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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I felt sad by her choice,Am I being silly leaving her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - I asked my girlfriend does she prefer sex with me or masturbation and she said different. I tried to ask in what way but she couldn't say. That's made me feel quite bad and I've tried to past it tried to get past it but now don't think I want to ...

Things have got out of control, One minute it's good and then Boom he deleted me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - hello! I’m in a very difficult situation. Let me start from the bringing. My cousin's friend told my cousin he liked me, but I currently had a boyfriend so he didn’t pursue it, after me and my bf broke up, I got his number and we started texting,...

Should be try to work it out? He is hopeless with money

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Hi I need help as I don’t know what to do. I have been with my partner for 10 years we have four kids together but I can’t trust him. When we first got together he used to stay out all night. This stopped and a couple of years later I found text...

Is this a cultural thing? I'm not sure if it means more or not? He's from England and I'm from Australia

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Now this might sound a over reaction but my boyfriend text me goodnight and said see you soon luv?!!! Isn't luv what you would say to some random girl not your girlfriend of a year? He's English and I'm from Australia so is it common to use suc...

Do you think our date went well?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - We met and drank tea for an hour. I offered to pay but he didn't let me. He was very tried; we both have had a very long day. We talked continuously and had a nice time (I would say) but then he had to go back to his work to his cubicle in the ...

I'd like to hang out with my former teacher and be friends. Do you think this is a good idea or would it be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - In high school, we got a new teacher who I completely fell for. I never ended up having his class, as the year before I had taken that class with the old teacher. I knew him a bit from my favorite teacher who was best friends with this teacher I li...

Can relationships last and be enjoyable in the platonic stage for an extended period? I just dislike all the emphasis on sex everywhere.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - (I'd be most appreciative if somebody could reply ASAP) I've never been the best person to talk about sex, as it upsets me to talk about it. I've been in a relationship for just over 3 months now (not thinking about sex, don't worry) but I'm just...

Is he being mean because he's hurt and wants attention? How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, Really in need of some advice on this one. I've been seeing this guy, for a while now, and how we started seeing eachother wasn't very good, i cheated on my boyfriend of the time with him, i know thats terrible, and trust me i felt s...

How can I keep my low self esteem from ruining my relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I always have low self esteem. When I look around, most of the guys that I like or admire have girlfriends that I can never live up to. Some of the girls are air stewardess, some are even models. I am recently single and after a long struggle...

Where do the single women in their 30s hang out? I've not dated for 2years. How do I maximise my chances of success with women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - So, been single for 3 years after a 9-yr LTR. Am now 38. And I have not been on a date in 2 years. I tried online dating for 18 months and got 2 dates out of it. Am a member of many clubs and have many hobbies. Meeting people is not an...

He's reluctant to try any solutions. But he has trouble getting it up. What can I do about this? What might help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Hi, My bf and i have been dating for about a year. I think he has performance anxiety. He can get a erection fine, when we make out or when i give him oral, but as soon as we move on to penetration, he loses it. As a result, we have yet to have...

Confused and can't decide what to do. I'm scared to get into a relationship. Could this guy be the answer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I have been friends with this guy since the beginning of this year. We met through common friends. At first we used to hang out just as friends, and our friendship grew stronger. He's a very nice guy. He's polite, respects people, is fun to be wi...

I have never wishes to be unfaithful to her. But I think I have to leave as she's breaking my heart. I need your advice please, on what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - I love my wife but I think I need to make a break as I'm worried that the way I feel could be damaging for both of us. For the past few years she has rejected me so often for sex that I stop making any moves towards her. I like to think I'm rom...

My Gf claims she had relations with a woman and guy just watched. How can I tell if she is telling the truth about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - My GF told me she was intimate with another woman when we were first dating casually. She said it was set up by a guy friend she met online and casually dated, but was never interested in. The other woman was also a friend of this guy and met him ...

I think he might think I'm cute. But the really important question is "does he like me?" What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Hello :) I'm a 16 year old girl. I really like this boy. I think he likes me back, but I'm not sure. We have two classes with him and he always stares at me. I've liked him since freshman year, but not a lot so I didn't even notice he was in my...

Is he really interested in a relationship with me? Don't want to be hurt. He makes me feel special. Or is he a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4222 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - I hooked up with a western guy once. I am an Asian guy. This Western guy told me about his life, his girlfriend and being with me was his first time and I told him the last time I was touched was when I was 17. He said he was lucky meeting me as I’...

Advice please? First time sex for a 24 year old virgin. Is it as painful as some say it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Ok so I think ive found my 'one' we've been going out for a while now and are coming upto a point n our relationship where we both want sex. However I'm scared this would be my first time. I really like this guy and want to take our relationship...

What can or should I do? Don't want to leave my partner but cant stop thinking about the "kiss"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I am in a relationship and we have children. It's not been the best of relationships but we are working through it. But only the other night one of my friends (who is also friends with my partner) was on leave from the army and was out with us. I en...

So was this just a line ? Or does it seem like he actually likes me?

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9 October 2012 (F) - For three months in the summer I was texting and seeing this guy although we were not "official". He got weird around the time I was going back to college and didn't text me as much and then abruptly stopped texting me first. (which we had both...