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Archived questions from: 28 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

One child, one on the way, do not love each other, should we stay together for the sake of the children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - I'm in a difficult situation - as I suppose everyone else here is as well. here goes: I'm 28 and in a relationship of 4 years (we are not married but have lived the life of a married couple for ~3 1/2 years). We have a 2 1/2 year old and one on t...

Loving & patient in bed, complete opposite otherwise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - how can there be such a great contrast-- i've dated someone once who was on the surface, kind and sometimes genuinely understanding, we rarely if ever had a true fight (he never once instigated one, but was very passive aggressive i found), and wh...

He moved away and I think he might love me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Here are some of the background facts: He's in his early 20s and I am in my late 20s. He was a friend-of-a-friend who came onto me hard and heavy for a month or two, but then freaked out and ran the other direction for a couple of weeks, until I ...

I don't know if I'm really attracted to this other guy or afraid of commitment to my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Advice needed ... I have been with my boyfriend on/off for 2 years now and about 4 months ago we decided to give it a proper go and make our relationship serious. When we were not together we both were involved with other people. The guy i was with ...

Will he miss me and want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Please, somebody help me. Me and my now ex boyfriend were dating about a year, we were really good friends before we got together and he ended up moving in with me into my flat pretty quick. Too quick actually... But we made it work. We went th...

I do all the work, my partner is lazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - when having intercouse i feel my partner is lazy wether i am on top /below /front /back i seem to be the one doing all the work we weigh the same and him being a man feel he should be stronger at times i jus dread sex cause i know what the routine ...

Boyfriend and his mother are not kind to me throw my life up in my face

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriends mum really hurt me yesterday. She started a convo about domestic violence and stuff. But then she started mentioning my mother. My mum has done some terrible things to me, but i have also gave as much back. Bfs mum thinks i dont stand ...

Complicated 12 year relationship, we are not together now, but I need him, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - God this is complicated where to begin..my ex and I split 2 yr ago after a 12 yr on/off relationship. everything was wonderful until 4 yr ago when we bought a caravan to spend weekends away however, when we went on a saturday he insisted on ...

Don't know what to say when he gets all mushy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I know this might sound silly to some but i never know what to say when my bf is being sweet to me either over the phone or in person , like he tells me 'i love you' with lots of passion all i can say is i love you too or more or w/e he would tell ...

We are the closest of friends, but lately I cannot share with her as I used to, what is the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - I've known an unbelievable woman for over a year now. We have become each other's closest friend. I have never shyed away from sharing anything with her. But over time I developed insecurity issues and as my esteem and confidence plumm...

Am I over emphasizing the need to apologize to my friend?

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28 May 2009 (M) - Is there a point where apologizing defeats itself and all you are doing is reminding someone of a negative incident in the past? I got into an argument and upset my closest friend. I didn't think she'd ever talk to me again. But showing how litt...

Angry, Hurt & Confused - Is this guy a player?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I met this guy through my best friend about two months ago; they were studying and both away from their hometowns. The first meeting was great and we seemed to click straight away - joking, laughing and a bit of flirting. At the time I didn't ...

We're sexually incompatible

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - during sex my boyfreinds ercetion seems to get worse and he keeps insisting that he is erect no matter how hard he tries i have now lost interset in having sex.i say lets try different positions but hes quite set in his ways , he likes playing with ...

I'm lonely and depressed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I get so depressed this time of year.im a single parent with a 4 year old daughter. Its just when the summer is here i get so lonely. I would love to be in a relationship. I sit in and see people having bbqs. Going to the pub in the evening having a ...

We're on summer vacation, now and bf hardly ever texts me! What's happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months. We are now on summer vacation and I won't get to see him as much. However he hasn't called or texted me. What should I do?...

He wants space and I want him back! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - hi...my boyfriend left me saying tat he needed space...and i still love him and i want to be with him..he says he also wants to be with me but at the same time he does not want to be with me..please tell me how should i get him back..!! i really ...

Is this cheating? Should I tell him? Please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I met someone and we spent about two-three weeks hanging out and eventually being intimate, then that person left to travel for a few months. During that time we spoke on the phone every day, and at one point sort of verified a commitment to one ...

I'm crazy paranoid...about everything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hey... So I've been with my fiance for 2 years now and we have a one year old daughter... And we're happy, most of the time. The problem is that I'm crazy paranoid... about everything. HE dated a girl for 3 years before me and she's caused...

Is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Ok I been with this guy for almost 3years n I thnk he's cheating on me he did in the past and cuz he did it I did it bad cuz it hurt. But I think he is doing it again The reason why I say is cuz the past 2days he called me late n he said and yest...

My past infidelities are coming back to haunt me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 19 years but we have been together for 24. 9 years ago I had an affair which my husband found out about and we put it behind us. However, I found out last week that he has been having an affair for the last 8 ...

We are planning our future together but he cant seem to get over his insecurities!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hi there, I need some advice..my boyfrend and I are considering getting married, we have a joint savings account, we have chosen a ring etc, however he goes through these stages where he feels insecure and not strong enough for me, he feels lik...

Is he messing me around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - He says he wants us to just be friends as there is alot of baggage between us on either side, so i agreed not really wanting to as i like him alot, but we still text, email loads and he said he wants to meet me for a drink next week before i go on ...

I'm scared he will see me differently if he finds out my grades!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have become really close, and I trust him with everything except telling him my GPA. I know it sounds moronic but I go to a very good college where people are quite intense, and he's a pre-med near the top of the class. He al...

Troubles with my boyfriends family....we just need to get away from them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, i dated this guy in 2005 for a year and a half, he went to America the last six months of our relationship and in that time, his father tried everything to break us up.. i never knew why.. and he got it right.. we broke up for a year ...

He starts his day by looking at other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 24 and my bf is 25. We have been together for 10 months. 6 months into the relationship after he rejected my advances, I walked in on him getting off to porn. We have lived together for the whole 10 months we have been together and apa...

Is it worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - hi everyone Three years ago my life fell to pieces. My grandparents, who played a very big part in my upbringing both died within 6 months of each other. My alcoholic abusive partner of 9 years went a step too far, finally admitting cheati...

Should we stay together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have only been together for about half a year, but already i feel like a boring old couple i see on tv and think.... how unlucky. as he is hardly ever home because he has a job on the other side of wales by his dad i never know ...

How do I handle my independent boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I met my b/f for couple years , we had been talking and sharing some good and bad things together. When I met him in person, it was very hard for me to understand him.Our cultures are not be the same. Once I asked him to go out for breakfast, I ...

Will she come back if I give her space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - So there's this girl I go to school with since September. Around December, she was absent from school one day and I called her to make sure she was okay. Then I spoke to her at a school play. By about February, it seemed she just might like me. The ...

What went wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - HELP! me and this guy have known each other for a very long time and I have always had mad feeling for him but was always scared to say anything to him until years later I was at T.G.I. Fridays an he finally said something to me we talked after that ...

Is this enough proof to get him in trouble?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - my friend is 17. she is dating a 22 year old. this girl is my friend and this is my brother she's dating. recently he broke up with her and shes been so unhappy. i found out that her friends want to call the cops on him because of their age...

I feel my boyfriend is withdrawing from me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and we are in love. But I feel like he is withdrawing from me. His mom is severally sick and he can not go see her she is in another country. So that is one thing that has him depressed. We ...

I guess she's not who I thought she was...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - This is going to sound chaotic and pathetic. Theres this girl I've known since September but since April we've been getting pretty close. Talking till ridiculous hours of the night and there hasn't been a day we haven't done this for weeks. I th...