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*tar86s
writes:AHHHHHHHHHHH! i neeed help!im 19 years old and ive had a boyfriend for 4 years already!...hes a lot older than me hes 27. yeah i know such a big age gap but he is my bestfriends brother and by just going over her house everyday all day long we fell in love! well anyways 2 days ago i figured out his password to his emial address and i found something so disturbing! he was talking to gay men! this is a nightmare! when i read the first email i thought it was a girl i was ready to raise hell! but then i found out it was a guy i didnt know how to confront him! hes never ever showed me that maybe he is interested in males! hes very manly loves sports, video games, he hates going shopping with me! he doesnt care how hes dressed! he has some shirts that are soo old and ripping already but he still wears them because he says hes comfortable! we get in fights all the time cuz i see him checking out girls! hes always the one to bring up how many kids he wants to have with me and he has their names picked out already! hes constantly saying that he loves me out of the blue! its starting to make me feel so awkward around him! im usually always with him from morning to night but the past 2 days ive only spent couple hours with him! i dont know what to do or think! i need some advice! ASAP!
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reader, star86s +, writes (29 January 2010):
star86s is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you trans am man, strontiumdog and jazzy09! big help! im just a little spooked by it! and no hes never actually ment these guys he just chats with them! i dont think i will ever have the guts to come out and tell him cuz first of all i invaded his personal space! and second of all i dont know how to bring it up! its so awkward! i feel bad cuz im still feeling a little bit uncomforable around him and i dont know how to express it other than pickng fights with him for stupid reason! i do love him very much he was my first everything! and its already going to be 5 years that we have been together!
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reader, Trans Am Man +, writes (29 January 2010):
 maybe it's just a weird fetish of his. maybe he thinks the idea of sex with another male is a turn on for him. It doesn't mean he's going to act on it.
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reader, jazzy09 +, writes (29 January 2010):
well girl im your age and if that was me i would feel the same way if my man was doing that..but i think you should aask him.but make sure you two are alone with no one can hear you.if you guys argue. that way he wont say "this is not the place or time" GOOD LUCK!:)
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