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Mom is disappointed I went to a club instead of the movies. Am I a bad person for telling the truth?

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Question - (31 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *han14 writes:

Hey you guys,i kno it has been a while and I have missed you all.Ok,last weekend was my cousins birthday and she decided to go to a club afterwards.I had an eerie feeling about it but mi cousins convinced me not to be scared(being that i'm only 16 1/2 and you have to be 17 to get into this club)so I got in,but i'm not really a party-type of girl so i just enjoyed seeing everyone else have fun.I didnt drink or smoke or anything because i dont believe in body destruction at all.

Well I told mi mom that i went to the movies so she wouldn't suspect anything,but she found out a week later!She is disappointed but I told her I didnt go for the reasons she thinks,I went to celebrate with my cousin.I just want to know am i a bad person because i dont feel bad?Thank u for reading.

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A female reader, Shan14 United States +, writes (4 February 2010):

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Shan14 agony auntThank-you everyone.I promised my mom that I would never go to a club again because i really didnt like it anyway lol but thank u all for the advice

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A female reader, Ich_liebe_dich Philippines +, writes (31 January 2010):

Ich_liebe_dich agony auntNo, absulutely not. you are not bad,You are a normal teenager and a nice girl who just trying to have a little fun and experience. But the Mom will be abnormal if she dont worried about her daughter. She love's you like hell and worrying to the daughter is not bad at all. She just trying to look after you. Bad you are not bad, Think of that always...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2010):

No,you're not a bad person. You're a normal teenage girl. Lots of teens have done this before, lots will in the future. I bet you a million that at some point your mum did it herself when she was younger. She's just looking out for you, but you're not a bad person

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