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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

My girlfriend is not clear about what she wants and I don't know how to fix the mess that's been created

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

4 October 2012 (M) - so me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago, mostly her decision to leave. She said she felt unhappy and that the spark was gone but she still loved me and could see us having kids and getting married. She finished moving about about 3 ...

Boyfriend does what he wants without considering my feelings

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship to say the least. The first year of our relationship he had an emotional affair with an old girlfriend. He even kissed her once and even though he told me about it, I have never fully trusted him ...

My boyfriend's outgoing personality is causing some trust issues with me. How can I deal with this, or should I even deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - Hi there, I am in a big mess and I need some good advice! My boyfriend and I have been together for around 7 months now. He has a very friendly nature and is able to have conversations with almost anyone and everyone. He makes friends with fem...

Is this cheating? My boyfriend went out with his friends and he had a private nude lap dance provided for his enjoyment.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - I've never posted on anything like this before but I'm really not sure what to do. A few weeks my boyfriend went out with his friends just for a night on the town with the boys. At beginning of the night he and his friends went to a strip club ...

Smile and be happy. Your guide if ever you feel unhappy. What else helps you to be happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - Happiness - such a simple thing, yet nobody seems to be able to achieve it. So, working from my own experience, I have devised these little tips to hopefully help all you unhappy folk lighten up a little. These are just a few ways I've learnt to m...

What should I do? I want to talk to her on Facebook, but I'm afraid it's too late and I've lost my chance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - Ok, so, this summer I met this amazing girl, who, as it turned out, was a lesbian. She developed a crush on me - everyone knew about it even though nothing was ever said. She would stop and stare at me as I walked past, get incredibly nervous ...

Married to a Serial Cheater. Our baby will be born in January. And your advice about what to do about this situation would be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - I am married to what I think is a serial cheater. We have been together 7 years married for 4 years. Once caught him on sex dating websites, with hidden email accounts and we put an end to it and communicated on what and why he did it and some of h...

How do I move forward? and where to? I'm in a confused state over my sexual identity. I think dressing up as a woman is exciting. ButI identify as heterosexual. This isn't out of denial or fear of being gay or bisexual

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

4 October 2012 (M) - I'm in a pretty confusing place in terms of my sexual identity, so I thought I'd ask for some advice. In everyday life I identify as heterosexual, and to pre-empt the confusing aspects of me, this isn't out of denial or fear of being gay or bis...

I am SO in love with this girl who is my Ex Gf. But what do you guys think? She says she can't say how she feels.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

4 October 2012 (M) - Hello again, my name is E.and there is this amazing girl. She is my ex Gf. Her personality is amazing we got together the day after my birthday and we stayed together for 6 months and she was 100 percent with me. she didnt lie, she didnt cheat ...

I am financially supporting my boyfriend and it's getting to be too much. What should I do or try to resolve this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - I've been a relationship with this guy for almost a year and, he does not have a job. When we first met, he was working at his dad's company but, he quit because, he wanted to branch out on his own. Well, since then he has not been actively loo...

My friend is confusing me. I am openly gay. Could these things my friend is doing be signs of him gauging reactions from his family about possibly being gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

4 October 2012 (M) - So, I am in a bit of a confusing situation. I recently transferred to a university. At the orientation, a guy approached me and I immediately got the vibe that he was "gay." His body movement, his gestures, his way of expressing himself...I don'...

Any thoughts on how to overcome being overly emotional? I thought we had something happening. Maybe? But now he wants to 'go slow' and not rush thing????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - For the past 2 months, I've been dating a co-worker. He's a custodian who specifically is responsible for cleaning/maintaining my office. It's been a bit tough because I work days and he works 3 - 11 pm. He would usually come in to take out my t...

My serious LDR of two years is sinking. What would be a good classy way to break it off ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. My serious LDR of two years is sinking. What happened is that he suddenly changed his FB password after adding a girl he used to have a crush on... And lately we just been extremely distant so I went through my Facebook and dele...

HOT as fire to ICE cold. Might this work if we resolve things? I am making life changes with him, but now I'm scared.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - I have a problem. I do not easily let people in, because I know if I ever truly give my heart completely to someone, and they break it, it will be the last time. I know myself. I ended up getting very close to someone I knew for six years, but who ...

How can you trust someone enough to share all your flaws and secrets?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks and we're really connecting. I really like him and I think this might turn into something. But here's the thing, I haven't been in a relationship in three years. He just got out of a long-term one (a...

Making love versus masturbation: why can't I provide the same level of pleasure for her as she manages alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

4 October 2012 (M) - Okay I have never used this before so here goes. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years and our sex life is good. but I know my girlfriend does things on her own, and and she goes through multiply orgasms! Using her own techniqu...