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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He still wants to see me and have sex with me but doesn't want the title of my boyfriend!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Ok so I met this guy and it was like love at first sight for both of us so as days passed he asked me out on a date and obviously I replied yes and accepted so this date turned into a relationship. we dated for 3 years, only problem was he was a ...

I don't think my relationship is going anywhere! Just broke off our engagement.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Hello: Okay first of all I called off my engagement to my now ex fiance last Monday, he is using drugs, someone put a envelope with a letter in it week before last then there are the lies and he will not talk when he should, we live together I have ...

I feel if I get too close to him he'll leave me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - i have been with this guy for over half a year and realy like him and trust him about everything but for some reason we have never made out... every time he tries to i stop him after like 10 sec and i dont know why, i think about him all the time ...

I know it was a one way relationship ........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - Basically i've been trying to ignore this girl because i've realised that i've become really clingy with her since shes become a big part of my life, and well i want to take things further but i know it would cause alot of problems for her since i'm ...

Christmas day shuffle, he wanted to be with his family, I wanted to be with mine

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I and my husband been having alot of problems because I and his mom do not get along. For xmas Ihad a big fight with his parents and sister because I wanted to leave early to my family and they were in the middle of opening the gifts. he deffend his ...

I don't know how to tell him the pic on myspace is a fake

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - My friend and I had a challenge. At first I wasn't going to do it but agreed that we wldnt do it for long. The challenge was to get a fake pic and post it on myspace and see if u could act fake. I hated doing it and secretly didn't add any friends ...

My ex and I met up before Christmas, and I wonder if there is still a flame flickering for us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Hi there, I'm in need of some Help and would really appreciate any suggestions/thoughts. My ex and I split up a year ago but stayed in touch and met up before Christmas and we didn't sleep together but we did hug goodbye and kiss each other on the ...

I am shy, could he be shy too?

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17 January 2010 (F) - I don't know about this guy... I see him a couple of times a week and he's maybe in mid-20's, and I'm 18. He's always kind... never mean to anyone really. He seems to be confident in himself and he's not at all soft-spoken, he just doesn't spe...

My last g/f said I lacked in the bedroom department, now I worry about my new relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - I am a 23 year old male who has been single for 6 years. Back in 2004, when i was 16, i fell in love with a girl who i had a crush on all through primary and secondary school. We hooked up and all seemed good, until i found out she’d cheated ...

My b/f danced with, and almost kissed, another girl, now I can't trust him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Hey. about 2 and a half months ago my boyfriend of then 6 months went to a club and danced with another girl (i mean proper dancing - he told me he had a semi) then as she pulled him to kiss him he realised what he was doing and pulled away as lips ...

All the other kids are teasing me about my crush on teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - i like my gym teacher. i know i'm not in love with him but all the kids bug me. they send me messages on facebook myspace and everything to tease me.we arnt dating and i told the kids this but i don't know whatelse to say.help me....

I want a holiday, I don't want to pay, b/f has no money, how to convince him to come?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - really want a holiday this summer but boyfriend has no money and i don't think i should be expected to pay. how can i convince him to go away with me?...

My boyfriend is heavily in debt and I don't think it will be cleared before he retires

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of 50 is in £25,000 debt and it doesn't look like it's going to be cleared by the time he's retired. he says it's a mixture of things but generally bulit up from everyday living - i can't really see how because he hasn't had any ...

I feel I am his second option when it comes to people he spends time with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I need help or advice its a lil long but someone please hel.So me and my boyfriend of soon to be 6 years we live together and have a 4 year old son. so the problem is that he has a friend and he is related to me and i feel that all his attention ...

I can't show affection to my boyfriend

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17 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, why cant i show affection to my boyfriend? he says when he trys to kiss me i either move so it lands on my cheek or if i kiss him on the lips its just a peck. and i never show affection in public. he says i never used to be like this.. w...

How do I get my ex to forgive me for what I did?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - This past December, I reconciled with my ex after a 9 month breakup. Before that breakup, we had been together for 4 years. We were engaged to be married. We weren't getting a long and I started to get cold feet. We were fighting all the time and I ...

Relationship confusion, bigtime!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - Ok, i have been seeing this guy for about three months now and its been great up until i met his children last week...well let me make it clear first that i am bi and a guy...so when i met them everything was good at first and a few minutes later my ...

Hasn't been the same since his grandfather died

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Hi I have been in a realtionship for the 18 months now, at first me an my guy were so in love, best of friends etcetc, but a few months ago it began to go down hill. He suffered a major loss as his grandad died, so i tried to let him no i was the...

I love a girl but I can't tell her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - I love one girl. But I can't tell her. What Shall I Do? I am 15 years old. Am i aged for dating? What Does Dating mean...

I feel I am being pulled into a relationship I'm not ready for yet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - I'm 25 and I've been dating this girl who is 22 for about 2 months now and everything has been fine. However, recently she brought her five year old daughter to live with her which changes the dynamic of our relationship considerably. Originall...

I think I love my cousin, but in a romantic way, not a cousinly way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I think I love my cousin, not in a family way. But he's not really my cousin, we were both adopted. Is it wrong that I like him in a Romantic way? Please help!!...

My boyfriend needs to chose, me or the weed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (?) - Hi...so I have a huge problem going on right now. My boyfriend of almost a year is amazing and I'm very much in lovve with him as he is me. But he has a past with drugs and is now starting to want to get back into doing them. I tell him I don't want ...

My husband has taken a lower paying job so that he can study and I am angry about it!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - My husband and I Married 1.5yrs together 10. We are both nurses and we moved from one side of the country to the other 1.5 years ago. When we moved my husband worked temp jobs for a little while and I did not seek employment do to anxiety and depr...

My boyfriend is getting turned off sex with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I am only 18 and i have a huge problem... My problem is i get so wet i actually can have a puddle by the time me and my bf finish having sex and it is such a problem not only because of the mess obviously but also because my bf cant get off and find...

He flirted with me at church, asked for my number but now has cooled off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - it's kinda long story... i met this guy at church before one day he came to me, introduced each other then we didn't meet each other till one day i talk to him to ask something,he answered coldly at first.next week he came to me and said he wants m...

How can I not talk to her but still have her in my future?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - So Im caught in the crossfire with two girls, check it out here's the situation. Ive been with this one female going on four years, i devirginized her, showed her what she know's, and everything. Only thing is over the years i put her through hell, ...

Is his behavior my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks. It's been pretty good, hanging out with him and stuff. One day we were watching a movie,and then he walked me home. The next day, he glared at me, would not speak to me, and whenever I ...

What is your definition of respect?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a man who calls me the C word often for "acting like one". He feels this acceptable, am I missing something here? Men please describe your level of respect for and what kind of person fits the label? Ladies please let ...

It's just problem after problem...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I've been with the same guy for three years and I've been living with him for two out of all and we've broken up twice and fight like cats an dogs. I'm not going to lie we were both once hard into digs and have quit but he hasn't I've gotten him to ...

Everything was good, how did it go wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for a couple of months and we have the same likes in almost everything we like the same football team, we are both compatable in sex we like the same music and even the same candy if i wasent wrong i thought we are ...

Why won't she tell me what's wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

17 January 2010 (M) - Hey, I've been with my girlfirend for about a year now and I must say, it's been going well. Since I went to university, we've been fighting more and more. Little things turned into huge matters. She used to be able to tell me anything that wa...

I am crushing on my cousin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I don't know why but recently i have been having feelings for my cousin. Now i know that this is wrong but i just get weak at the knees when he smiles and i think he knows about it because he gives all the hints and we always give hugs and kisses to ...

I want him back but he showed me up by cheating on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - Hii.. Mmm.. The name is Daisy and nearly seventeen. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for 2 years, we've been having intercourse for one year. we broke up due to me getting depression and i needed time alone and he cheated on me - but regrets...

We are expecting our second child, but he doesn't even want to hang out with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5225 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 4years we have a lovely daughter nd another one on the way. He works alday from 5 till 6,7 at nite it veries with the wheather nd wen hes not home hes with his friends,i never get time to myself or with him how do i ...