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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend getting divorce and wants to be left alone now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating a man for a few months that I have found myself getting very attached to. He filed for divorce in June of 08', but the divorce has not been settled. We have had a great relationship, but he does get very moody at times and "goes ...

Does my girlfriend really love me, or is she just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - I'm in high school. In the beginning of the year I really wanted to have a serious relationship with a girl, and I thought I found her, but now I'm not so sure. My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a month and a half now, she's not a ...

How do I break the big heave ho to him... gently?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Hiya, I really need help! I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, I love him very much, but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. We met in college, when we were 16/17 and everything was great until about 5 months ago. We have bot...

My long distance relationship girlfriend doesn't want to share he problems with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - Hi there, so me and my gf have been in a Long distance relationship for about a month and 18 days now, but recently something really strange happened last week. I called and texed her but she didn't reply or call back (which she usually does). i...

My angry feelings towards my teacher are coming back after he announced that he's leaving.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Hello, I need some advice on my current feelings because they are getting me down, It sounds extermly stupid, but I am currently doing my A2 levels and am studying ICT, and my teacher got married last xmas and i was strangely jealous and thought ...

Jealous of the blonde downstairs who is getting in between me and my man.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - So there's this blonde girl I was really jealous of who spends time with my bf and talks to him all the time and it was really bothering me, I recently found conversations between them that were really disgusting and hurt me a lot, she even sent him ...

I'm 18 wks pregnant and my BF is still trying to get me to have an abortion or miscarriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - hi i am 18 years old im 18 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend of 2 yrs is still trying to get me to have an abortion or a miscarriage he said if i love him i would do that for me. mind you dat 1yr ago i had an abortion of havin 2twins 1girl n1 boii - ...

He's supposed to visit me in March and suddenly asks for "a break"? What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I've known him since April 2009. Well, we used to know each other when we were kids, but then he moved away and neither of us cared cause we didn't used to like each other. He's 24, I'm 22. Either way, we've been dating for 7 months. He's in the ...

I'm burned out! He hits me, chokes me, and flirts and blames it on his drinking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I am so sad and confused. I live with Bill and he tells me all the time he loves me but he hits me in the head, chokes me and when we go out he flirts with other females in front of me. One female said he wanted to have sex with her. Bill blames his ...

Am I being too protective of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I need some advice please. My boyfriend is doing some work somewhere away from me, and I can't see him. I would be with him but my school and education get's in the way :\ But I still talk to him on the phone, msn and facebook. But there is this gi...

I have trouble talking and relating to people...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - hey all i have this prob that i cant talk to ppl. i mean its not a problem when we are more than 2 ppl. but i always get stuck when theres only one person near me. i was always like this, and always was scared to be in a 1on1 situation. thats...

He hates me! So tell me... how do I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I have a crush on someone who hates me. Hate might be a little strong but he is definately not interested. Yet I still can't stop thinking about him. It is making my life unbearable and I keep asking myself how could you be attracted to someone ...

His Father's sudden death is causing too much stress in our relationship! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating around 2 and 1/2 years. A few weeks ago his father passed away very suddenly. Not only has this created the normal emotional stress that comes with losing a loved one, it also has brought all sorts of financial ...

What does he mean when he says I'm in trouble?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I made a silly mistake of having a one week affair with a man on my job. He was the cutest thing I had ever seen. I just wanted to sleep with him and nothing more-especially since he is married 33 yrs. I heard he was a play boy and run through ...

How do I know my boyfriend wont break up with me again for the same reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - My bf's friends dont like me and they treat me like crap. I am not 100% sure why they dont like me, Ive never been mean to them or anything. I think its just they see me as a stereotypical "nerd" who is boring etc and a "goody goody" because I am a ...

Am I being selfish for wanting him to man-up to his family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over two months now. The only problem is I think he is a little too attached to his family. He is 19 years old, yet he still has a curphew of 11:30 pm, this includes weekends. We also don't get to see ...

I know I've been played so how do I redeem myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - At one time, I was close with this guy. We were constantly in touch, whether it be online, texting, talking on the phone, or meeting up. I tried my hardest not to open up to this guy too much. But I couldn't help but trust him. First we started ...

I'm worried I will make the wrong choice and be unhappy forever!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend for 3 years now that both me and my family love. We've talked about marriage, we spend alot of time together, he's an overall amazing person. The problem is that I had a relationship "vacation relationship back home in Portugal ...

Can exciting sex and a serious relationship coexist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Can exciting sex and a serious relationship coexist? There is a story: A country girl is about to marry a rich guy in the city, who she is not really attracted to. She wants to have sex with the rough country boy. The rich guy provides for he...

Am I just his rebound relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Hey so I just have a question. I have been seeing this really sweet guy for about 3 weeks now and I'm just wondering if it could be a rebound realtionship. He just broke off a 4 year relationship(engaged for a year) back in August and he is super ...

I'm obsessed with another guy who wants nothing to do with me, how can I forget about him and focus on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I can't stop thinking about this guy but I have a boyfriend. My boyfriend knows but still is with me. I want to forget about him because he wants nothing to do with me. If I were to pick between him and my bf I would pick to be with him. So if I ...

Confront now or later, Stay or Go: Boyfriend of 3 yrs found with account on adult social site AFF

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We met through friends and we fell for each other quickly. I moved in with him about 7 months after we got together. A couple of months the move in we discussed marriage and were both in favor ...

Should I divorce my long distance wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - Hie.. I just got married about a month ago and I am already thinking about separation. The reason behind it is that i do not think my wife is a good wife. We hhad a history where were were dating for about a year and broke up due to commitmant is...

Any hope for our marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I love this man more then I can tell you. We have been together for almost 20 years. We have had are ups and downs but lately its just bad. He blames me for all the bad going on in our marriage. He recently told me that I was fat and dicussing and ...

Should I leave him and start over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - I'm 21 and I have been with my boyfriend for 2years we have a 10mth old daughter togeather. We have had are ups and downs, I'm haveing truble getting him in the mood. Or he acks like he wants it then turns me down later in the day. I'm getting ...

She cheated, made promises to me and then sent nude pics to another guy...what is her mentality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - My girl friend cheated on me we broke up, she made a lot and a lot of promises. She told me and messaged the guy in front of me that they should not meet or contact. Recently I found out that she took photos of herself nude and sent it to the g...

She textes me and reaches out to me and don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5222 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - hi, my girlfriend and i broke up about 3 months ago. she said she loved me but not inlove with me. it seems like all of a sudden over the last month we have been talking or texting . she seem to reach out to me with a text or something. see we ...

My boyfriend's dad calls to much, how to control my irritated anger towards my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Is he in the relationship with me or his dad dating us too? what can I do to stop me from getting so angry when his dad calls? ;I feel his dad calls to much and I know they have a close relationship and recently his dad found out he has cancer b...