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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Can I trust my g/f not to cheat on me? She lied to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - ok so i've been with my girl friend 5 months and she is the girl of my dreams and i believe she loves me also. thing is she was with somebody for 8 years and not been happy for a long time. we started seeing each other so she was cheating on this ...

Should I be worried if my boyfriend admits to cheating on past girlfriends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4216 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Should I be worried if my boyfriend admits to cheating on past girlfriends? I know it's not fair to hold his past that had nothing to do with us against him. I don't. I just can't help to be nervous though...because I was cheated on by my ex...an...

He's not interested in providing for me if he passes away. Is he being selfish?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hi I remarried in May this year, we both have grown up kids,I have 4 he has 2, He owns our house,and is buying another house to rent out, we have no life insurance, and Im worried that if he dies before me, I will have nothing,he always said his...

We've been fighting and he's texting someone late at night. Plus he says we're "on a break'. Should we stay together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are on a break. However we are still living together, it's awkward. We have been fighting a lot, especially in the last few months, and we have only been together for 8 months, living together for 6. Tensions were high and I ...

I think my younger friend is trying to let me down gently. How can I expand my circle of friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hi I am 61 and had a crush on a fellow half my age -and we became platonic friends and e mailed occasionally and WHEN he came to the city we met for a coffee or lunch which I always paid for-he did offer though. He is a singer and no qualms abou...

And I being selfish wishing to back out of being a bridesmaid? The bride's expectations are too high.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - A very rich close friend of mine is getting married in February and has asked me to be one of her bridesmaids. Of course I said yes as I've known her for years but here's the problem, she expects that I will pay for the following: My dress £210, Sh...

Does she really have to use everyone she knows, just to be with her girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4217 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I think being bisexual was just a phase for me. Now I just feel empty and im not sure if its relief or want? Plus this whole ordeal about my sister being bisexual and her being hooked on her girlfriend like thats the only thing that matters....

How to introduce myself to this cute guy or strike up conversation with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - So I just moved to university in August and I live in res and there's this one reallllly cute guy who I think I'd have some stuff in common with, based on the way he dresses and stuff (if that makes sense). Anyway, problem is, I don't know anything...

Two teens madly in love. Do I stay or go? Or should I move on and try again when he grows up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I had been together for a year before suggesting that we take a break from the frustration of not seeing each other and fighting about it all the time. I was upset but found out that he just wanted me to be happy with someone....

Is it possible to get back the person I love? How do I show I have changed? I promised to change in the past and I failed to do so.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - I am still in love with my ex boyfriend and I really want us back together. we been together for almost two years and we broke up three weeks ago. He is suddenly so distant with me and ignores me. I know the reason is because we always argue ab...

My wife has secrets. Do I sit on this? Or tell her I know everything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone im back!!!! My wife and i have been together for thirteen years. I was her first for everything. The problem with my wife is she has regrets for things she missed out on. I know cause when ever she makes comments like ho...

Is my Gf into a new guy? I'm not a jealous guy, but something is not right. Any suggestions to resolve this please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I know this may sound bad but I think that my girlfriend is into some other guy. They always seem to be laughing and having the time of their lives (which I do not mind) but it seems like there is something else between them. She has recently been ...

Is it twisted that I have a boyfriend yet I have feelings for two of my cousins as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - I am 22 years old. I am in love with two of my cousins from my fathers side. The first one we will call "Charles". Until recently in December of last year, I confessed to him over the phone that I have found him attractive, he told me he has had ...

I have major Trust issues due to past experiences. Can you give me advice to cope better at trusting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - It involves my ex bf. We broke up because I was a bit closed off, guarded even. I have a hard time trusting people and I've seen friends get cheated on so many times, that I have had an issue with trusting men I date. So, we broke up and I take ful...

I'm genuine and not shallow. But his performance recently? What could be the problem? Nerves? Or problems in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hi there, new here but I've lurked around for a while so I'll just jump in. I had sex with my new boyfriend for the first time Saturday night. Foreplay was amazing best I've ever had actually, but when he wemt to put on the condom I noticed he wasn'...

Broke up, it was the right thing to do. Soooo Why do I miss him so much ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4216 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - In September I broke up with a guy who I have been on/off with for the past year and a half. I know I have done the right thing as I wasn't happy and wasn't getting what I needed from the relationship. We had recently got back together at the end ...

I get Soooo nervous around him. So how do I behave near my Crush? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4216 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I am a very shy 19 year old girl. There is this particular guy I have recently developed a bit of a crush on. I noticed that when we are talking in person, there are a few moments of awkward silences, which make me pretty nervous. He ...

Is it wrong to stay with a woman, even if you do not see long term potential?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - Basically, my GF of 2 years cheated on me with a stranger. She denied cheating and lied to my face until I confronted her with circumstantial evidence that eventually made her confess. Although she denies having sexual intercourse, she...

How do I get my friends and family to see that the relationship I have with younger girl friend is real and that she's not a gold digger?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - How do I get my friedns and family to see that the relationship I have with younger girl friend is real? I am 39 and a very successful business man. After breaking off my long time relationship with my ex I started dating a much younger 22 yr ol...