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Archived questions from: 10 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I give my boyfriend space without going crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4676 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and two months. Before we decided to be in a relationship with each other, we were friends for three years. He had always liked me and was always trying to be my boyfriend. We fell in love and when I ...

Will he ever grow up and act like a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend of 9 years. He’s attractive, kind, caring and loving, he looks after me and takes me out and has been a truly solid best friend, sounds great! I thought it would be a good idea to move in together and see how we got on. ...

My boyfriend has a drinking problem and I'm concerned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - I am REALLY worried about my bf and his drinking. There are a number of reasons why I am worried. Firstly, he has driven while drunk before, and his family do this too, therefore, its pretty acceptable in their family. They also operate ...

I'm tired of his hurtful remarks and lack of remorse!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend of two years who seems not to trust me.He claims it's because of my past with him,which was when we were dating. When he is upset he makes hurtful remarks and does not apologise after we've reconciled. I do everything there is to ...

Stepmother treats me and my dad very badly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - I am an Indian girl of 24. In India, kids stay with their parents all their lives. Ofcourse the girl child stays with her parents only until she gets married and then stays with the husband and inlaws. Now my problem is that my mother passed away 12 ...

Pregnant and fighting with my boyfriend over his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I am 20 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We are having a baby any day now. My problem is that we have been fighting so much lately. The fighting has mostly been about small things, but there have been some bigger ...

Is what my boyfriend doing considered cheating?

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10 January 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, My boyfriend and i were in a vacation last month. We went to a club, he got really drunk and when we got back to our hotel, he admitted that he kissed a woman. He said that the woman kissed him first and that she was really drun...

Am I wasting precious years in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - I need some advice. I've been dating the same guy for 4.5 years. I love being with him and vs versa, but he has young children, and being that I've raised three children, I'm not interested in speding the rest of my good years raising more ...

I'm a very jealous person and sometimes I don't believe her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (M) - I have a serious problem my gf has guy friends and nd she has many other friends. But the thing is I'm a very jealous person and she knows and the thing is I love her and she says she loves mr but sumtimes I don't believe her. And she can tell ...

My ex won't talk to me because I talk on Bebo to other girls!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (M) - Need Help ... Im in love with my ex we are still really good friends she still tells me she loves me. I still say it back but she read some of my comments on bebo and thinks i am flirting with other girls, i am not really. i just call them hun and ...

Pregnant by my ex and he is being ignorant and distant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - Im 26 and 5 months pregnant by my ex. Not the most ideal situation to be in but fortunately we are still friends and he promised to support me. Well, until now. Im about to move out of my 1 bed flat (not allowed chidren) into a 2 bed little house...

He has been unfaithful and violent but I still love him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - Just to fill you out on the background first: Me and my boyfriend started courting at the slightly young age of thirteen, and now we're fifteen, so we've basically been going out for two years. The first three months of our relationship were no...

How can I work on my issues so I don't withdraw from my relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - I need help with a problem that I have that I seem to keep repeating in my relationships. When I get preoccupied with problems in relationships or outside of my relationships, I tend to get extremely withdrawn. I don't why I do this but it seems ...

I was a jerk, we broke up, now she has a new b/f and I want her back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (M) - My (ex) girlfriend broke up with me 9 weeks ago. At the time she broke up with me, I didn't realise what i had done to her, but now i can see that i was killing her mentally. I was being a complete jerk to her and being really unfair for about the ...

My relationship has hit a two year glitch

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts I am finally in a commited relationship after some help from this website a few years ago. Thank you. But relationships seems to become more complicated as I progress further into them. Everything seemed 'lovely dovel...

Now that I'm happy I'm making excuses not to be!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - So i've been dating this guy for about three weeks now, everything has been going really great. We've both had our history of unhealthy relationships. (like really bad) So, I think we were thankful to find eachother, because we were tired of th...

Its like pulling teeth getting her to talk to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

10 January 2010 (M) - hi my name is Allan. i have a problem and i want to find some help... well me and my gf have been together for almost 3 years now. we have a son together. but my problem is everyday its like pulling teeth to get her to talk to me. she tells me shes ...

Daughter and boyfriend sponging off of us and we can't afford it!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - Our daughter has recently turned 18 and left school about 18 months ago,since she left school she hasn't worked or done any schooling.She refuses to get a job and comes up with every excuse in the book why she cant get a job or even look for one. T...

How do I let it (them) go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - i need advise about letting people go. there are sertin people in my life right now and all they do is bring me pain. yet i spend hours thinking, worrying, about them. always interested in what there doing, just really caring for them. the messed up ...

Do I really have feelings for her?

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10 January 2010 (M) - its a long distance...i have been with this girl for over 2 years now....we are kind of soulmates and are life lines for each other...if one of us moves away, the other becomes a dead body alive....literally speaking........now i am in a fix whether ...

Why did he just now tell me he has a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: Please put the link to your other question in so that we can catch up. Doesn't make sense without it. ************** if you have been following my questions, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ex-p...

He's growing more and more violent but I'm afraid to leave because it will hurt him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 January 2010 (?) - im 16 and my bf is 21. we`ve been dating for 3 months. every time we have sex he likes to do it rough and cause me pain. he says its "kinky". he will choke me and bite me and pull my hard and smack me and bite my lips so hard that theyll bleed. ...

Why can't I get over a guy that I barely had a relationship with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a wonderful guy. When I first met him, I had been hanging out with another guy for about 4 months. I was very attracted to this other guy, but I didn't feel comfortable hanging out with 2 guys at once...

I didn't tell him the real reason I broke up with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of days ago and he doesn't understand why. I told him that I could tell that over time, our personalities wouldn't work well together and we would make each other unhappy. That's true but not a very satisfying ...

Is my fiancee cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

10 January 2010 (M) - Is my fiancee cheating on me? She is very happy to go to work every day. She is making lots of new friends and decided that she and I need to go out separately with our own friends. She went out of town a few weeks ago for the night with a "female" ...

My boyfriend adds "hot" chicks on facebook!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend adds "hot" chicks on facebook, and it upsets me. he doesn't know any of them, he adds them just because. They all have big boobs, and I am really small. I know for a fact he likes big breasts better, I asked him and he told me. I can't ...