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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

My ex calls me a slut, how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I hate my ex, I completely hate him and wish something really bad would happen to him! He has given me crap about my past for YEARS, despite my being completely faithful, not even flirting or checking out other guys, despite my giving up friends for ...

I lack confidence in the bedroom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid :) After being single for 2 years after a VERY messy break up, I've been dating a wonderful guy for 2 months and he is amazing. I've never met anyone more thoughtful or caring and I feel so so lucky to have him :) But there are 2 p...

Since I started this relationship all my bad body image fears have come back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Well....I've decided to stay single and out of the spot light for 2 years until recently. I've had bad relationships in the past and they sent me from hell and back so decided to allow myself time, healing and to regain my independence. I have met a ...

I come across as possesive and clingy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, Basically I'm just looking for some tips because recently I've started thinking that I'm perhaps quite a possessive and clingy girlfriend. I don't ACT super possessive and clingy as I don't want to come across that way and freak ou...

I cant accept my b/f loves me more than he did his ex girlfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I can't seem to get over my boyfriend's sexual history. We recently moved in together and are expecting our first child. We plan on getting married. My boyfriend is 5 years older than I am, so he obviously has more sexual experiences than I do. ...

My wife cheated, we split, I married,my wife a druggie, my ex wife split, I still want her and my family!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - Hello. Three and a half years ago, my wife of nearly 8 years had an affair and wanted me out of the family home so she could move in her new partner. At the time our children were 4 and 3. In a whirlwind i left and started a new relationship. I was ...

Although she knows I love her with all my heart she broke up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - Here's the situation, my girlfriend and I were together for about 2 and a half years, we are both 24 years old now. We fell madly in love with each other and literally got along amazing, had so much fun together, and really could not get enough of ...

My best friend slept with my boyfriend and now I have trust issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - My best friend slept with my boyfriend in June and i still havent gotten over it! I have major trust issues with people and im struggling to make new friends and start any new relationships. Any advice ??...

I like this man's company and would like to take it further

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I am a very shy person and work in a shop. I met this man and we statred talking. Eventually he started comming to visit me before work and we sit and have coffee together. We have a lot of things in common and enjoy each others company. We text ...

My boyfriends behaviour has changed and I am skeptical about his reasons

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I'm a little skeptical about a few things that have been going on with my boyfriend recently; am I in the right to be skeptical, am I just overly paranoid, should I consult him, and if so, what is the best way to go about that? A little bit of ba...

I want to stop worrying so much and focus more on my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Sorry it's so long but I hope there's someone out there that's willing to read this and answer it for me! My boyfriend and I have been together for a Year and 3 months. Well, a week before our one year anniversary, he broke up with me and sai...

Will he ever ask me to marry him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Ok so I am stumped on a big life scenerio. I am 25 years old and have 2 beautiful boys with their dad (we will call him John Doe). We have been in a relationship since we were both 15 years old...we did split up for about a year and a half when we ...

My LDR can be really nasty to me sometimes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I could do with some advice please. I don't know what to do right now about my life and relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months and i thought everything was going as well as it could be. We are technically in a...

I have never felt so lonely and lost before

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - My heart is so empty. I am 54. My Mum, Dad and brother all died within three months of each other six years ago. My best friend died a couple of months before that. My Mum and Dad lived with me and we were very close. I loved them all so much and ...

My b/f's friends are into weed and I am having trouble accepting it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Hi - I have just moved countries to be with my boyfriend and I am just starting to get to know his estabished friends most of whom he knows through sport. He has been cagey about me meeting them, even though I was really looking forward to it, and ...

I have met my perfect girl and yet am unable to perform!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - Why can?t I stay hard? I bet you?ve heard a lot of questions like this, but I?m at my wit?s end. I?m a healthy, active 22 year old male. A month ago I got out of a 4 year relationship with a woman who I loved, but felt nothing for for over 6 ...

MY fella broke up with me, and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - i was with my fella for over 3 months and we have known each other since we were 13, we got on like a house on fire, no disagreements nothing bad, he has had 2 bad relationships and he had to do as he was told all the time and had arguements 24 7 ...

His mother is creating a massive wedge in our relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I need some help determining if I have a reason to feel the way I do. Boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years, we have had some rocky patches mostly due to his divorce (which is now final). In the beginning we moved things far too q...

I don't understand why my ex would treat me so cruel!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Dated my ex boyfriend for 3yrz. But since last year our relationship was on and off.i moved to another country. And During that time we broke up his best frend came to me and told me the guy had moved on he has another girl so i shouldnt b wasting ...

Finally, I am going to meet my LDR but he is worried about his sexual inexperience

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I leave to visit my LDR for 3 months in Africa next Monday (yaay!!). I'll spare you all of the other details of our relationship except to say that we're both open to sex if the right time comes. ...but here's the thing--one moment he's exci...

I want to let my friend know how I feel about him without coming straight out and saying it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I'm deeply in love with my best friend in the entire world, but we don't go to the same school anymore. We still talk to each other every day for hours, but I want to make it something more. I am really compatible with him because we have so much in ...

I know he loves me but I don't know if it's enough

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - For the past few days me and my bf of 8 months have been arguing. Like any relationship we have had our ups and downs but for the most part we have had the most beautiful loving relationship. but for some reason i can't seem to get over this ...

Could my man be in the closet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - How do u know if your man is in the closet? (gay) I mean I don't want to think stuff like that, but he has sooo many male friends its ridiculous. I mean new people poppin up here and there. Yet, this newyears I don't think he invited none of these ...

I did what she asked and now she beats me up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - I'm am very upset. A couple of months ago my friend told me to tell the guy tht she liked tht she liked him. I told him and she got mad at me. At first she just ignored me. Then she started bumping ke and tripping me in the halls. Then she beat me ...

I have ugly feet and keep them covered all the time

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - Ok I have a problem..I never showed any of my boyfriends my feet because I'm very insecure with them.I love my boyfriend and we are about to move in our own apt. He never seen them. I would like to do all tha fùn things with him that all the girls ...

I hate my body. Is my boyfriend lying when he says he likes it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

14 January 2010 (F) - i hate my body.... i dont feel like a woman and im 20 i have small breats and i dont feel like i will ever truly saisfted my boyfreind.one because i feel i dont look like one with my breats size.two because he likes to watch porn and the females he ...