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Archived questions from: 31 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is he more attached than he let on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hello: My boss is like 44 yrs old. He is very immature.. Well, I have been pulling away from him for some time because of an attraction between us. Needless to say - It went to HR. He asked to stay cordial with me and wanted us to sti...

His anger problems are tearing us apart...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 3 years collectively now. I've broken up with him before because of his uncontrolled anger problem. He gets angry at the smallest things and then I have to try and calm him down. Usually when he gets angry it ...

Why is she distancing herself from me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (?) - I am a middle aged female. My very best friend is also a middle aged female. She say's she has had low self-esteem all of her life. What I don't understand about low self-esteem in regards to my friend, is when she thinks I am distancing myself or ...

My boyfriend became violent and doesn't tell me what is the matter. Can you help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hi. my boyfriend is a very nice person and is very caring. recently he has been quite violent and aggresive. i dont know whats wrong. ive asked him and he says nothing is bothering him. can anyone help me please. ...

Guys, what makes you think a girl is easy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - all guys that comes my way. thinks am cute and sexy. and they all just seem to want sex.. i dont dress sl.utty..or give it up easy.. but i do however, flirt with guys alot..(thats cos they always start flirting with me first) and when they r...

Bad relationship with my husbands kids! How can I change things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Several years ago I got involved with an older, married man. At the time I thought it was simply a short fling, but it developed into a relationship that eventually led to him leaving his wife. I do not feel the need to go into the 'gritty' ...

Should I take police advise and sue my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have an awful ex - he abused me emotionally and sexually for years (physically only right at the end, when I was finally getting out). I'm wondering if revenge is worth it at all? I could either do nothing and continue working through my issues, ...

We have gone from a spontaneous fun sex life to ziltch. Is it me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 31. We’ve been together for 2 and a half years. At the start of our relationship, our sex life was brilliant, it was fun, spontaneous, sexy and naughty, I would often dress up in naughty outfits/underwear, and we would use ...

I text him, he says he doesn't know who I am, or that he doesn't want to talk, and yet I still wonder if he could be interested in me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone help needed please, i like this guy and we got on really wel, anyway we stopped talking for a reason i cant really explian 2 u it wasnt bad but he didnt belive that it was not me, Anyway everynow and then i text him sometimes he rel...

I quickly ruled him out, but now am wondering if I was too harsh

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - There is this guy that is interested in me, however I have ruled him out on after two dates, an informal meeting, and two chats online. He gave me a pretty tough first impression to get over as he didn't seem like he cared about others feelings or ...

Is he Gay or am I Crazzzy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I hate to think this way because I love my boyfriend with every beat of my heary buuuut there's a few things I'm starting to wonder about latley. ((Hopefully I'm wrong)) Ok so my bf and I have been together for nearly 4 years. This is my First ...

Is he interested or not? Should I drop him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Below is a text from a guy I'm dating. "sorry i was hung over so it took a while to reply im sick atm. i finish work there at 6. wanna catch up in dalesford lemme knw xoxo." It took him 24 hours to post that.. he always takes forever.. I tri...

Is love supposed to hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I need some major advise i am so confused i wonder at times is love suppose to hurt? i have two daughters with two different men and the last man was almost perfect except for the fact that he didnt work..he was so nice understanding and romantic ...

Am I being unreasonable in my distrust of him and by getting angry at the drunken states he gets into?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hi. I'm 19, and I've been with my boyfriend for about a year, he's 21. Before going out with him, I'd only had one previous sexual partner, when I was 17. My boyfriend, on the other hand, has had about 10 sexual partners. None of which he dated, t...

I think he has feelings for another girl! How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend has feelings for another girl... Should I talk to him about it? What would I say if I talk to him about it? HELP!!!...

He told me he's territorial and doesn't want me hanging out with other guys! What does he mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hey i gotta question whats it mean when my boyfriend tells me that he doesn't want me hanging with other guys or really talking to them.....he told me hes territorial...??...

He accuses me of cheating everytime I go overseas! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have a seven years old relationship with a gentleman who is accusing me of being unfaithful to him everytime i travelled overseas. I went overseas three times since we are together and he thinks i am having sexual intercourse with guys in those ...

It seemed great, and then he doesn't want to go out. Was it just for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I just got dumped by a guy I really liked after less than a month. Things seemed great at first as we had a lot in common and our personalities really seemed to click. After two weeks he suddenly seemed distant, but when I asked if something was ...

He calls me names and he has stopped taking care of himself. Should I dump him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend calls me a bitch sometimes when he's mad. We've been together for 4 years now, but we just got back together at the end of October after I broke up with him for 3 months. One of the agreements for us to be a couple again was that he ...

What does it mean when someone only calls you talk about their problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - When you meet someone and get into a relationship with them while they're going through a rough time, but then they finally come out of it a while after you break up (they are finally improving their life and are happier), and they used to call you ...

Do I just sit back and let my boyfriend disown his family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old. Our relationship has been plagued by the same problem from the very start. I am West Indian and he is East Indian. So, his parents come from India and mine from the Caribbean. Both of our parents are ...

Planning my future in the Navy. My friends don't understand and I feel isolated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hi i'm applying for the navy soon (in july to be precise) so i've been training phisically, mentally and emotionally. i've also been getting as much experience as i can on ships n that. but i'm only 15. half the people who are 16 in my school ...

He flipped out when I answered his phone. Is his anger justified?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Tonight, I was playing a game on my boyfriend's cell phone. A private number called, so I handed him the phone. He pressed the ignore button, which ended the call. I went back to my game, and the private number called back about a minute later. I ...