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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Can a relationship work between 2 people like this? me - never used drugs. him - clean now, but used to use every drug imaginable!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - I need some input from people who have understanding of drug addicts. I'm in a relationship with a man my age who used to be a drug addict. He started in his teen until his mid 20s and has done pot, acid, cocaine, ecstasy but heroin was his bigg...

Should I confront my ex's finance over her actions whenever my ex visits his son? Is she jealous or insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Hello cupids! Some help here would be appreciated. I have an 8 week old son with my ex. I left him when i was 3 months pregnant because he cheated, and i was confronted by the "other woman". At the time he had been with her we were not serious...

He went out of my life after he started dating a girl. Why does losing him bother me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - This guy at work and I became great friends. I think that he was slightly attracted to me but never said anything because I was dating. When he started dating a girl, he just disappeared. And it's been almost a year. It really bothers me that we'r...

Still a virgin. Is this normal? It’s not sex that I’m looking for, just some companionship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (M) - Hey guys, I have a question regarding virginity. I know is a question that’s probably asked a lot, but I wanna know if what I’m feeling is stupid or normal. I’ve just turned 20 and I’m still a virgin. I’ve never been kissed, never had any interest...

Everything is going perfect, but can a womanizer really change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - I met this guy who's very famous in my country. He's not just famous for his work, he is also very famous as a womanizer. I'm a commitment-phobic myself, but I never felt attracted to womanizers. We me while ago, through a common friend (one of h...

My new guy is awesome. So why do I still miss one aspect of my manipulative unkind ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - i split with my ex in may and we had being together for 4 and a half years. He was a horrible manipulator who played a lot of games and wasn't physically violent but mentally exhausting. i finally freed myself from him after 4 long years and i wa...

What can I do about the crush I have had on this guy for ages and ages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - i have had a crush on this guy in my year for about ages now and still dont know what to do. we used to be close friends and hang around all the time with a few other people, but i dont hang in that group anymore since i have been friends with ano...

Can I ever forgive her? How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (M) - I am a young man aged 28 working in the government and my fiance is 24 and she does not work. My fiance loves telling lies most of the time and my friends always tells me that your fiance looks like crook. Two weeks ago on Saturday I bought a ...

How can I determine if my ex still has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - how do you know if your ex still has feelings and wants to get back with you? We were together 6 years on and off now and again sleep with each other now and again. I don't know whenever i should just cut ties completely its hard, as we have 2 kids ...

Is be making fun of me by calling me sexy? He's making me feel insecure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - I like this guy and we've known each other for two years, but we've only been friends for a month. Anyway, he keeps calling me sexy. And it makes me feel insecure since I know I'm not hot. Like, I'm not skinny and I don't have big boobs. I'm n...

Don't want to break up with my depressed Gf. But her behaviour is putting stress on me. So what can I do?

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14 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for like 5 months now. But these days,I feel like i am starting to have mixed feelings for her. I start to get mad at her for no reason( she don't know ),I feel like i don't love her anymore but I know i can...

When her ex needs someone to talk to she is the one he calls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

14 October 2012 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are doing great at the moment,except for one thing that has been really bothering me. She went out with this guy for a year and a half and broke up with him more than a year ago. However, this guy would contact her when...

All my friends are now in relationships. What's the answer for me? I'm consumed with jealously and weekends are the worst for me now.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. Please can I have some advice as do what I should and how I can meet someone and stop feeling like this. Basically keep it short. I'm 32, female and single and I can't seem to meet anyone. I'm attractive, I have an ok...

After his flirting, how can I keep him interested in talking to me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - ok so here it goes, my friend started dating this guy and turns out he's friends with a guy I have seen around. His friend and I started talking but we went straight to flirting, he's really cute but sometimes I think I annoy him. We talk everyd...

Truly? Why would a girl get scared off if a guy has never had a girlfriend before?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (M) - While dating and having much difficulty landing a real relationship, I've noticed that many women avoid getting into a serious relationship with a guy who never had a girlfriend before. Why is that? I don't want to lie because I am very honest,...

I love this guy, and I want it to work. So how do I handle him calling me "fat"(I'm not), and commenting on girls he thinks are hot?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Straight to the story, Been dating this guy for 2 months now. Everything was perfect, he is the sweetest person ever! Just one problem and i don't know if i should feel insecure or not! Or what i should even do, i feel like shit! He is very ov...

Is he wasting my time and stalling me? His actions so far are unreliable and inconsistent.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Why is he acting funny towards me? I don't know what to think. This guy offered me his phone number when I asked for help with a class. When we spoke he didn't remember me, but a few days later I get a text from him about a place. Some friends ...

Has any one else overcome this? I love him, but I think our relationship is on the rocks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - My relationship is on the rocks right now. :( I'm in a struggle where I sometimes wonder if I want to spend the rest of my life with my bf. I don't know if we can last together, and I don't know if I even truly love him. I feel like I'm startin...

I love him, but is there something wrong in his head? Do I need to speak to a Doctor about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - I really need some help and advice about my boyfriend, we've been dating on and off for four years now and I'm not even eighteen yet. I love him ever so much and I couldn't live with out him! but over the past two years things have been really c...

How do I get through this? I'm a young Mom. BoyF left me. Despite medical assistance this situation is affecting my everyday routines.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Hi fellow Cupids, Bit of an issue on my hands. Recently (The past month or so) I have been feeling depressed like you wouldnt believe. Im currently on medication to no avail, so I'm attempting a different route and hoping you guys could offer ...

I am starting to think that maybe it was obvious from the start But 'does this guy like me?

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14 October 2012 (F) - Ok, I've known him for a good 3 years now. He's from another country and is a friend of a friend who works for my family. When I met him I didn't think much , just aw yea another good looking, cocky fella. I didn't see him that often but he wo...

Any study tips please to allow me to study in a noisy environment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - I could really use some help.. I have an important exam to sit for in about 2 months time,let's just say its going to be a life changing exam,it either breaks me or makes me.. BUT the place I live I wouldn't say its too noisy but in the afternoon...

He's a widower in his 50s. Is there a chance for us? Should I be more patient with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - I currently like a guy, (in his 50s...), we do enjoy spending time together whenever I'm visiting his city, and he writes pretty much every day, or whenever I reply him. We're not officially anything, just 2 good friends. We sometimes flirt through ...

He phones me then hangs up. What do you think? Do you think he's playing a game to see how much I care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend broke up with me this past May. He is a Marine stationed across the country from where I'm attending college. Since January he had been begging me to give up my senior year in college, move to his base and marry him. I o...

All these years later my husband refuses to believe he was my 'first'. What do I tell him? The truth is he was my first, but he will not believe me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - The day I lost my virginity I was 15 but on my period and now my husband thinks I was not a virgin because of that and I really never knew what losing my virginity was Now I am 32 years old and am still married to him now how do I tell him I was a ...

I cant stand the fact that girls are always flirting with my attractive boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Hey guys , I'm having major jealously issues. Not to brag but my boyfriend is really attractive so there is always girls after him flirting with him and such. I find it hard to deal with, he is totally oblivious to the fact. He says their all just ...