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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My wife's sexual fantasy excluded me! Should I feel badly about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - I have a question; my wife and I have been together for 15 years or so. We have talked about sexual fantasies in the past and my wife claimed she never had any, or the ones she did were like me and her having sex in the backyard etc. she said tha...

I feel like I'm missing out on my youth by being in love.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 23 years old and have been in my relationship since I was nineteen, so we're going on four years now. We live together, have a dog, and are partners and best friends! The problem is... I feel like i'm missing out on my youth...

How do I convince my ex I lust after her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - My ex-wife and I have been divorced for 3 years. We were married for 10 years and have 3 beautiful children together. We are both very involved in our children's life and communicate on an almost daily basis. Mostly regarding the children. She ...

I admit being OTT about hubby talking to another woman, but he says I am nasty and vindictive!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have recently got married for the third time. My new husband speaks daily with a woman we both know and I asked him to stop. He told me that I was trying to censor him, nothing is going on and that he won't stop contact with her as there is no ...

Has he been cheating & should I stay or tell him what I know & get rid of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I am with my partner for 5 years and I thought we were very close until recently. He's 52 and I'm 46 and we are both divorced. During the first 2 years together I herad remarks/comments/rumours about him and other women and whe I asked hi...

My ex sexually assaulted me and I don't know what to do

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so im sorry if this gets long, and i know that im more in the wrong than any of these guys! I just really dont know what to do anymore, ive been with my amazing boyfriend Richard now, for 11 months, everythings being going great, hes so kind ...

Save your "you are just a kid" speeches

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - Ok righto. My beautiful girlfriend's mum brewed up a shit storm with a friend of my family. The mum is a hell of a lot less immature than than my love. So after the fact things between my girlfriend, lets call her Ella, and me have been a bit ...

I don't know if I should trust him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I am packing up stuff into boxes at the moment to move house with my boyfriend and I came across his leaving card from his most recent employer - it was signed by loads of people. I was looking at the card laughing at some of the comments when I ...

My girlfriend lost a bottle of her favourite perfume while in a club with me last night... And she wants ME to replace it! What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - Last night in a club with my friends, I got separated from the group. I decided to text my girlfriend to find out where she was. When I couldn't find her from her directions I told her where she could find me. When she got there she waved to me, and ...

What sort of man would do this to his child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have had a married lover for over 25years, when I met him he was not married, anyway I have 1 son with him and he has 3 sons with his wife, he paid child support for the child for 19 years, But he (my son) caught us talking dirty on the internet ...

Why doesn't he like me asking questions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - My partner and I have just started to workout together. He is a police officer and ex-military and is very experienced in this area, but I am not. I am the type of person that asks questions in order to understand what I need to do, and he gets very ...

Our relationship has come to a standstill, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5212 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - My wonderful boyfriend and I have been together for eight months. It was beautiful, blissful... up until a little over a month ago. There is really no specific moment in time that either of us noticed a decline in anything. We are very compatible ...

I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread ...

Long Read - My boyfriend's drug problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I don't like feeling so torn, and I tried to mentally prepare for this to not happen, but it happened. My ex was in a bad place in his life when we met. He tried to make it seem like he was not, but it soon became obvious to me that he had not ...

My gf is pregnant, wants to keep it, but I don't.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - My gf is pregnant. We've been together for 5 years. I don't want to keep it. She didn't want to either, but now just accepts it and wants to keep it. We rarely even have sex and she was on the pill, of course this has to happen. She just looks at ...

How do I get through to him that while he might find it attractive I find shaving my pubic area sleazy and gross and uncomfortable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - My husband keeps asking me (repeatedly) to shave (or at least severely trim) my pubic area. I prefer to just shave the sides to keep everything inside the underwear. If it was up to me (i.e. no embarrassing moments at the pool) I would stop shaving ...