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My boyfriend is on online dating sites and I'm NOT happy about it!

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Question - (5 January 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2010)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi there,

My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, I'm 28 and we love one another and we're living together but there are a few things I'm not happy about our relationship. He loves going out and barely asks me to go out together. Also I found that he uses online dating and got from his profile information that he's single and looking to meet girls.

We talked about that but he's saying that all his mates don't bring girlfriends and dating online is only an old habit. I not happy about that. Please advise what to do.

Thank you so much.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2010):

There is WAY better out there for you.

There are men out there who will be so honoured to have every day with you.

Find them!

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Sorry for delay reply in to yours answers guys...

Thank you all for helpful answers it was heart breaking to read some of them but truth hurts sometimes...

We are about to breaking up be cause even if he said what he will quit his old habit" I cant make myself trust him any more and think what there is some better guys left there for me :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010):

I am currently going through the same thing with my boyfriend, if I had the evidence you do I would leave.

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A female reader, bucket1 United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2010):

URGH get rid babe!

You deserve better than that.

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A female reader, Jayney Y Australia +, writes (5 January 2010):

Jayney Y agony auntIf you can guess what the password to his profile is log in and change his profile so that it says....."I am a lying gobshite who is best avoided", and then get rid of him as fast as you can. He's probably meeting girls from the internet and taking them out while you sit at home.

An alternative would be to get someone to contact him via his profile and see if he tries to set up a date with them, and let the fun begin from there. I've done similar and got quite a hoot out of it. Feel free to PM me if you want to have a bit of fun at his expense. :)

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (5 January 2010):

Denise32 agony auntHow about moving out? As in "yesterday" (if that were possible). Or if he is living in your home, you show him the door and tell him not to come back.

How wonderful (not!!!) to have such a "boyfriend".

You deserve a man who is willing to love you and be exclusive with you........

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (5 January 2010):

LazyGuy agony auntHe says he is single and wants to meet girls.

What part of that say boyfriend?

"we love another".

Nope. He is just keeping you around until someone better comes along.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2010):

I used to sleep with other men, but that stopped when I met my husband. I can't carry on and then just say "oh it's an old habit."

He needs to shut down that profile, change his email address and take you out a lot more or you need to dump him and throw him out.

Give him those choices and let him decide what to do.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, lola29 United Arab Emirates +, writes (5 January 2010):

no hes cheating on you, confront him, if he doesnt drop it then im sorry he doesnt care for you or ur respect.

he probably already went on a number of dates behind ur back, i dont know how u can stand it.

goodluck

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