New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244975 questions, 1084357 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in January, 2010, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (4), 2 (6), 3 (1), 4 (12), 5 (8), 6 (11), 7 (3), 8 (10), 9 (6), 10 (15),
11 (5), 12 (10), 13 (8), 14 (26), 15 (20), 16 (20), 17 (9), 18 (20), 19 (16), 20 (11),
21 (11), 22 (10), 23 (15), 24 (9), 25 (5), 26 (28), 27 (14), 28 (12), 29 (14), 30 (7),
31 (16),

Archived questions from: 16 January, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

(More questions from January, 2010)

Trust issues: Help and advice

My friend thinks she is worthless and lets others put her down. How can I help her love herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - How do you make someone love themselves? I don't suppose you can MAKE them - but maybe some support that would actually help? I have been friends with this girl for going on 11 years now. Her parents were abusive and always talked down on her, and ...

Body image - I need reassurance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hello. I just need some serious reasurrance. For the last year ive noticed i have a little extra skin down below and its really starting to get me down. I dont thinks its really bad but its a little more than i would like. I know its normal, but ...

Hi mood swings drain me but I am crazy about him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 18 and I'm 21. I've never been bothered by the age gap, we get along very well and were friends first. When we first started sleeping together I'd just come out of a 2 and a half year relationship, and knew he was a total player, ...

After 10 years I find I am not his one and only

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I have just had the shock of my life and I need your advice! Just a few weeks ago, my boyfriend and I decided it was time for us to take a break. He had been very distant over the past few months.. and confused about where to from here with h...

His behaviour seems to be opposite to what he is saying

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Oki, here's the problem, iv been with my bf or about 7 months and I love him so much but there's a major problem which is bothering me . I was left really hearbroken by my ex doing some online cheating stuff, and one day this came around into the ...

She wanted a break but gets angry because I don't contact her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - my girlfriend of a year now decides that she wants a lil break. i for the last three days now, i've haven't actually called, text or tried to get in contacted with her in anyway, but we still would talk because she would call me or text or even when ...

My husband is often angry, it isnt his fault but I need to work out how to communicate with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My husband is angry a lot, it isn't his fault he has an explosive anger disorder. Lately he's been snapping at me for asking simple questions. He's more of a private person and I'm a very open one. We know that we are very different but I'm scared ...

SHe just wants to be FWB but I wondering if I should wait for things to change

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Okay, so I am a pretty inexperienced person when it comes to relationships, well, really inexperienced, and this girl is confusing me to no end. So, I finally met this girl I liked, we got hooked up by a bunch of friends, we were both sitting on ...

My boyfriend's life has gone pearshaped and there is no room in it for me right now

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend who's now my ex just broke up with me two weeks ago. He used the line " I think we should take a break" I"m trying to move on but can't help but wonder, what if. Were both young I'm 20 and he's 22. He says he has alot on his plate and ...

We went too far too fast and now I feel resentful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my bf for 3-4 years, almost entirely long distance. It's so dumb to worry about but it's really getting under my skin recently how quickly we sexually progressed, especially after reading things on here like "if he's worth it/ if ...

He often goes out without, I would like him to stay home with me now and again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating the same guy for a year now, and I keep getting annoyed by things lately. For instance, I am 21 years old and still live at home, which means I do have a curfew. It is lame I know, and my parents obviously do not trust me,even ...

She was my first, but I wasnt hers, and that makes me angry!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - She told me about one of the guys she has had sex with before me and Ive been wanting to kick his ass so bad. I saw him tonight and got so close but it didnt happen. She was staying with him when she got kicked out of her house and she had sex with...

It seems to me the good people lose out in love but the wicked continue to prosper

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I seem to notice these around me, the faithful, good, God fearing like myself for example still get heartbroken and suffer in love while the ones that play around, deceitful still seem to easily find love. Why?...

His mouth says he loves me but his actions say different

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - i have a boyfriend who is upset at me because of somethings i had done in my pass. he has been giving me a hard time about it and even calls me every name in the book.. he claims to love me and will never deni that to me but his actions show ...

My boyfriend has temper tantrums, and my older lover wants us to continue after he marries, I feel he is using me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a relationship with a boy i love however his emotional tantrums over the smallest things are starting to get to my nerves and i do not know if i will be able to stand this for long. However, on the other hand i was seeing an ...

My boyfriend confides things in my best friend that he doesn't tell me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - There's a guy I really like who is really sweet and funny and great. He and I have been talking and getting really close. He always compliments me and tells me that I look pretty. We talk about everything and I tell him things I don't tell anyone ...

I often have fantasies, but my wife wont join in!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - i have lot of fantasies. some is against my wife's wish. i want to get some opinion. i fantasy that my wife flirts with somebody else too. when on a trip i told her to expose little bit to our friend who was with us. i enjoyed when i saw he was look...

My b/f and I fight often, my mother hates him and he also lacks self esteem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - So I have this boyfriend, I've been with him almost five months and we have a bit a LOT of fights. We're kinda in a tight situation because my mom hates him because of something that happened, and he won't let me go to his house ( yeah, i know...

He texted he loved me, could he really mean it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I have known this guy for over 3 years now. At the beginning he was going out with this girl and they were together for 3 years. I liked him for like a year and then him and his girlfriend broke up. The year I liked him was their third year of going ...

I married in secret and now worry my family will find out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid , i will start sayin that i dated a guy when i was 19 and i loved him so much he cheated on me alot but whenever he needed i was always there , i come from a very strict family ,, ma bf was about to go to the army but cuz i have the ...