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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How can I repair our relationship after I cheated on him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months and i cheated on him. Our relationship has changed alot since this happened. What can i do to make our relationship work out and get it back to the way it use to be?...

My boyfriend says he wants a break so he can date other girls

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Hello, I am in a rather interesting situation. My boyfriend well currently ex boyfriend lives with me. And hes confusing and hurting me emotionally. But lets go back to the beginning 4 1/2 years. We met while I was on a field trip when I was stil...

How can I regain his trust for the second time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Guys I logged on to the dating website were we met, but I never open up a account. The 1st time it happened, he forgave me, but this 2nd time he told me he could never forgive me and I lost him. I had no intentions in dating anyone on that site ever ...

Have I ruined this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - My disclaimer now: you will think I'm immature, you will see discord, drama, mistrust, and more...so please, meet my question where it's at for who we are...thank you I'm 27 he's 28. We met a year ago and he swept me off my feet swearing we will...

I really love this guy, so how can I get him to trust me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - I met this guy online in April, we talked, enjoyed one another and start talking about sharing a life together, but one night I log back on the site and he confronted me about it the next day. I really hurt him, I apolgized and gave him some spa...

I can't satisfy my husband in bed. I feel a failure. Is this relationship going no where?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Hi. I cant satisfy my husband. It has always been hit and miss and I have tried to leave him too, this was one of the reasons. He says that I don't 'join' with him referring to his sick ways. It has put me under a lot of pressure and guilt. If I...

On being too dependant. I need to ensure that I don't become the emotional dumping ground for new friends. Any suggestions on how to do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Hi Everyone I've been asking for help a few times as I've been in a new relationship for some months now after a very long (nearly two decades), very negative one. Every now and then issues flag up that usually relate to my past experiences ...

I am not interested in this 50 year old married man at work. So how do I discourage him effectively? And before he gets any more ideas please.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Recently a married man at work has been flirting with me and jokingly we bantered, but nothing serious to start with as I am 22 and he 50, but in the past 3 months he's started heavily flirting to the point people have started commenting on it! F...

Am I just in Rebound territory? I like the geeky gym instructor who flirts with me, and he is a good kisser

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Ok for the last few months I've been going to the gym. My fitness instructor and I get along really well and I got to know him more and more with every session. I know for a fact that he doesn't chat that much with any of the other girls like the...

I am too overcome to talk to him. So how can I find out if my crush has the same feelings as I do for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4226 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - I have a crush on this guy but only thing I can do is smile every time I see him. I can't even talk my words disappear from my mind I start shaking I don't know if he see me shaking but I feel it. i can't see anything, or hear anything I just feel ...

My mom says he and I are flirting. So is this just friendly, on the part of my professor and how we behave together? Or is it more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Personally I think we are just being friendly, which is fine with me! He is married and like twice my age, so I'd never do anything with him I'm not stupid. Anyways I meet with him every once in a while and at first we were both awkward, but we a...

Am I feeling shock or Jealousy or anger? What should I do if he's now finding excuses to not pay child support?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Im so hurt dont know whether it's shock jealousy or anger? i havent been able to sleep properly i keep getting these dreams about the situation im in. I feel used, worthless. Basically have been seperated from my ex for about 2 months I've put off ...

Might it get better or will it get worse? My Bf has ignored my pleas to change. He fails to do nice things to show he cares

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - I'm at this point in my relationship where it's all on my bf. I've told him many times that I need more from him and even wrote a nice letter to him giving examples of moments when he made me feel loved and important in his life. However, nothing ...

I am disgusted with my Bf. He is a hypocrite. He's warned me against drugs, yet he does them. Do I have a right to be angry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - I called my boyfriend today and he was high - im so disgusted he was even doing it in the first place, but it makes it worse because I know If I were to do that he would lose it. He's made it clear to me he never wants me to do it!! Do I have a rig...

I don't know what to do or how to free myself from these feelings for my FWB and Best friend. What are the options please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Hi My best friend and I are in a situation and need help!! we are Friends with Benefits but I'm in love with the her! it's making things complicated and jeopardising our friendship. she's just come out of a long term relationship and...

I know the break up of my Bf's parents is not about me. But how is this going to affect the relationship with my Bf? He is moving away too and I don't want to lose him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - so my boyfriend's parents are getting and divorce. From the bottom of my heart i feel so bad for him like i wish there was something i could do. he found out that his dad was cheating on his mom by overhearing a conversation on the phone. he ha...

What advice can you give me? I hate having to keep this secret. But my General Manager said he was cool with partying with me if no one else from work found out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Recently I got a promotion to catering assistant at my job. I made great friends with the girl whose position I would be taking so on her last night, I went to her going away party at a local sushi restaurant. Surprisingly, my general manager was ...

When would be the right time to tell my students that I am pregnant?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - I'm a 29 year-old woman and I recently found out that I am expecting. I'm a teacher, so is my husband, and we work at the same high school. We've been married for 15 months. I'm fairly skinny and I'm about 6 weeks pregnant. I haven't starting ...