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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:ive been texting this guy.. hes real sweet and sexy.. and ive been proper flirty..cos am like that naturally..now am scared maybe he thinks am easy cos he just asked for exclusive pic and i text him i dont do them kinda pics..i texted him that i was not easy and was just flirting and sorry if i lead him on..he texted back this..ok cool. i respect you for saying that but i think ur quite immature and going by what ur saying, i dont know who you are. funny enough i thought we were getting along but i cant trust anything you'll say because you might be 'flirting' so we might as well leave it. sorry madam.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Someone who tries to get you to do things like that should not be a part of your life. Well done for saying no!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (5 January 2010):
 He did think you were and then you set him straight and he backed off.
I think your flirted a little bit to seriously and sent him the wrong message.
But in this case it worked out (unless you wanted a guy who only wants you for sex).
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Hello. He doesnt `get` flirting. Hes one of those that think if youre flirty it means you want their bodies! Maybe tone down the flirting a little and make sure guys know its just for fun as some can be confused by it.
As for him. Hes just sulking because hes confused by your talk but no action and he didnt get what he wanted. Tell him to grow up. And definately dont send any dodgy pics. Once youve sent them you have no control over who sees them or where they end up. All the best
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 January 2010):
 Whew, close call. Congrats you managed to escape from yet another jerk.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Emily is right- there's nothing sweet about what he's doing. He is trying to manipulate you into sending a picture but saying you are immature, etc. Ignore it. He is the one being immature because he hasn't got his own way and is now in a sulk. You definitely did the right thing by not sending one. So many things can go wrong if you go down that route. You are definitely best off without him if this is the way he is behaving towards him. Don't be led into doing things by his attempts to denigrate you and make you feel guilty. Moreover, if he is the sort of person who says no photo=no relationship then he is a complete idiot and not worth your time.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 January 2010):
No, he doesn't. And he's an ass. You were right not to send him any pictures. He would have flashed them to all this friends. You're a lovely normal lady, so don't be worried at all. You're far better without this guy, he's the one who is immature. Clearly has no understanding of women one bit. Move on and forget about him.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 January 2010):
No he thinks the absolute opposite.
He's annoyed that you won't send him a naked photo (something most clever girls would never ever do) so he's trying to make you feel bad.
He's not sweet. He's a moron and you are well shot of him. If he was sweet then he would have asked you out on a date rather than just texting "show us your tits!" which is what he did.
Stay lady like and stay flirty, just be aware that there are lots of idiots out there so stay safe.
Good Luck!! xx
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