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*y12321
writes:Basically, my girlfriend keeps having mood swings at me and keeps telling me to **** off.....half the time she says she is joking.I have barely seen her outside of college for over a month and i used to see her often, but she says its because she lieks to see her friends alot, but that was never the case before.Whenever i bring it up that how much she cancels on me she tells me to **** off and threatens to break up with me and calls me stroppy.Now i can admit i do get jelous and selfish sometimes, but what does she expect when she see's other guys non stop?It's as if she doesn't want to meet me and that anymore.Please help?P.S. i have the balls to admit i am a clingy person, and am sometimes jelous over other guys she talks to and selfish about her. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): Some girls just love the chase, games, and bad boys. That is what keeps their interest. She's obviously one of those girls. She really trusts you and obviously has no fear letting go for a while because when she comes back, you'll be there. You are so good to her and I'm sure you really like her, but you deserve so much more- so many girls are looking for a guy like you. Just move on. Take the upper hand and next time she pulls something, be kind, but make sure to stand your ground and end it. Hope this helps!
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reader, visione  +, writes (29 January 2010):
 It's alright to be clingy, I wish people will stop stereotyping that as a female things because I know plenty of guys who are like that. As long as you aren't obsessive, which I don't think you are.
Those are pretty bad/insensitive jokes and that's a pretty harsh threat. You should just end it before she does it to you (it sounds inevitable at this point to be honest). Find someone who will appreciate you and enjoy spending time with you! Relationships involve 2 people, and yours sounds like she's not even there.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 January 2010):
Dump her. If she wants to treat you like crap, then she's not worth your time. Get rid of her, she's not good enough.
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