - hey all, first of all m very impressed abt dis awsome site , in which we can share our feelings to others, that a hope of mine that u may help me , come 2 the point i had a gf and al things going well wid both of us , one day she said me tht "her marry is on july,2008 a... (309 words

I'm 16 is it possible for me to move in with my 21 y-o boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi ok so there is this guy ive never met him but hell be 21 soon and im 16(5 year age difference)and lately there have been family problems going on and my mom is actiung much of a mom is it possible i can move in with him right now instead of waiting till im 18... my mom ... (188 words

My self esteem sucks any way to get it back up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi i need all the help i can get my boyfriend tells me that im beautiful and very attractive and he cant ever take his eyes off of me but ive seen pictures of his exs and some of them are like pornstar hot and he tells me that im beautiful but when he says that i think of ... (186 words

What to do to stimulate squirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - So not every female can squirt, but what if you feel like you have the ability to what do you do to stimulate it?... (24 words

Does penis size play into women's fantasies?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

17 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - Ok, another penis size question, I know, but bear with me ! Ok I guess my question is: does the idea or sight of a substantially larger than average penis, turn most women on? Is a big one arousing? More esthetically pleasing. More likely to prompt fantasies? Thank you all ... (63 words

Is looking at other women disrespectful? It makes me mad and I need more affection!

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17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi i need help from the guys(girls can if they want) my boyfriend i think anyway doesnt show enough affection how can i make him show it more. he tells me that i have great sex appeal and that he cant ever take his eyes off of me because he loves how i look he likes that im ... (94 words

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17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm jealous of my sister. Last year I started college. She's older. She had dropped out of Law School the year before. I'm studying English Education (I'm not from the USA nor UK). I was the best in my class last year. I felt really good because I love english and educa... (232 words

My pregnancy tore us apart. Am I being too traditional or does he just want his freedom?

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17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello! I am 28, and my bf is 23. We met about 3 years ago. We live together, and have a baby girl. I became pregnant shortly after we moved in together and it tore us apart. He was scared to death. He moved out (like 5 times) and then dated another girl for awhile. ... (211 words

I need to look sexy for my boyfriend....I need help!!

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17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi i need help from everyone alot of help! so i want to do something very sexy for my boyfriend and i have no idea what to do! ill explain wht i look like so you can get an idea of what he has to look at everyday im 5'5" green eyes pink hair okay body(i think) i have a silver ... (114 words

I'm on house arrest with a 2mth old baby....can he like me if he still comes to see me?

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17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have known this guy for like 7 years and I never liked him but I just had a baby and was put on house arrest for lying to the police for the father of my baby and this guy comes out where I live on the weekends because he has property here. He is also going to be a cop in ... (169 words

Should I make a move on this girl who invites me to watch movies at her house?

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17 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Occasionally, a girl I know will call me to watch a movie at her house. I'm not really sure what her intentions are. Also, I'm not sure if she wants me to make a move on her or not. It seems like she might like me but she doesn't really sit very close to me.... (56 words

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17 April 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have always considered myself straight until I met this girl named Crystal. We work together and we flirt pretty openly. Over the last several months, I find myself sexually fantasizing about her. A few other girls sometimes, but mostly her. I think I may be bisexual. At the ... (79 words

Any good books on recovering from abuse? I just got out of a bad relationship.

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Still waiting for my period after having unprotected sex. Could I be pregnant?

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17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - a question here. my last period was february 23. its now currently april 16 -17 and im still waiting for it. is it possible im pregnant as i have been having unprotected sex for a while now with my bf ? although im aware a test will confirm and not second guessing, just want ... (61 words

How do I get my girlfriend to return the sexual favors?

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17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - OK it has been like forever since i came here but i'm back. alrite i'll try n make this as short and uncomplicated as i can. I have ben dating "Katie" for about two mnts now, i am also a female we both are 15 yrs old. i love her very dearly, she is the first person ... (207 words

We fell so hard for each other but now he avoids me! He doesn't want to get "emotional".

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17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - We met through mutual friends and one day we were at dinner in dining hall and him and i were bred so we decided to go get high together and hang out in his car. So he was really into me for 4 weeks (1 week before spring break, 2 weeks of break over which we talked every day ... (1588 words

Does the "spark" ever go away? I've never had any exes.

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17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - Does the 'spark' with an ex ever go away? I have no exes of my own. I was never in a relationship before... I had a friend with benefits, but it wasn't a loving relationship, so I really don't care about him. I've been with my BF fir almost 2 years. He claims I'm his first... (648 words

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17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok so I recently got in engaged to my boyfriend. But i am keeping ONE lie from him, which is that i have never given oral sex before, I have given it to one guy, but i told my soon to be husband that he is the first guy to get oral sex from me. Should i keep this a secret to ... (82 words

Should I find another girl who will be better for me?

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17 April 2008 (M age 41-50 - i just reacently broken up with my girlfriend... we've been dating about 6 months and thing were for the most part pretty good. we had alot of fights up till the end but before we had alot of fun, which is all im looking for. i broke up because i feel i cant hang out with my ... (132 words

Is this older guy a waste of my time?

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17 April 2008 (F age 41-50 - ok so i sort of started seeing this older guy. i guess i am wondering how to get his attention better? he does work and is busy but, i rarely hear from him by phone mainly text and internet chat. he does say he cares for me but, i will only see him on a fri or sat night. what ... (70 words

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Why did my husband leave me for another woman? I'm trying to understand....

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17 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - hi well its been the worst 5 weeks of my life my husband has left me and im so sad angry hurt god too many feelings to say i love him very much and just want to talk to him hes been gone 5 weeks it was a shock we had only just been back off holiday 2 weeks theres another woman ... (130 words

I see my teacher as a regular man with feelings so I don't idealize him. Should I wait to tell him my feelings?

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17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey i know this is the usual because many girls post this but im 17 and in 11th grade in love with my History teacher (30).... this all started 31/2 years ago....in 9th i would just see him teach lessons in his room....and i thought about nothing but him(the reason why i looked... (380 words

GIRLS ONLY! We have amazing sex but I want ideas on more positions?

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17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - girls only please! hi to all the girls me and my boyfriend have amazing sex its the best ive ever had. now the question is is that i orgasm quick when we do is it because he knows what hes doing or because its big i dont know because ive only been with 4 guys and the others ... (99 words

Love Triangle! Am I living in a fantasy?

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17 April 2008 (F age 51-59 - The backdrop is....8 years ago I was in a relationship with a woman (I'm a woman) we were togther for about three years and then she dumped me to get married to a man. Now, fast forward...this love of my life looked me up about four months ago, now divorced and has a bf of 4 ... (254 words

I've made my move by telling him how I feel. Now what?!

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17 April 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have made my move by telling him how I feel. My friend told him and it went something like this: Friend: hey Crush:Yeah? Friend:She likes you Crush:Which one? Friend:you know the one from last year Crush:Oh,you mean the asian girl who was vice president Friend:Sure ... (103 words

Does my gorgeous guy friend like me? What do you think?!

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I'm jealous and feeling ignored. Should I have these kind of doubts?

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17 April 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello everyone i need advice you see my GF today acted wierd she was more lively and more wild it even got to a point that i got a bit jealous.You see she greeted our friend he greeted back but then i said (lets make his name ryan) "ryan you didn't greet me" he said silly i ... (338 words

I have fallen for my best friend! She's now engaged so I need advice!

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