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writes:Male and female opinions wanted - please be truthful! How do you feel about the inner lips being outside the outer by quite a fair bit? Please be honest ! Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine +, writes (30 January 2010):
 "I dont agree with the Miamine" (ReturningtheFavor)
You don't agree with what? Is there a "supposed" normal vagina that every woman expects to look like? You've got me a little confused there. Maybe you should also go take a look at that website, it's got tons of pictures of vagina's and each and everyone of them look different.
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reader, ReturningtheFavor  +, writes (29 January 2010):
I dont agree with the Miamine. This is akward because of your age so I am going to handle this delicately, but take it from an older male (mid 20's) Men are going to be happy with whatever you have. You are hard on yourself because you are a woman and women can be so self conscious. To be honest men dont know exactly what its 'supposed' to look like so if its a bit different its ok. You have nothing to worry about!
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reader, Miamine +, writes (29 January 2010):
(sigh) There is no perfect vagina, there is no perfect nose, their is no perfect penis, there are no perfect breasts. Guys don't measure such things, they don't walk arround with a ruler and picture of how a human should look.
Some people are black, some white, some have small breast, some have big ones.. people are all different sizes and shapes, people talk all types of different languages, people come in different colour shades..
Your question is stupid.. It's like asking everyone which is better, vanilla ice-cream or strawberry.... people like all different things, vanilla ice-cream is as good as vanilla, some people like one and some like another..
The honest truth, you got too much time on your hands, haven't you got better things to do than look at your vagina and worry about it. Your perfect, just like I am. (sigh)
Here, your lucky I kept this.. please go and look at this website, it explains all about the female body and will explain what "normal" is... http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/fr_index.htm
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (29 January 2010):
 My besty (who has not a shy bone in her body) has often taken the piss out of herself with jokes about her labia. Bungy jumping off them, better not climb that or I'll get caught by my flaps - things like that. Honestly, coz I don't go checking out other women I thought she was some exception, ...but looking in to this a bit (web sites - not irl obviously) it actually seems the majority have labia's as you describe. I think it might be the all tucked in girls that are the minority.
She ended up asking her gyno if she was abnormal and he laughed at her before telling her they come in all shapes and sizes and all are completely normal.
That said, I have never in my life heard a guy complain about a woman either way. Heard them comment on hair, percieved tightness/looseness, but never once on labia size. I wouldn't worry about it - men certainly don't seem to.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (29 January 2010):
 If I were your man, I would "feel" like licking them. You girls need to stop worrying about this silly stuff.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 January 2010):
A guy will like you as you are! That's all that matters. Seriously, chances are he won't really give it any thought. There's nothing wrong with you.
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reader, Petra at home  +, writes (29 January 2010):
Hi, this is Petra. I had the same question as you, and felt self-concious about the large size of my inner lips and clit. It is surprising that I'm that way since I am a thin (scrawny is another word used) woman with small breasts. My guys have commented on it and say they find it attractive, but I still have hang-ups about it left over since my older sister used to tease me about it calling me a freak. I guess I never got over it. Since I now play with a girlfriend as well, I have gotten a real "up close" look at another woman's lips and clit. While her clit is like a peppercorn, my is like a bean; her inner lips stay neatly tucked inside her outer ones, mine hang outside and are full like actual lips. I've even thought of surgery. Usually hubby says, "Whatever you want, Pet" but this time it was "No way!"
I also have talked to my gf in the context of whether getting my labia reduced would be a good idea. She was just as adamant as hubby and said, "Are you nuts?" She thought it was very feminine, including the way my clit can stick out.
Although I'm still not happy with my situation (who decided that big breasts and small lips, etc. are what makes a woman attractive anyway?), neither the men nor the woman in my life want to to do anything about it. And I honestly believe they like me as I am.
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