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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

After all this time, he just got married. Do I love him? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hi all, i'm new here and i need help.. This may take a bit to explain, but bear with me.. please? Basically, a few years ago when i was still in high school i met a man a lot older.. i was 15 and he was 33. I got involved with him (in secret)and ...

Help! I have a crush on my boyfriend's younger brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a silly, on-going crush on my boyfriend's younger brother. He doesn't know, and I'd NEVER tell him or do anything - but I secretly fantasize about him, and I always have dreams about him if I've seen him during the day. ...

I want my girlfriend to be more ladylike and not behave this way!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Hi, I am in a relationship and having a few issues with my current girlfriend. I wasn't that keen on her to start with but I seem to have really fallen for her. We get on well as friends, spend nearly all of our time together, she's rea...

How can I just be more happy in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - hey there alright well my bf and i almost broke up last night because him and i just havent been getting along lately...like we always fight i dont have much trust for him he says i dont make him happy and he dont treat me like a gf should be treat...

Could I be falling out of love ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for 3years now, and things have been great. clearly there have been ups and downs, but it's generally good. Recently tiny things have been getting to me, and make me so annoyed at him. I always tell him when i'm...

How can I bring up the 'separation' conversation with my wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - well it has been a few months now and I have seen a lawyer and a counselor I think I am ready to have the seperation chat with my wife of 5 years we have been together for 9. I just wanted to ask how does one approach the other on this? Even though ...

Partner calls me from work but only talks for a second or two and I don't know why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, From Monday- Thursday,the job where my fiance works allows him 3 breaks: 10 am (10 or 15 minutes), 12 pm (Lunch; 30 minutes), and 3 pm (15 minutes). Then on Friday's, he gets off at 11:30 am and his break is at 9:30 am (10 or 15 minut...

We're 9 years apart and we're living together, but he's changed since I moved in!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hi...I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now...I met him through his brother and started a long distance relation ship. He lived in NY and me in FL..I decided to meet him after talking to him for 7 months..It was like love at first ...

Do I have a committment problem with guys who like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5128 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Well everytime a dude likes me i just think of him as a friend (or even a best friend), then he gets over me, and that's when i start to like him and not beeing able to get him out of my head .. it happened to me 4 times, i dnt wanna go to the next ...

Have a rocky relationship with my girlfriend who does heroin and I don't want to lose her, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - My question is most likely a little to big for this forum... My girlfriend and I love eachother very much. We have been dating for a little over a 3 years. We took a break about a year and a half ago for the summer because we were just getting ...

What kind of heart can you have to mistreat someone the way he has?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Recently broke up with a young man i had been dating for about 4 months. When we started dating he was all I thought I wanted an exclusive relationship. However, as time past I learned that his break up with his ex was more recent than he had ...

What should I do? Giving up is not an option!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - hey guys/girls,, i will make it simple and not that big but i really need your help i know a girl that im close to (going out, filtering, feeling jealous, calls, texts) but i had a problem and i hurt her because i couldnt talk with her for 3 w...

Boyfriend slept with his step sister - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Ok so this is a tricky one... My boyfriend slept with his step sister. It was a long time ago but since it happened the two of the became really close and - best friends even. twenty years ago her mum stole my boyfriends dad from his mum - I'm no...

Do you have any suggestions for me, or for my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I am in a very confusing situation. Firstly, after a one year relationship, my partner and I decided to separate. The problems we had were actually external to our relationship, but had a huge affect on our relationship. So we thought it was just ...

My girlfriend's younger sister caught me in an awkward situation, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - my girlfriends sister came to visit us on the weekend, she is younger and was playing on the wii so my girlfriend went out for a bit to visit a friend. I was bored so went to bedroom to read for a bit and then I started getting horny and decide...

Work Issues!!! Please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hello , At my work the people here are party animals they drink every weekend or have bbq's and what not. So i dont join them because i cannot afford it at all so they think im being uptight and also they have changed towards me because they also ...

How do I deal with his excess baggage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hi, i need help my partner and i have been together for 4 years now i feel like i am at my wits end and need help urgently. I feel as if i shouldnt have to deal with this anymore and i know that hes so over this issue too. The problem is that im soo ...

How can I make my husband leave his hobby alone for a night so we can have sex to bring back the spark in our marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Okay , all the lady's and Men please help me. ima keep it simple wich is the best way to bring that spark back in our marriage. If my husband tells me he is sick of me keeps on talking in an angry voice, never talks to me at all. How can i ask a ...

How do I make her see that I can be more that just her best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - well im at my wits end.. I just don't know what to do I feel so blind and like I'm on a dark road that I cant see whats in front of me. I shall startfrom the start you see I moved into a house and a girl moved in with me (shes japanese) and well...

Is this cheating or not? What should I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Hi cupid, this sound like a cheating but i want to ask this. any answer is acceptable. i met this girl last year 2009 on the internet and we are planning to see each other. she's 23 and am 22. i asked her whether she had a boy friend and she said ...

Do I always have to keep him chasing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Help from the gentlemen out there please (although ladies' opinions will be helpful too! Ta!!!). I have been in a relationship for 18 months now, and I feel that my partner has lost a bit of his interest in me. I feel that the excitement has g...

Now we have been dating for 5 months, things don't seem to be moving forward at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I am currently in a relationship that has me so confused. I feel quite strongly about him, and although i would hate to admit it, i am falling for him. I met him through friends and he seemed to like me a lot. He called me constantly asking m...

Mending a broken heart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - I loved this girl 30 and 4 years older than her. we decided to broke up because things are not getting better. there is no future with our relationship. im married and she is single. now we are trying not to communicate. and im fee...

Should he get the DNA test or should I leave the situation alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Ok so my bf and I have been going out for about 10 months, in that time we broke up and got back together. Well i guess during that breakup period or while we were still together(still trying to figure that part out) he met some girl and they were ...

How do I get my husband to realize all the things I do for this family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - i am 22 years old and am married to a man who treats me as if i should be scrubbing the floors when i am not working full time or taking care of our two year old daughter or throwing up from being 6 months pregnant. we got married three days after i ...

After our fight she is now worried that I will leave her! What can I do to make this better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Alright. I messed up and need help to fix it. The other night I messed up. My fiancé and I got home from a night out with my friends. Had a good time, we were both a little buzzed still. We hadn't had sex in two days. All day I was kissing her,...

I think I have broken up with him one too many times, but now I realise I miss him and want him back but he wont talk to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I have dated this one guy before, he said he loved me and i said it back, but when his best friend told me he regrets breaking up with me he was also asking for me back. Both of them were but when i got with the best friend, the guy i truly love ...

Issues with my platonic girl friend!

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25 January 2010 (F) - A very good friend of mine, someone i consider to be my best friend is getting a divorce. My friend and I now live across the country from each other and our communication is mostly on the phone and maybe 2x yearly visit. There is a quite ...

Boyfriend bailed on me and is now on dating site...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost two months. (we are both in our late 30s) A couple of weeks ago he began acting a bit distant when we were apart which made me concerned so I ended up doing some poking around and found out that he did ...

We had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for only 2 weeks and he's been saying he loves me since before we even started dating. He's always been a really good friend of mine and well we had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of ...

.....i know what I should do- but why cant I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I really don't know where to start...i met a guy a year back- he has just broken up with his girlfriend at the time..he made me feel good (i am a very pretty girl- he is also good looking- but we connected at a different level), the first guy who i ...

Should I worry that I'm gonna get dropped soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - hi, my gf's ex bf emailed me today, something thats kinda irratated me, i dont approve of my gf's actions regarding her ex on this one, well not alot of her actions with him i really like... i havent talked to her about it because shes accused me ...

He made me turn to someone else because I wasnt getting anything from him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 6 years now and had two kids. I am 22 years old and reall yhavent expierenced life yet. I love my boyfriend of 6 years but hate how he treats me. When we get into arguements he tells me how much he cant stand me and ...

Is it true that love can grow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Met this girl at school in October. She came off a bad break up with her "first love" in July and took it really hard as lots of promises were given and what not. He broke up with her. They fought alot, etc. All in all he was insecure so I think ...

I feel like I have too many issues for my fiance to deal with.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5217 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I have had a lot of shit go on in my life and I feel like I'm too much for my fiance. We're cousins, don't have a go, I'm over it and so is he. He's been in love with me since like forever and I fell in love with him too, so he's been there through ...