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Archived questions from: 7 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Am I crazy for wanting her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

7 January 2010 (M - Ok, so here's the deal... I had been a relationship with my ex for five years and a half, until we broke up for good five months ago. She was my college sweetheart; I met her through a friend on my first semester of college. We liked each other...

I left because I didn't want him to feel trapped

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7 January 2010 (F - Thank you first off for taking the time to read my post. I've been dating my currently ex bf for 3 years and have lived together for about 5 months. For the past few days we've been very unhappy. I was upset because he started acting like he was c...

I know I shouldn't but I'm falling for him... Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

7 January 2010 (F - hey guys. this is a weird one but plz help!!! i've recently went back home to europe to c my family over christmas. Went out with my mum for new year and we bumped into her cousin that i never really saw before and there was a heavy attracti...

Sign over your rights!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

7 January 2010 (F - I am 4 weeks pregnant. I discoved this on New Years Eve. When I told my then boyfriend he was very excited. I havent heard from him in 4 days. He wont answer my calls, he took me off his FB (how childish is that?). I texed him and asked him to just ...

I can't stop thinking or dwelling on the fact that she has been intimate with other men.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

7 January 2010 (M - Hi there. I could really use some help. I am currently engaged. I love my fiance. She is the best woman I could ever ask for. Here is my problem. I can't stop thinking or dwelling on the fact that she has been intimate with other men. Particu...

How can I help my friend feel better...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

7 January 2010 (M - I have this friend that I'm really worried about. She has really deep feelings for this guy. She kinda had a thing for him for a while but since about June she's had really deep feelings for this guy. but he's now got a girlfriend and they both se...

Shouldnt he put a little bit more effort in now that we are together in a long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

7 January 2010 (F - When I was 16 me and this guy dated for one year, we used to go the same school and he was my first love and I was his.. We really loved each other. We were too young and we ended up breaking with each other. However, we managed to stay best friends ...

I just need some advice on how to get out of this funk...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

7 January 2010 (F - Hi, I recently have had a bad break up and my ex is now dating a girl and seems to be doing so well (but other sources tell me he is not). I recently found out he is saying all the stuff to her that he said to me and it's really made me feel ...

Is he testing me...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

7 January 2010 (F - Dear Cupid, I posted a couple of days ago about how confused I was at the fact that the guy I've been seeing just stopped texting and calling as much as he used to. I took people's advice and texted him asking how he was after a couple of day...

Is it too late to make an effort to show him I'm still keen on him or is he not interested in me any more and is getting bored?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

7 January 2010 (F - I've been dating a guy for a few months and from the very start he was chasing me, texting, chatting to meet up and take me out on dates. he always took the initiative, even talking to me first on msn. if he doesnt talk first then i wont. iam very ...

Is it wrong of me to just want to ignore him and disappear off the face of the earth until I am over it???

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7 January 2010 (F - I've slept with my friend a few times and have started to develop feelings for him. The last couple of months he has started to behave distant for about a week after sex! We use to email/text/facebook all day everyday. So I'm quite disheartened and ...

Has it slipped his mind that I hate noisy bars and clubs? Why is he asking me to go there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

7 January 2010 (F - I recently started dating someone who seems really nice and compatible, and things have gone really well between us so far. We've both admitted that we're starting to establish a real emotional connection, plus genuinely good chemistry, etc. ...

Boyfriend has made me feel like dirt

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

7 January 2010 (F - I currently live with my ex bf we have in his eyes been broken up for about 5 months. He has for the most part treated me like crap but sometimes is nice and says he loves me other times he says I don't want to be with you I'm just tolerating you. ...

I'm walking on eggshells. Is he a cold person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

7 January 2010 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. When we first started dating he dropped hints about being very intense and mentioned that his parents used to tell him not to be mean as a child. I didn't understand because he seemed so laid back, ...

Should I deal with my abusive stepdad or leave home?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

7 January 2010 (F - Last night, while I was sitting on the couch with my mom and step dad, my step dad and i started arguing mildly. He started to raise his voice, and I asked him to stop, but he didn't, and kept raising his voice even more. He was really getting on my ...

I'm pregnant and he doesn't want another child! How can I make this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

7 January 2010 (F - Ok. My son's father and I got together fall 2006. I knew he had a daughter and they had a good father-daughter relationship. I got pregnant soon after we begin dating. My son is 2 now. His daughter is 11. I don't really care for his daughter because ...

He says "What you did in the past was much worse"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

7 January 2010 (F - I don't think he finds me hot or sexy enough. He got angry and upset because of my past (as always... sigh). Past = stuff that happened BEFORE I was with him! Ok, so I was a virgin when we started dating, right? But a couple of years before I'd ...

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