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Archived questions from: 16 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Girl needs space... I think!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Alright, so I've talked with a few of my other friends, and they are girls, some are guys... and it's regarding my situation with this girl. We hung out almost every night when I was available (work, etc...) Whether it be by phone, or somethin...

My boyfriend doesn't want to kiss.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he has stopped kissing me. He doesn't like kissing me and when he does there is no passion. It was not like this before... is there something wrong?...

Part time boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Okay hers my problem. Back in Nov. I met the most amazing woman. She was everything I have ever wanted in woman and more. During the next month we had a really great time together. She told me that she loved me and that I was the first person that ...

My friend thinks she is worthless and lets others put her down. How can I help her love herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - How do you make someone love themselves? I don't suppose you can MAKE them - but maybe some support that would actually help? I have been friends with this girl for going on 11 years now. Her parents were abusive and always talked down on her, and ...

Hypocritical boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for a long time now and when we first started dating i made big life changes for him; i gave up smoking tobacco and weed, i changed friend groups, i started eating etc. for the simple reason that he wanted me to. now, ...

Help needed!!! Dazed and confused...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - one night my wife and her best girl friend were having drinks. i had a camera and coaxed them into kissing and a little boob feeling with each other. i honestly thought i would be told to smarten up and stop, but next thing i knew they were making ...

He seems to be so mean to me when he's drunk.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Okay - This is probably not a big deal but I don't know how to handle it. My bf and I have been together about 1 year. We are buying a house together. Twice now he's gotten drunk and and is so mean. Not physically abusive or anything. But he'll say ...

Hi mood swings drain me but I am crazy about him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 18 and I'm 21. I've never been bothered by the age gap, we get along very well and were friends first. When we first started sleeping together I'd just come out of a 2 and a half year relationship, and knew he was a total player, ...

After 10 years I find I am not his one and only

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I have just had the shock of my life and I need your advice! Just a few weeks ago, my boyfriend and I decided it was time for us to take a break. He had been very distant over the past few months.. and confused about where to from here with h...

His behaviour seems to be opposite to what he is saying

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Oki, here's the problem, iv been with my bf or about 7 months and I love him so much but there's a major problem which is bothering me . I was left really hearbroken by my ex doing some online cheating stuff, and one day this came around into the ...

We haven't met since we were little kids, now I get butterflies thinking about meeting up with him again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - okay so, i went to primary school with this guy, we didn't speak for about 5 years after that but now we have started speaking again, i'm starting to fall in love with him and i think he's perfect for me, but the thing is im not sure if he likes me...

She wanted a break but gets angry because I don't contact her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - my girlfriend of a year now decides that she wants a lil break. i for the last three days now, i've haven't actually called, text or tried to get in contacted with her in anyway, but we still would talk because she would call me or text or even when ...

My husband is often angry, it isnt his fault but I need to work out how to communicate with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My husband is angry a lot, it isn't his fault he has an explosive anger disorder. Lately he's been snapping at me for asking simple questions. He's more of a private person and I'm a very open one. We know that we are very different but I'm scared ...

SHe just wants to be FWB but I wondering if I should wait for things to change

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Okay, so I am a pretty inexperienced person when it comes to relationships, well, really inexperienced, and this girl is confusing me to no end. So, I finally met this girl I liked, we got hooked up by a bunch of friends, we were both sitting on ...

Everytime I hug and kiss my girlfriend my body reacts and its embaressing ...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Ok I'm 14 and i know some of y'all won't think this is serious and all but it is everytime I hug or kiss my girlfriend i get an erection and it embarrases me and I feel akward and I ant just stop hugging and kissing her because shell notice it and ...

My boyfriend's life has gone pearshaped and there is no room in it for me right now

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend who's now my ex just broke up with me two weeks ago. He used the line " I think we should take a break" I"m trying to move on but can't help but wonder, what if. Were both young I'm 20 and he's 22. He says he has alot on his plate and ...

We met online by accident, and now we are talking of meeting up some place

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hello, So this is a first for me. I started talking this guy online some, basically by accident, and we have talked more and more, spending hours on the phone, texting, and web cam. Hours and hours on web cam. It's unusual that I would get involv...

We went too far too fast and now I feel resentful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my bf for 3-4 years, almost entirely long distance. It's so dumb to worry about but it's really getting under my skin recently how quickly we sexually progressed, especially after reading things on here like "if he's worth it/ if ...

My b/f is coming home from Afghanistan, how can I tell him I'm not ready for marriage yet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hi guys, I am in a long distance relationship, with my bf in afghanistan in the military; i'm nervous that when he gets back he's going to propose to me and i'm not ready. while i feel strongly about him, his coming back will signal our first ti...

I don't think he is into sex as much as I am

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend just recently moved in with me dec 3rd. We have been together for over a year, we are both 20 years old and experiencing sexual problems. We have been sexual for about 4 months now and at first I just thought since he was a virgin he ...

He often goes out without, I would like him to stay home with me now and again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating the same guy for a year now, and I keep getting annoyed by things lately. For instance, I am 21 years old and still live at home, which means I do have a curfew. It is lame I know, and my parents obviously do not trust me,even ...

It seems to me the good people lose out in love but the wicked continue to prosper

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I seem to notice these around me, the faithful, good, God fearing like myself for example still get heartbroken and suffer in love while the ones that play around, deceitful still seem to easily find love. Why?...

His mouth says he loves me but his actions say different

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - i have a boyfriend who is upset at me because of somethings i had done in my pass. he has been giving me a hard time about it and even calls me every name in the book.. he claims to love me and will never deni that to me but his actions show ...

My boyfriend has temper tantrums, and my older lover wants us to continue after he marries, I feel he is using me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a relationship with a boy i love however his emotional tantrums over the smallest things are starting to get to my nerves and i do not know if i will be able to stand this for long. However, on the other hand i was seeing an ...

I told a girl I loved her, and she said she has feelings for her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - i told a girl i loved her n her reply was "oh rite" the following day she told me still has feelings for her ex but she cant go with him..... was i right to till her to stay out my life forever?...

I cheated on my boyfriend but he wants me to let him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend, and also my daughters father have been together for two years. i have not been in love with him for about six months but i want it soooo badly to work out. he's done some really hard things to look past in our relationship and ...

My b/f and I fight often, my mother hates him and he also lacks self esteem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - So I have this boyfriend, I've been with him almost five months and we have a bit a LOT of fights. We're kinda in a tight situation because my mom hates him because of something that happened, and he won't let me go to his house ( yeah, i know...

He texted he loved me, could he really mean it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5226 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I have known this guy for over 3 years now. At the beginning he was going out with this girl and they were together for 3 years. I liked him for like a year and then him and his girlfriend broke up. The year I liked him was their third year of going ...

My ex lives in my house and its not working

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hello: This may sound crazy I have lived with my ex boyfriend for 2 months he uses drugs okay I have a small apartment and of course he sleeps when he has sometimes I think the walls are going to close in around me I can get so bored I have a 16 ...

How can I get it through my sister's head that I can't and will not raise her kid for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - When my sister had her daughter, I promised to help her take care of her (for example, babysit her while she's at school). I never promised to raise her kid for her. My sister is a very blessed (aka spoiled) fifteen year old, who got involved wit...

I married in secret and now worry my family will find out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid , i will start sayin that i dated a guy when i was 19 and i loved him so much he cheated on me alot but whenever he needed i was always there , i come from a very strict family ,, ma bf was about to go to the army but cuz i have the ...

I don't know how to approach my partner about a sex problem

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16 January 2010 (F) - I have been with this man for some time, and I realize that I probably should have brought this up earlier. Now when we have sex he pulls out just before he releases himself and more often than not I do not have an orgasm. I know that for a lot of ...