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*aewood
writes:My girl and i have been going out for over 8 months. We really get along but the only snag in our relationship is that she doesnt tell me she loves me and she doesnt allow me to hold her or stay close to her. I know that she loves me but not hearing it or seeing it from her frustrates me because those things make me happy. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, InvisibleMe  +, writes (5 January 2010):
 ok.. you cant do anything.. i know this because i was like that with my boyfriend for AGGGGES just allow her to get comfortable with being close to you take things VEEEEERY slowly she just needs to know that you love her no matter what and that she doesnt need to feel insecure around you. By taking things slowly i mean dont force yourself upon her or she will just shrink away even more start by holding hands and just move up the scale to short hugs then long hugs and eventually she will get comfortable enough with you to show affection. Just be patient with her either that or if you think its a different problem confront her just tell her you really wish she would show you alot more affection as you like her telling you how much she loves you and it makes you happy. If she isnt willing to change either accept her as she is or move on to someone more willing to make you happy. You cant just recieve and not give.. very selfish (yes i mean i was too) Good luck xx
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reader, Honest Answer  +, writes (5 January 2010):
 Talk to her and let her know what you want from the relationship. If you can't see eye-to-eye, it is probably time to find a new girlfriend.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 January 2010):
If you have no contact with her then she is not your girlfriend, she is just your friend.
Ask her if she would be happier with you just as a friend and then if she says no, then ask her why she doesn't want to be with you properly.
Good Luck!! xx
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