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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

At school: what can I do to stop people teasing me about this boy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4211 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I am in love with a guy at my school. He is so amazing and is so beautiful everyone knows I like him including him but I get teased a lot of the time from the people who sit near me in tutor. One morning I was upset and someone told me to just ...

She has a Major Crush on my boyfriend. We are both fed up with her. How do we get her to leave us alone for good

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend works with a girl who loves my boyfriend. When her boyfriend broke up with her she was crying and my boyfriend listened to her and helped her. Everything was fine at that moment. But since then she has developed a major crush on my ...

He does not want to be exclusive. I do want to be exclusive. Shall I wait until he is ready?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks. I really like him and we have fun together. The thing is, we've done some sexual stuff and I sort of feel weird that I did that with someone who isn't my boyfriend. He just got out of a long-term relati...

My culture is uncompromising about virginity before marriage. BUT I am not a virgin. What can I do? I cannot tell him, as the shame is too much.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - hi..i had a relationship with an boy i was loved him deeply... Nearly 14 months back only once i had sex with him.. he was not loving with me just wanted to enjoy sex with me we broke up... i was really hurt at that time.. i met with a boy...

Why can't he love me anymore like he did before? How do I accept his decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - hi there my friend my boyfried is ignoring me what to do , we have been in love ,a year, just only when i send him a text sms he write me or call me , he said that he want to stay just like a friend but for a while, why has this happened? ...

I thought we were going to be just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

21 October 2012 (?) - Modnote: your account name is new but I have read an almost identical question to this before. Have you posted this question before or read this before? Hello Everybody! I am going to try and be as honest and as front with everybody as I ca...

Guilty? maybe? Is the reason I can't ask out this other girl because I'm worried about hurting her further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - There are at least two girls at school who fancy me. Possibly a third. One of them I'm really good friends with but she hasn't mentioned it yet, but people think she does fancy me. One of them likes me and I like her back but I'm friends with...

His Russian friend is very interested in him. Am I wasting my time with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I've been seeing a guy since March. He's 33 and I'm 20. He's a master student and is going to graduate this semester and go back to his country. Unless he gets a job here. Our relationship is private as we agreed since the beginning, and we start...

He is obsessed with the bodies of women. Other women. I am wrong to feel so insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - Ive always been the type of girl who hasnt been really insecure. I knew i turned heads when i walked in the room until my current bf of 5 months and then it was like i became so insecure about my body. I guess i should start by saying I am his firs...

How do I contain the jealousy I feel towards others?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I really envy some of my cousins. One is a spoilt brat who gets everything she wants. My other cousins had kids before they got engaged and their parents always baby sit them. But If I had kids out wedlock my parents would call me nasty names. ...

Can I ask her again if she can still make it? I hate the disappointment if something planned for does not happen

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4211 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - I hate making plans or looking forward to something which will never happen because i HATE the feeling of dissappointment. I been talking to this girl for like 2 months and we have now met twice, we kissed second time and she was telling me how g...

My ex is still obsessive about me. Why can't he move on? Do I cut my ex off completely even though my son likes seeing his father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

21 October 2012 (?) - Me and my ex were together for 11 years and we had one child together who has a learning disability. I ended the relationship 4 years ago, and will NEVER have him back. My ex is obsessed with me as he still believes that there is a chance that ...

Is this too much to ask? I just want to meet, love, enjoy that one guy who'll change my life for the better

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - When will it be my turn to find love? Am I really that undesirable? I mean I know I'm only 17 but it's so sad and depressing being alone. It's already hard enough being gay, but having to hide who you really are with absolutely no one to confide ...

Do I listen to some of my friends who say don't date her? Or do I just go ahead and ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - First off, this is NOT just a teen phase or something when you read it. Ok, so I really like this girl P, and she just got out of a short term relationship where she got cheated on. I am a trumpet player, and she is in our high school marching ...

Can I trust her? Does not seem so. What should I do about this unacceptable situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4212 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - My girl and I been together for 3 years. It was great until freshman yr of college wen i started having trust issues and then we became unstable. She cheated on me with a guy then told me a month later they had kissed; it took awhile to get over but...

My married lover is putting up barriers to me seeing her. And she wants to hide me from her children when her divorce goes through. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Hello, I'm going to give the whole story of my situation. I know it's morally wrong but no one is perfect. So please don't respond if you want to talk about morals. I just need some honest opinions with my situation. I have been in a relationshi...

My Gf's extreme sex drive is out of control. She wants excitement. Does she need therapy? Or is there any way I can help her without breaking up - the latter would make her more vulnerable, I think

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Hey guys, I've resorted to reading the site here cause I've had trouble "Google-ing" my situation with any real results. So before I post the question a disclaimer here is; I don't want anyone to comment on how I shouldn't be bothered by my G's h...

Who should I reach out to to help my boyfriend? He will not talk to anyone. He is in a bad place and I am not sure who to turn to to get him help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year. I love him with all of my heart. We have a lot of fun together when times are good. But lately, he has become more and more suicidal. He threatens to kill himself every few days. I try ...

I am a loner and enjoy solo activities. BUT, based on your thoughts, ... Do people date loners? Or do they retreat from dating loners and why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - Would you date a loner? I don't have that many friends, but it's not because of Social Anxiety Disorder or because I do strange things. I'm just highly independent, enjoy spending time self-reflecting and doing solo activities (reading,...

I adore him but there are problems in our LDR. Is this fixable? and how? Family and friends claim he is "Controlling."

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4211 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my current partner for almost four years in an LDR, I am very deeply in love with him and I have shared some good times with him. He makes me laugh, treats me like a princess and I have had a lot of notable 'first' experiences with ...

I feel so guilty about crushing on this girl at Uni who may or may not be gay. Especially considering that I have a LDR Gf who I adore. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4211 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - This is going to sound really messed up but ever since I started uni I have had a huge crush on a girl that works at the uni who has a really gay vibe about her. She dresses quite butch, but I have a feeling she's straight because I've seen her arou...

Break it off? Or should I continue to date this guy? He is Mr RightNow to me but that's all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I met this man this past summer and have since gone on several dates with him. I am not attracted to him physically AT ALL but thought he was a nice guy so decided to get to know him more and see if there's something.............. He is crazy ab...

Why does my wife of 18 years need to talk to men online? And meet them? and lie? Is this the beginning of the end of our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 18 years. We have 10 year old twins together. We used to share an email account (mine) but now she has 3 or 4 email accounts of her own. I only have one email account and she has the password to my account. She ...

He's never pushed for sex. So is he just not into me? Or is he not over his ex yet? How do I respond?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - Hello, So I know the answer really... He's just not that into you, move on, but as a lady in my mid 30's I still feel the need to ask Pathetic really So I meet this guy in a bar, he's funny, smart, sexy I like him a lot. We see each oth...

She was the ONE. Her family did not like me. Losing her has destroyed me. So now, why can't I get another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4210 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Why can't I get another girl? In high school pretty girls liked me but let me stress that I was not very good at talking to them like I'm okay but not great. I relied on sports and my looks and once I knew a girl liked me I would go talk to her. ...

I thought things were going well. Then he stopped replying. Has he moved on? I know he is still talking to others.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4212 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - i've been talking to this guy i like for a while, we talk everyday and get on really well. however, recently i've been texting him and he's not been replying but he's been talking to other people ( i know this as my friend told me he had previous...