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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend is so lovely... so why do I feel so insecure???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 months. He is 23, out of school, smart, successful, and wonderful to me. I'm 18, and a college student. This is both of our first relationships. Sometimes though, I feel really insecure. I know he ...

Is my ex boyfriend trying to get over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Am pregnant and alone. Father of baby denies his child so wants DNA. I said fine to that. No issue. He has been on/off, hot and cold..he said if baby doesn't come out as his he is gone and hope you are happy. I never replied cos I found this damn ...

What happens next???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - Ok im not quite sure what to do, my gf is a 18 im 21, and we basically had it worked out so that i would put things on hold until she finished college so we could live together and she got her education, then she would take a year out so i could ...

Break ups to make ups, why?????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I were togehter for 5 years. We both put each other through alot, till one day i threw her out. I didn't realize what I had till it was gone and begged her to come home. She decided to move out. I would see her every week and ask ...

I think I'm in the "why buy the milk?" situation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I'm 26 years old and my bf of 3 yrs (25) is really dragging his feet on the engagement issue. Since we started dating there has been so much discussion about our future, our children, where we'll live, etc. We've been living together for over 2 ...

My boyfriend is on online dating sites and I'm NOT happy about it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Hi there, My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, I'm 28 and we love one another and we're living together but there are a few things I'm not happy about our relationship. He loves going out and barely asks me to go out together. Also I...

What can I do to regain her trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - She had emotionally cheated on me with this other guy... she had been lying to me about a lot of things. I didn't trust her, so I hacked into his email. She said she was done talking with him, but the emails showed otherwise. I confronted her a...

Should I be upset about the mens magazines?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I recently talked to my boyfriend, last chrsitmas he brought home some "men's magazines" from home and had them in our bathroom. Technically I guess they weren't considered porn, but i think they were as they had naked girls EVERYWHERE. Anyway, s...

What does a break really mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend been together for 5 months,well My boyfriend said he wanted a break;; but he still wants to see me,he said "he is just stress" but not from me... i dnt understand why we are taking a break,if he still wants me to come over ...

If I cheat on my boyfriend how will it affect me if I never tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - So me an my bf are going on 4months. And for either of us this is a big deal. But I have been talking to this other guy corey and I am starting to get feelings for him. We talk more than my boyfriend and now I think that me and my bf are just too ...

All my boyfriends think I am too unpredictable! Can I ever change and get my boyfriend to like me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Question 1. ok here goes...iv always been quite insecure..mainly because my dad had quite a few affairs.. Iv had 2 serious boyfriends-both who finished the relationshi...

I put so much effort into this relationship and I feel like I am the only one who is trying to make it work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Hi. So, I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. We're in a long distance relationship, and that needs work, but we agreed we would try to make it work. I live about 8 hours away by car, and by using the plane I can be back where he is...

Does he think am a SLU*T?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - ive been texting this guy.. hes real sweet and sexy.. and ive been proper flirty..cos am like that naturally.. now am scared maybe he thinks am easy cos he just asked for exclusive pic and i text him i dont do them kinda pics.. i t...

Is this real or just a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months thing were great until I found out not only is she still texting her ex but apparently she stopped seeing him only two weeks before she started seeing me. Their relationship ended because he showed ...

I made a mistake whilst my girlfriend and I had split up, now there is a chance she could find out! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - About a year ago, my girlfriend, of about a year at the time and i, broke up, i stupidly got drunk to deal with it and slept with a girl who id been friends with and known for a while. I hated myself for it after and my girlfriend and i got back...

I asked him where I stand with him but I still have no idea what he means!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Hi. Thanks before hand for any answers. I've posted before about the situation i am in. But things have changed. So chatting to some guy for about 2 months, known him for like 3 years, we have like a online realtionship, you know the one, staying...

My boyfriend and his ex are too close for my liking, is he messing around with her when he goes to visit his son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - i am in a relationship with a man who's baby momma will only let him see his kids if he goes to her house.. he has sworn to me he isn't messing with her while he is there but im not sure. she texts him all hours sending him pics of him holding his ...

My wife and I are giving our relationship another chance after we both had affairs, how can we move on from this and let go of the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - Hi to all the people who answered my previous questions, about my affair and my wifes affair. We have got back together, we are both anxious, we both have trust issuse's, we both feel crushed. We are letting go of the past, after taking out the ...

My girlfriend wont tell me she loves me or show any affection towards me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - My girl and i have been going out for over 8 months. We really get along but the only snag in our relationship is that she doesnt tell me she loves me and she doesnt allow me to hold her or stay close to her. I know that she loves me but not hearing ...

My man has done a disappearing act, will he come back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about a month, he's expressed a lot of interest in me and it's been going great and we get on really really well. But I haven't seen him for almost a week, or heard from him for a couple of days and I'm starting to ...

How do I cope with the break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and half and I are breaking up. The hardest part about it is that I'm pregnant and pretty much due any day. Its not a life I want to bring my baby into, and I wish it didn't have to be like this. We still love each other, but ...

I really want another baby but I don't want to push my boyfriend into it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - hi im 19 years i have 2 year old girl ive not long told my boyfriend that i want another baby i told him just a few months b4 xmas just gone and i was going to stop taking my pill December but we both decaded not to until after xmas wall from then ...

Is it a good idea to ignore him for a few months so he will eventually give up on me and I can move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - OK... So I slept with my friend (Ultimate mistake!!) And of course, me being the chick, I started to have feelings for him.I thought we could have been really good together and I know he did at one stage too cuz he told me. Anyway, I have totally ...

Should I stick with my long distance relationship or choose the other guy who lives in the same city as me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I have this problem I'm eighteen years old and I am already making mistakes when it comes to my relationship stats. I am a girl who has internet relationships and keeps them. My recent boyfriend Ryan who I have been talking and having a connection ...

I'm still living with my ex and hoping we get back together, but I am getting so paranoid she is seeing someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - Well, me and my ex were together for 3 years and we live together. We broke up a few months ago due to trust issues on both sides, but continued to live together. Almost straight after we broke up, she admitted that she had started seeing someone ...

My first time was not a good experience and now has me doubting that I might be gay!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - im 20 yrs old and im wondering if am i gay??? because i just lost my virginity to a girl complete stranger i dont know i just met her and did it. i thought the sex was gonna be real good cause its my first time but it wasnt hers and it was good but ...

The pain from the terrible relationship with my first love came back after 3 years without warning, is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - My first love used me and killed me emotionally for over a year and the pain after 3 years came back without warning. Is it normal for it to resurface without a trigger and after so long. ...

What should I do about my ex wanting me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - About 2-3 months ago I broke up with my ex for many reasons.We were together almost 3 years. About 2 weeks after splittling up I started talking to a new guy which eventually led to dating. New guy was great! however...whenever I was with the new ...

Why would my partner be masturbating while they were asleep?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - has anyone ever caught their spouse masterbating while they thought you were asleep ?...

He shattered my heart but should I still hang in there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a long history, we;ve been together for a year but we were best firends for 2 years before he asked me out , i recently foung out he had been messageing other women on a site called my year book , i found it on his computer , ...

It's complicated...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5222 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I am a complete mess. I'm going to try to explain this as easy as possible, but there's a lot to explain... Hoping someone can understand and help... Let me explain first that I am 35 years old and my clock is ticking and I really wan...

My boyfriend thinks I'm lying about my bra size. Should I be pissed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend doesnt believe I wear a size d or double-d bra, I know he was just saying that because he wants to see my boobs, but for some reason I got really pissed about it. Is it normal for me to get mad at him?...

What the hell does he want? I'm tired of being the one that always gets hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - Me and my ex were together for 2yrs, and we have been split up for 4 months now. Well its not only the two of us, he has a daughter as well. We had plans of marriage and kids the big happy family thing... His daughter calls me mom beacuse I am the ...

Why won't he commit to anything when he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I meant this guy over 5 years ago,he became a close friend and I ended up falling in love with him and he fell in love with me. During the time I meant him I was in a horrible relationship that I was having a hard time getting out of. To say the ...

Anyone have an inkling of why my ex is like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I miss my ex.I try to think of the negative but I only end up thinkin bout how much fun we had. I want to feel that I've done everything to try to make things right.I thought I did but I still feel drawn to him. Its been 6 mo since we've brok...

Our whole relationship has been one big lie! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - i recently found out through a friend that my girl friend of 3 years has a AdultfriendFinder sliver membership, according to her profile shes been with 10 guys off there in the past year and also had a 3some, she has videos up using a toy that i ...

He has not texed me or called me which he does whenever we have an argument, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

5 January 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid I am gay and was in a relationship with my best friend for about 6 months we have know each other for about 1 year and a half. I told him about 6months ago that I care for him deeply and I am in love with him. He first said that he lov...

Help!!! AM I jealous???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend says I'm jealous. Here's why he may think so: he's still good friends with his ex (and her entire family) and goes to visit her at work and her home. She takes him to concerts and invites him out, but doesn't include me. At the same ...

Getting slapped by my boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a boyfriend for the past 10 months. usually i would tell him whatever i do. since he did not have his mobile for a few days we are not able to contact one another properly. yesterday i had gone to see a movie with ...

He's not financially stable enough to marry me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend n me have been together for 4 years n we really wanted to get married. however we are of different religions so we knew we would face problems convincing our families. he tried his luck really hard at business so that he could stand on ...