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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Any decision I make now I'm afraid I'll regret later!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I have a serious problem. I had a 4 year relationship with Alex and we were extremely close but I started having worries that I was too young and wanted to have a small break to experience more things. That happened 3 years ago and Alex and I never ...

My attraction to my wife has been lost, and now I can't get this other woman out of my thoughts.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - I have been with my wife for about 9 years now and our relationship was very fulfilling until my wife had consistently put on weight. It has been an issue and she has attempted to try and loose weight but only stays motivated for a couple weeks and ...

Should I tell guy 1 how I feel? I don't expect to break up with guy 2 and get with guy 1.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - hello, i am here to ask for some advice and please, i do not want judgemental replys. please. if you are going to say something nasty, please restrain yourself and read another question and do not reply. Thankyou. Okay well long story short, it...

I should never have married my husband.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I should never have married my husband. I never wanted to get married, but I cared a great deal about my husband and was very much in love with him, so when he asked I said yes since getting married seemed to be so important to him. I ignored the ...

How do I overcome my social anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - How do I overcome my social anxiety? I started university in September and although I quite enjoy the course I feel incredibly lonely and cut off from people as I have trouble making friends. Since I finished school 4 years ago I've found that I h...

Same guy, same story, different day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - ok well me and this have been sleepin together for a lil over 9 mnths. and he lives 111 miles away from me.(at college) and weve grown distent.and i dont like it. we were really close friends before and now we really dont talk. we both hang out with ...

I smell trouble from my mum's boyfriend!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - My mother's boyfriend came back to live with us after a couple years (yes, years) of taking care of his sick mother. Today, my mother had already left for work, and it was just me and him in the house. He came down for breakfast and sat uncomfor...

Is it unreasonable to ask that this friendship ends now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - so my boyfriend saw his ex and kept it a secret from me and recently saved some photos of her in her underwear. we've talked it through. he said he wants me and me only. he wants us to work and I am willing to try and give it this relationshi...

What can I do or say to get my ex-gf to give me another chance???? I love her and need her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - Ok so I am 18 and my ex gf is 17. She broke up with me the day after Thanksgiving (a little over a month ago). I deserved to be dumped b/c I treated her like complete sh*t. I mainly did this b/c I was hurting so bad inside. I went to the Doctor ...

My relationship is on rocky ground and to top it all I've found out I'm pregnant! Now I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I have just found out im 6 weeks pregnant. I'm 23 and have only been with my boyfriend for a few months. The last few weeks we have been having a really bad patch, always arguing. He says he wants me to keep the baby but i dont know what to do about...

HELP!!! She won't let go!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I'm a lesbian who has been in love with the same woman ever since I was SURE I was a lesbian. After a couple of tries at relationships, me and the woman decided to remain friends and she is now with someone else. I'd like to move on as well, but the ...

PLEASE! I need an outsider's perspective about this relationship.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I had a bf almost a year ago whom I had broken up with because I found out he was cheating on me. This had hurt me so severely I was depressed for months, had nightmares and developed a phobia on certain things and places. For some reason, my ...

How do we get that 'naughty' spark, back again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - Ive been in a long-term long-distance relationship for over 3 years. We've had our share of challenges including trying to keep our sex life heated up. Our sex life has not been great for more than a year now. The distance keeps us apart for weeks ...

I hate my parents...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - I hate my parents, i get chewed out over anything. Even stuff they have done. They have taught me its not okay to love anyone and that no matter how nice I am I am being rude or a nuisance....

He never told me until now that he has a 6 year old!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and I thoughtwe had a pretty solid relationship. Over the christmas period we didnt see much of each other as we both work in retail and were working silly hours. We managed to find time before ...

Choosing between boyfriend or new friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Here's my situation..I have been with my boyfriend for 5years beginning was crazy cheating you name it. He has been trying to change..but he gave me an ultimatum to have a kid so he could feel like he has a secure thing going..Mind u I have two boys ...

Should I ask him if he's planning on seeing his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (?) - My boyfriend of almost a year is going to visit his relatives in a week by himself. In the time we have been together, he has only been to see them once, and he and I went together for a holiday. I normally would not think anything of this...

Her words have become meaningless

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - I'm a 31 yo guy who is getting married to a beautiful 28 year old girl who i love very very much. However i have some issues, and i know they are my issues but i need to know how to get over them. Firstly, the small town where i grew up is the s...

How can I stop being so sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Ok so i have been with my boyfriend almost a year and half. I have always been sensitive in this relationship and he has always been the total opposite. When i get upset he gets angry and always wants to break up.he tells me he doesnt want to but ...

I'm having my boyfriend's baby but not ready to commit. Should I date other men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I'm pregnant with the baby of my boyfriend, we've been together for 5 years total BUT had a break for about a year and only recently got back together. We got pregnant about a month after starting our relationship up again. Now he is talking about ...

I had an affair while he was in prison. Should I tell him I'm pregnant or have an abortion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Hello im a 27 yr old female with no kids and have been trying for the past 3 years to consieve with my boyfriend soon to b husband.he gotten in some trouble and had to go to prison at which time i had a lil affair. Now im pregnant and dnt kno if i ...

My girlfriend is controlling and only lets me see our child on her time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - hi everyone my name is michael. im here to get some help. what should i do. ok here it is. im 22 and i have been with my girlfriend on and off for almost 3 years we have a son together and we where happy at one point. but for the past 3 or 4 weeks ...

Why is she contacting me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - I told my female friend I shouldn't talk to her anymore because the closeness of our relationship was disrespectful to my girlfriend. She knew I had had feelings for her and seemed fine with it. She had had feelings for me at one point too. She ...

She's become very defensive about the way she conducts herself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

11 January 2010 (M) - hi, I have a problem, im not sure if its myself, the way my gf behaves or a combination of the two? she says i have been getting more insecure recently, i have not really noticed this in myself, what i have noticed is that shes being more defen...

My wimpy boyfriend makes me mad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - I really love my bf, we've been together for a year and we've been talking about marriage and kids and we're only 15 (yes i know we're too young to know anything about love). we've already had sex but he's too much of a wimp and cries a lot ...

Can't talk to him but love him with all my heart! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - so me and my boyfriend were talking and he started talking about this party that went on and was asking me all these questions and he asked me why i didnt kiss him.i would turn my head and not let him kiss me the whole time and its like that now i ...