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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He's so tight and accuses me of taking money when I don't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - I have been with the same guy in a relationship for 14 yrs, not married, I raised my own kids, and they were grown, and then after 9 months after meeting him, I was put on the spot to stay with him and raise his kids, I could have said no, but I ...

I didn't understand until now about my boss's behavior: She fancies me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - I have left a couple of questions about this. It has been about my manager and how hard she has made me life while i've been where i work. I have always wondered why because i have never done anything to deserve her attitude, but just today I fou...

I think a studen might have drugged and raped me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - I am a 25 year old good looking single girl, teaching in an engineering college. Recently, one of my students who was preparing for an interview wanted to learn something from me. That application that he wanted to learn, was not available in the c...

Can illicit strictly emotional only affairs be overcome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - If a guy has had an illicit emotional (nothing physical but sexy and loving talk) relationship with another woman, do you think it is possible for him to 'drop her' because he is found out? If he has been able to completely cut her out of his life...

Boyfriend trouble!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one. I need advice bad i dont know what to my boyfriend and i have been together off and on for a year he took my virginity so he means alot to me but sometimes he can be the sweetest person when other times he act a...

She wants the best of both worlds!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (M) - Me and my ex girlfriend were together for 3 years and have now been separated for a year and a half. During the relationship we lived together and raised our children together. We broke up because of trust issues and during the first year of ...

He has gone all weird, I didnt want our friendship to end this way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - I find that things get a bit weird between me and this guy. We came out for a meal in the summer, he paid and the conversation was cool. I visited my old school recently to catch up with some friends and to basically, see him since I didn't do so ...

He says he feels comfortable with me but doesn't want to get too close!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - hi guys,when a guy says he wants to be more than friends but is wary and doesn't like getting too close but feels comfortable with you what does that mean?a bit confused!opinions greatly welcomed!...

I ended an unhappy relationship and now he wants me to apologise

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - Thank you first off for taking the time to read my post. I've been dating my currently ex bf for 3 years and have lived together for about 5 months. For the past few days we've been very unhappy. I was upset because he started acting like he w...

He says he wont do it again, but then he does ..........

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - I'm so mad right now i really need some advice! Yesterday i went to my friend's house to watch a movie and talk. Before, I called my bf to let him know where i was going and that i wasn't going to be home, so he should call me on the cell phone l...

I am attracted to a "playa'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - This is really long but I think I need some professional help. I have never had much confidence but when I started my new job a few years back it was meant as a new start and I felt really positive, however, after a few weeks things weren't g...

What do you guys think? IS he cheating on me...?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - Hi all, I'm currently suspecting that the man I have been seeing for several years is cheating on me. If you could read through the below list of signs and give me your opinion about whether it could be something I'm overthinking.. or a list of ...

I could be just making a mountain out of a molehill but I can't help thinking it is devious behaviour.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - I feel really cross with my partner. We have been together for 2 1/2 years. One of my major hobbies is dancing. When my partner and I got together we chatted about our hobbies and felt it was important that we had separate hobbies because he ...

Why has my girlfriend suddenly changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (M) - Hi I have just came out of a long distance relationship that has lasted for 2 years. I had a friend at school who was very skilled at spanish and he would go on spanish forums and talk to people who lived in spain, he contacted a girl who really ...

My boyfriend cheated a year ago and it is still a big issue in our relationship!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - Hey guy sorry this is a little long but please take a moment to read it, i will really appreciate it. well a year ago exactly i found out my boyfriend cheated (as in full blown sex) with his ex girlfriend. it was in the first month of em and ...

My partner is verbally abusive and my daughters are disrespectful! Am I being too soft?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I've posted here before and found the advice really helpful. I'm in a distressing stressful family situation. My partner of 6 years is verbally abusive and my two daughters (19 and 22) constantly disregard my rules. My ...

Why do I get bored in relationships so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - every time i get into a relationship with someone after a while i get sick of them i cant stand it and want to dump them this has happened to me many times its like i only like the chase but once im in a relationship i don't want to be anymore. i ...

Is sex 3-4 times a week healthy and normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (M) - Hi Just looking for feedback from people living with their partners. Ive been with my partner for 18 months now, its a distance relationship so we only see each other weekends. At weekends we have sex 3 or 4 times over the fri night, sat and s...

My ex isn't ready to jump back into anything. Should I just hang back and wait?

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8 January 2010 (F) - my ex and i were together for over 3 years and broke up over a year ago but noone did anything so wrong..no cheating or anything..just arguments over silly things i contacted him a year later leaving a v-mail and he called me back a few minutes la...

He says we will be together but he never wants to see me or talk to me. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - Hello okay I have this problem I've been with my partner for almost a year..we use to spend every day with each otha now its like he never want 2 spend tyme with me he's says I'm annoying he barley wants 2 talk 2 me on the phne..n when I askd him ...

Indecent proposal...he thinks I cheated!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - so what do i do when my husband thinks i have cheated because of talk from friends with a mutual aquaintance (i didnt by the way) its obsurd but my husband has locked me out emotionally and other ways claiming not being able to get past the thought ...

I'm tired of hurting them both with my selfish indecisivness..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for three years. For these three years, we have been the center of eachothers attention, and have been completely happy up until a few months ago. I reconnected with an old friend, and feel like I have been falling ...

Amazing boyfriend but I have switched off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

8 January 2010 (F) - I have an amazing boyfriend but for the past few days i have switched off. I find the need to be alone and dont like him intruding. We live in the same hostel so its hard to avoid not meeting him all the time. He wants to spend every waking and ...