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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I get her in the mood and stop being so horny?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid I've been having problems with my girlfriend and I don't know what to do anymore, I'm 19 and always horny and my girlfriend is 21. When we started going out we was having sex quite often but know after one and a half months she never...

What should I do about these girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (?) - well first of all if i get like something wrong she quite alot teases me about it and goes on about it even though half the time in lessons she doesn't know the answer to a simple question even though its written up on the board and we went over it ...

I don't want to be his "rebound" girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - am i gonna be a rebound...? ok this guy and his gf broke ul like last year. or maybe two years ago cause he cheated on her with his ex. i use to be attracted to him wen we were younger but the feelings faded. then summer 2008 me and him were ...

How do I break up and return his necklace?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I want to brake up with my boyfriend how do I give him his necklace back??...

I want to be one of the boys, but I am relly one of the girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - ok guys heres the thing, lots of my friends are boys i mean like its sort of a 60%, 40% split between boys and girls and the boys are the majority, but after a while i tend to run out of things to talk about them with i try talking bout football but ...

I told my baby daddy's g/f he was cheating & now he hates me but I am pregnant again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm going thru a lot right now and I know most of it was my fault. I'm still in love with the father of my child. We been broke up for a year now. Jus recently bout a month ago he got a new girlfriend. Of course I got hurt coz me and him were ...

I've been waiting 6 years to find someone like him but worried about his employment

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I am divorced for six years and although I have dated a little, haven't found the right guy. I have recently met a wonderful man, who is really decent and honest and treats me very well and I know he really cares about me and vice versa. The ...

How do I get over the feelings I have for my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I dated this guy for 5 months including over the summer. Things were going great but then he said he had to move before the school year started. He was moving 3 hours away and he said he could make it work but I knew it probably wouldn't. So even ...

I broke up with him because he had a g/f but now he doesnt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - i dont know where to start. i live in manchester and theres this lad who lives in birmingham. i got his number and we text eachother, then in the summer holidays last year, he went wales the same time as me. he wanted to meet me, but i didnt feel ...

I'm a lesbian with a boyfriend

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - Ok. This is quite messy and odd for me. But about 4 months ago, my best friend's bf came home from college and he and his best friend came over to my best friend's house. The four of us drank and had a good time...and by the end of the night, I ...

Do I have to be friends with my best friend's boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I have this issue with my friend and her boyfriend! My friend's bf and I used to talk - then one day he stopped talking to me...I did not too much of it, thinking that he was in one of his moods...I would also try to make conversations ab...

My friends have laughed at me because I worry I might be pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - Hey guys.. Ok, this may seem really stupid and funny to ye but im actually freaking out here.. My periods a week late. My boyfriend and I haven't had sex (although we've talked about it). He's fingered me and I've given him hand jobs.. Is there any ...

I feel too guilty about a past abortion to feel okay with having children now that I am married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - Hi evryone,it has been 3 mnths since i got married n we are contemplating abt getting kids.ma problem is i had had an abortion before(the pregnancy was of the same guy-we were not ready 4 kids then) and its like am not over it yet.i feel very guilty ...

She has found somebody else but expects me to haang around nd comfort her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriend met another guy and split up with me after we both got into a depression when our baby girls were born prematurely and died. She lacked affection and apparently found the perfect fairy tale guy to give her everything she needs. I have ...

I am confused, I want to appear dignified, but his aactions bother me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - Hey guys.. i have a friend who i have hooked up with during the summer..we like each other and get on well together but until recently he did not want a relationship due to bad previous experineces..i really liked him though so i kept talking to him ...

My partner puts me down all the time ... and I don't know why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm really hoping for some help. I think you guys are great (I've posted on here before) and now I'm very upset so I thought maybe I could get some perspective here. I've been with my partner since 2002 and when I first met him he was loving, ...

It all seems very positive, but he says he doesn't want a relationship

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12 January 2010 (F) - ok so I have known this guy for more than 5 years and in the past few years after loosing contact have been catching up. He was always a private guy and never really opened up to me, I can understand that as he was hurt sooooo badly in the past. H...

We tried to make a go of it, but he hits me when I want answers about his affair

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I need some advice so please take the time and read my post. I have been with my h/b for 29yrs married for 21yrs,two years ago i found out he was having an affair with a 28 year old co worker i belive he was thinking of leaving me to be with her she ...

My boyfriend kissed his ex, and I have started stalking her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I'm in a real mess and want to stop with what I'm doing... A while back, few months, my boyfriend told me that he met up with his ex oneday and she asked if they could kiss one last time, and they did. I was so hurt by this, since we've been ...

I am the guy who always goes home alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - I was wondering if I could get some opinions on not only still being single at 29, but never having been in a relationship at all. Im 29 and Im starting to feel like some kind of weirdo. I was very shy when I was younger but came out of my shell in ...

How to get closure from the father of my child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I jus lost a baby recently about a month ago. He was going to b my first son. Well after he died, me n the father of the baby decided to stop talking to each other cuz he still continued to cheat n lie. I tried to get him to come to our baby's ...

In love with someone who is in love with someone else? (Sticky situation)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - I apologize if this is too long, but i would appreciate it dearly if you could hear me out and provide me with some advice from your own experiences and such. I fell in love with a girl two years ago and as much as i would like to call her my "...

I'm getting mixed signals from her and a lack of communication and it's driving me insane!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - 'm 31, a single father (never married) and a business professional in my community. I have a 4 yr old little girl that is so well behaved. I am very blessed, and grateful. For almost 5 months I have been dating a 27 year old woman that I think the ...

Best friend engaged but I love her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - I have this problem. I have this bestfriend. We have been friends for 5 years. Well I've been in love with her for a couple years now and never admitted to myself. I have just got out of a relationship. And of course she's been there for me this ...

Can stress and being physically and emotionally abused affect my pregnancy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I just found out that I am pregnant...about 5 weeks. Not in a healthy relationship, please don't lecture about the relationship, I know what I need to do. What I need is advice from people who have been through this before. I was hit in the l...

I try to maintain the "I'm fine as I am" stance, but most guys seem to go for the trophy girl sort

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (?) - I have always thought that it was best to be myself- people always say "just be yourself" but then you have the Hollywood idea where looks are everything. Perfect hair, tight clothes, no brains. (Apparently it isn't "cool" to be smart or ...

I keep having bad dreams about people I love, or have loved, dying

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I've asked a similar question to this before, the situation has only worsened since then. I suffer from extremely disturbing nightmares, in which often a loved one dies. Usually it's my best friend/ex boyfriend that dies. It's been a variety ...

When does the crappy feeling go away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I feel so awful! I met with my soon-to be "ex" husband to discuss me filing for divorce. We've been separated for a few years and I guess he thought we'd get back together. So I gave him the opportunity have closure and talk everything through one ...

My friends say he is just using me, but he just makes me smile

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - First off let me say he has a very good job. Now we met in September and by October he had to be deployed untill this summer. When I was with him I was the happiest girl in the world. I just got out of a bad relationship, my ex was marriend and ...

My partner keeps putting me down and he's so moody

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

At first I never liked him, and now I do, is this an infactuation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - There's this guy who liked me for a long time, and while he was my friend, I never liked him. The thing is, i've grown to like him. There are things about him I don't like, but they don't matter. When i'm with him, i'm happy and comfortable. but it ...

We can't date so I feel guilty about leading him on a dance

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I really like this guy and we've been friends for a long time. he likes me back, yet we aren't dating. I feel as though i'm leading him on though because we aren't dating. Dating isn't convenient for me (parents, school, etc) but i still care about ...

I didn't get to say goodbye to my crush and now I think of him all the time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone I have a bit of a problem and I hope someone can help me with it every Answer I,ll be greatful For :)( It kinda rambles on but I want u 2 know the whole story ). About two years ago my friend Brought me to a Church youth group.The reason ...

I thought I had it all, now she tells me she was faking it all through

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

12 January 2010 (M) - hi there, im 18 and and i am in a relationship for 1 and half years and i love my gf alooooooot more than myself. she accepted my proposal and said even she loved me. we both hugged, kissed, fought, loved, said srry 2 each other and did everything ...