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writes:okay, i went to a club the other night for my friends birthday. my friend also invited some other friends of his who i didn't know. i started talking to one of them and he was so funny and sweet. he was good looking and had a really nice smile. i started dancing with him and it looked like he liked dancing with me to. we started flirting and he came outide for a cigeratte with me which was sweet because no one else would. i then told him that i thought that he was good looking and he said i was to. the trouble is i have a boyfriend but he already knew i had one. it was time to go home and i asked him to put his number in my phone and he did. i text him the next day but he didn't reply. i waited. after a ouple of says i text him again but he didn't reply =[. it's been about a week know and i havn't heard from him. is it because he knows i've got a boyfriend or is it just that he's not interested???? please help me to get his attention, i can't stop thinking about him. and please don't say i should get rid of my boyfriend. please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): I've been on the other end of a situation like this. I was the girlfriend the my boyfriend was out there texting other girls he met at bars. His behavior hurt me and we eventually broke up. What is the point of dragging your boyfriend through the mud? Do you dislike him and disrespect him that much? This new guy is making the right choice in not getting involved with you. Cheating is hurtful and if you even care a little bit for your boyfriend and his feelings, you should break up with him first then, go out and meet new people. That is the responsible, mature thing to do.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 January 2010):
You think you can talk to another guy you basically fancy and then say 'don't tell me to get rid of my boyfriend'? Fact is if you fancy another guy and you want to get his attention, then something is wrong between you and your boyfriend. Don't sit there thinking about one guy you fancy whilst clinging to your boyfriend for comfort. The other guy didn't text back because you have a boyfriend and he won't be a part of cheating or breaking you up. Address your relationship with your boyfriend instead. Something is wrong there.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (29 January 2010):
 Hun, did you consider the fact that perhaps this guy wont cheat with someone else's gf???
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