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Archived questions from: 23 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My best guy friend is getting bullied by his twin brother?

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23 May 2009 (?) - well basically the brother is like much more confident and my guy friend is really shy and the brother does like loads of sports like rugby because he likes contact sports and beating everyone up but my guy friend hates those kinds of sports but ...

We broke up but are still friends, she wants this, I'm very uncomfortable about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

23 May 2009 (M) - i broke up with my girlfriend a month ago....she was(and still is) deeply and madly in love with me whereas i soon realised that she isnt the one i am looking for....so before it got too late, i broke it off without any warning and she was ...

Boyfriend falls for fake dating site profile, how to confront him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - Hi there I need some advice please. I met this guy on an internet dating site we have been together about 3 and a half months and it was going well until I realised he was still checking the site everyday, I was doing this as well but I deleted...

Daughter doesn't like my boyfriend at all!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - help i'v been seeing jon for nine months after being on my own for almost 2 years. my 17 year old daughter doesn't like him. she says he gets on her nerves and she can't stand him. i can tell this when he comes to my house. she really says ...

I feel like I'm his mother and he's the older one!

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23 May 2009 (F) - I moved in with my boyfriend instead of going home after the first time we met. I would not have just done that if he hadn't have asked but he did and so i was willing, obviously, i really liked him and we didnt wanna leave each other. I moved ...

He doesn't understand that I'm quiet and that's my way of dealing with things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend thinks i'm avoiding his friends but i'm not, i just feel awkward around people i dont know. I've always been the same, i'm very quiet at first and i dont speak unless im spoken to. When i'm comfortable in someones company i will add my ...

My pride is gone and not sure how to recover it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

23 May 2009 (M) - Hello every body. I have got a little problem with luck a I would like to leave this out, I am really pissed off in this moment. As some of you might know, I'm living in Germany. Yesterday, me and my friends went out in Hamburg, a huge city in the...

When I ask if something is wrong he says no, but it sure seems like something is wrong

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23 May 2009 (F) - I have been "seeing" a guy for a about 3 months. After about the first month he stopped calling so I assumed it wasn't going anywhere. I found out I was pregnant about a week later...yes we used protection and yes it was 100% his. I did tell him but ...

My husband says he wishes I didn't want sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - My husband says,he wishes I wouldn't want him to be sexual with me,as he never feels any desire, and it is leading him, not getting an erection at all.And he feels bad about this. i asked him,if it's over, but he says no.he wants me... What can caus...

Trouble at work with an older lady

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - Why do people think that they can treat you any kind of way because you try to be nice and mature. I work at a place with a lot of imature and low down people. My supervisor is the same age as my mother and and acts more like a 15 year old. Since I ...

Boyfriend goes mad when I check his laptop but does the same to mine. How do I check up on him without him knowing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we’re been together nearly 3 years now. I have a trust issue; it’s just that I always found out that he’s chatting with some women behind my back. He watches porn/hentai. He even created new msn account. Last year I found ...

Marriage problems... husband says he'll kill himself if the family breaks up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - I am totally confused at the moment. I am a married mum of three young boys one of which has special needs and we are going through a tough time at the moment trying to get him into a new school. I am by no means a perfect person in anyway but I ...

I hate being gay! Can I become heterosexual by taking medication?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - I HATE BEING GAY. can we deliberately convert a gay person into heterosexual by means of medical treatment? (i.e. hormone injections, hormone medications (such as??))...

I don't know where my life is headed or even where I want it to head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years old, i'm living in a one bedroom flat with my 28 year old boyfriend who goes out to work for eight hours every day, and generally comes home tired or in a mood. We have a kiss and a cuddle, maybe watch a film, he'll cook us some tea ...

I think I scared him off..now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy, a couple of times, he has a kid, he cancelled to see me yesterday, so i went out with friends got drunk, then he texted me saying so sorry for cancelling, i text back saying it shame as wanted to see you, but we texted back ...

He isn't the one for me, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - hi guys. so i've been dating this guy for nearly 4 years now,and he isn't most sweet/thoughtful/expressive/romantic guy around (i knew this before we got together). he apologises for not doing 'nice things' and tells me he appreciates that i've hung ...

My girlfriend doesn't show me any affection.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

23 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend doesn't show me any affection. We've dated for 6 months and I've mentioned it many times. However I have yet to notice any difference. She doesn't kiss me, I have to kiss her, she doesn't want to hug me I have to hug her, she doesn't ...

My fault that he is unhappy and depression

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - (Mod Note: Two questions merged.) 1) Ok well I been with a guy since I was bout 13 an im 21 now we have a kid dats 6mos we seem to love eachother but he acts like its my fault that he is unhappy with the female he is with now so my question is do an...

Two boyfriends. If only they were one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - Hey im seventeen and I need help with something. I have two boyfriends and I really didn't feel bad about it before because I only got into this second relationship because my boyfriend of five months lets just call him Tyrese has been busy with ...

My boy is emotionally unstable and it's driving me away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - ok my boyfriend is totally sweet and i really care about him but he is extremely emotionally unstable and i dont want to hurt him but there is a guy from my passed ho has recently came back into my life who is totally amayzing ive known him for like ...

My lover won't hold my hand due to me being a soon-to-be divorced woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating this man for almost four years, but he will not even hold my hand because I am a married woman, but I have told him that in my eyes, I am not a married woman because my soon to be ex-husband was molesting our three children, ...

Tell me what to do to get over this man!??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - Will I ever get over the man I love? Do I need to stop all communication with him to get over him?...

When I mention his wife, he changes the subject. Should I stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - I have a male friend with whom I email and communicate quite often. He´s GI married to another GI. They live across the country. He shares a little bit of their life but in a very general way. What makes me feel uncomfortable is the fact that wh...

Is there a button I can push on this guy to show him I'm here for more than sex??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - Hi!For the first or second time,I write about a non sexual related issue . Well,I have this bf for about 1 year and a half ,besides our relationship ,we also work together.So we sleep together ,work together ,go to work together ,and he is always a...

How long am I suppose to wait here??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5463 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - what is the standard wait time to be there and support a guy with no income, paying the household bills and married to another woman even if they are no longer together?...

He's addicted to porn, boring and I'm sick of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - I have been married for 3 1/2 years and already feel as if I made one big mistake :-( My husband is EXTREMELY boring in every sense of the word. He does not stimulate me at all. His conversation is one and only one topic and even with that topic ...

My girl's ethnic preference has got me down.. Don't wanna be racist, and don't think I am. But it still smarts!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

23 May 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now, and everything has been great. She's warm, funny, loving, great in bed, and on and on. I love her. Hell yeah I do! And we are about to move in together. Sounds great, right? It is, BUT.. I've been...

Are we broken up or is he just angry with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i got into a huge argument a few days ago and well we broke up he is being totally contradictory in his statements.... he will not tell me that he does not love me or that he doesnt want to be with me and i asked him are we single ...

How do you back-off emotionally or withdraw emotionally in a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

23 May 2009 (M) - How do you effectively back-away emotionally from a partner in a relationship. I've been with my fiance for 4 years. Lately she's been giving me really weird vibes and is very unclear as what she really wants from me. We were supposed to get ...

How can I change my parent's minds?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

23 May 2009 (F) - Okay well my bf and i have been dating for a months or so now and he wants to go out to the movies this weekend problem is my parents won't let me. I'm 15 and I'm really responsible. I know the obvious reasons why they don't want me to go out with ...