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Archived questions from: 24 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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We seem to be on different planes of thought...should I just love him for-better-or-worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F - When my b/f of 5 years first got with me we'd both been married before so we were in no hurry to go there. We moved in together and things have been pretty good. Maybe a year ago we started talking about the possibility of marriage but didn't make ...

Can low testosterone/depression make you think you no longer love your partner?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

24 January 2010 (F - Following extensive cancer treatment (testicular) including chemo and surgery my H (age 39) has now been told he has low testosterone althouygh his last reading was 10 and his LH levels were up. 10 apparantly was considered normal even though he has ...

I was seeing a girl but ended it with anger, now I'm talking to her again, how can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

24 January 2010 (M - I still like the girl that i went out with last summer, but we got in a fight, and NOW its all good, i still like her very much but i don't know how i can approach her about going out again. I need urgent help. I was seeing this girl last summer...

I want a divorce, my wife is pregnant and I'm having an affair with our neighbour....help!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 January 2010 (M - I am 32 yrs old and have been married for 4 yrs. A year ago we moved to a new town and my wife and I drifted apart. She befriended our neighbours and became close friends with the lady. We would often go to dinners there and I met their now 19 yr ...

She's four months pregnant and I'm not the father...should I break up with her before things get any farther, or just support her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

24 January 2010 (M - I'm a senior in high school, and recently started seeing this amazing girl, who's my age. She seems perfect for me-smart, funny, and really sweet. We get along great. The only problem is that's she's about four months pregnant. The father is her ...

I really love him but I don't want to be anyone's fool.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

24 January 2010 (F - my ex and I were together for 4 years, lived together and planned our wedding. He wasn't happy in the summer (now know was wedding pressure, mainly financial) so we split up but got back together a few days later with wedding off. About 2 weeks ...

My boyfriend of 7 years broke up with me 8 months ago but we still live together. Please, please heip me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

24 January 2010 (F - Il keep this short, my bf of 7 yrs broke up with me 8 months ago, I was heartbroken.. He said he didn't think it cud work he wasn't in love with me anymore and wanted to do his own thing.. He is 5 yrs younger than me and we always and still do get ...

Any insight into his abusive behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

24 January 2010 (F - Hi Guys! My long time partner and I have been estranged for about a year but still have feelings for each other and have been friends on/off for the last few months. Last week though he really annoyed me and upset me by sending me a nasty ...

How can someone take advantage of a person who showed complete loyalty?

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24 January 2010 (F - My question is how can someone take advantage of someone who has shown true loyalty and love towards them and they trample all over you like a doormat? We had been dating for about 4 months, initially things were really good. Then I would say ...

I don't want to hurt this lovely girl who is crazy about me...but I cant forget my ex...what should I do?

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24 January 2010 (M - a few years ago i broke up with the love of my life, and meet a lovely girl within weeks. i chased my ex for over a year and finally we got back together. during this time i was seriusly ill and told my ex to leave me cause she was too young to deal ...

Is it normal to stay in a relationship if the constant arguing makes you feel awful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

24 January 2010 (F - I recently got out of a long term relationship because I was so fed up with how are arguments were destroying me on the inside. The resson I felt like I wanted to get out of this relationship, was because sometimes he would make me feel like shi...

We have been dating over a year, I suspect he is gay, what do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

24 January 2010 (F - Is it weird if your boyfriend doesn't initiate kissing? My boyfriend of over a year doesn't initiate kissing, but when I initiate it, he says he enjoys it but he thought he wasn't any good at it. Also, in the internet history of my computer...

Should I confront her about trying to always make me jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

24 January 2010 (M - Hello, I've been dating this girl for 4 months now but she constantly tries to make me jealous, and tries to get a reaction out of me. For the past 2 months, wherever we are she'll make a remark of some sort saying, "Oh, check out that guy over ...

Any insight about why she may need time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

24 January 2010 (M - My girlfriend and I have been together for a year now... Right before i 1 year anniversary, she freaked out. The last time i saw her everything was fine, then i recieved no replies to texts for 1 week, at first, she said she was busy, as she has a ...

What kind of guy is he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

24 January 2010 (F - I want to give some advice to my friend who is having trouble with her boyfriend.She tells me that he has a job but doesn't help her pay rent or help her out with the bills.He lives with her but doesn't like the help her with anything..like ...

Can't handle girlfriend's sexual past!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 January 2010 (M - Alright. So I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 months. She's wonderful. I believe I'm in love with her. I'm 25, she's 21. At the beginning of our dating, I asked her how many guys she had been with. The number she told me shocked me. She said, and ...

Shes back to stripping, she says she will keep her knickers and ring on,all week I saw her for a few hours on wednesday and thats it! am I being unreasonable...?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

24 January 2010 (M - Hi, I want some other peoples on opinion on this as I don't know whether its me being unreasonable or whether I am justified in being upset. I have been going out with a girl a while and we are engaged and we are very much in love. In the pas...

Can someone please call 911..lol..any help anyone??????????? major help is needed..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

24 January 2010 (F - Im baaaaaaaaack.. well it's been a minute since i've been on cupid and just to update everyone on whats going on with my life.. im still with my fiancee, he's been laid off for a year and two months. I've gotten my GED and now I am enrolling into S...

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