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Archived questions from: 6 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Can you really get to know someone through online, skype, and many weekends (Friday - Sunday/Monday) together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - Alright, I'm trying to figure something out. I know this is a question I have to determine for myself, but it helps me a ton to talk out a question and receive people's input. (like anyone else, I guess). My girlfriend and I are currently i...

I've made a real mess of my life and need serious advice on how to fix it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - hi all, I seem to have made a real mess of my life and need serious advice on how to fix it as there is so much going on in my head i dont know where to start. I have been in a 12 year mentally abusive relationship, or so im told by people looking ...

My husband WANTS another man to make me pregnant!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Me and my husband both want kids, but my husband does, albeit in a slightly odd way... he wants me to "use my feminine wiles and sleep with whoever I fancy to get pregnant!" He says that I should get pregnant by another guy - and said I should ac...

Is he still into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - well today is our 10 month anniversary and as we lay together im thinkn he will kiss me or at least touch me but instead he says get out of they way family guy is on smh wat does this mean is he no longer interested in me?...

How can I get hard erections back again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - I am a 16 years old healthy guy, never had any health problems but like 6 months ago i've became sexually active. I had sex with a bigger woman (1 night stand) we were drunk and on the beach.. it was winter so it was cold. When i penetrated here i ...

Stuck on what I should do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Right i got a really BIG problem, I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago, and i still cant get over him, we wasnt together for long but he still meant a lot to me, he didnt really act normal for 3 weeks, and now his al back to normal he ...

Will he realise he loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. I know for sure that i love him, i never question that. But recently he told me he doesnt think he loves me. He said he's trying to. The way he acts around me makes me think he does, spending ...

Were we being stalked?????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Last year we had a field trip to Canada. There was a guy there he had on all black and black sunglasses like he was trying not to be seen or trying to steel something. Well anyway after we left the theme park me and my bff relized we had seen him ...

How do I answer his email...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - My BF sent me this email and i don't know what to answer him, he stop talking to me 10 days ago without any reason and today he sent me this email. He works in Iraq as a project manager, i work in a neighboring country from Iraq so i do understa...

I don't want to keep on trying, I've had enough!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - Well, that's it. I am starting to think that there are some people that aren't supposed to have luck with stupid love. I am really done in. Every day I wake up hoping to have a nice day, and at night I understand that it isnt possible for me. After ...

What do you do when the love you feel for someone isn't reciprocated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - I think im in love but im not sure, Its wierd becuase there is a girl i like ive asked her out but she has rejected me :( the thing is i cant stop thinking about her shes pretty and inteligent but not being able to have her is killing me inside...

How can I like myself again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and I'm soo in love with him, but everything's getting me down lately and he's given up a lot for me and we're getting back on track and things are getting good with him again, Ii just worry I'm not ...

I need to find ways to get him interested in me again.

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6 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago but it was over a silly argument that i caused because sometimes i get moody and i take it out on him, and so because of this he broke up with me. but we had been on and off for about a year. but we had ...

WHY is she still texting this guy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - Hey All: Well here's where I am at. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. She was in the UK for 4 months with school, and surprisingly, we made it through. Now, tons of fighting. Last night was particularly bad. Ab...

I need advice on breaking up with my violent boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years, of which we've lived together for 2. He's always been an "angry drunk", and last night he crossed the line. The beginning of the relationship, he would be angry, but direct it towards ...

We lost our baby the first time, now I am scared to try again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Im 21 and i been in a relationship with this man thats 28 for 3 years and we had a daughter that passed away. The pregnacy came unexpected and at first he didnt want kids then he wanted them. Now he wants to try again and i am really scared to go ...

Sex just doesn't interest me at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Well ever since i lost my viginity at 16 nothing grand has ever happened to me! To get to the point i have never had an orgasm at least i dont think so! Sex makes me more depressed than anything:( My boyfriend is very supportive but sometimes i ...

Trying so hard to get my boyfriend in the mood for sex and nothing is working!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Sometimes I try so hard to get my boyfriend in the mood for sex, and it never seems to work. Sometimes he'll tell me to wait till later or brush it off. We don't have sex often and when we do it seems I'm the one who is starting it up. Does anyone ...

I know I've found my one true love but she doesn't feel the same way about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - I met this girl 2 years ago since the start of 1st year university and I have been in love with her since the moment I met her. I started dropping hints that I liked her but she never seemed to like me as more than a friend. Our friendship grew ...

I was so sure he liked me then he met someone else on holiday!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Dear All, Having been in a stormy on and off relationship for two and a half years I finally cracked and joined a dating agency. I waited some months before going on a first date. The guy was stunning, however I kept my wits about me and played it...

Moving in together but he wont pay his share!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are moving in together at the start of next month. Before this, my boyfriend was renting a room at a fully furnished house, so he hasn't had to buy any furniture since he started living alone. I bought most the essential furniture ...

We only argue about my breasts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we have been living together for the past 5 months. Since we began living together, he has started to get very upset when I wear strappy tops or anything that shows any sin around my ne...

My husband told me to find satisfaction elsewhere, so now I have!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I've been married to my husband since 1991 and for the past couple of years it's been completely sexless. No matter how hard I try I just can't get him interested. I've asked him to go to the doctor's, take some time off work, anything! He says that ...

Am I overreacting? He was texting his Ex while we were out for dinner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Someone please tell me I'm not crazy. I'm ruining my relationship with a man I'm truly in love with. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We live together and spend a lot of time together. For some reason lately I've been feeling ...

His story doesn't add up... is he lying to me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I have been married for close to 30 years and after a strange happening my husband told me he needs space and doesn't love me any more. Last week he told me he was going to a men's bible study group then came home and said he saw a stabbing and put ...

Stay friends? let it go?

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6 May 2009 (M) - Ok i just sort of got out of this relationship recently and its troubling me a little bit atm.... I had this fling with a girl a couple months back, where everytime i was with her i was either at a party or club and pretty drunk mostly. So we...

She lied to others about me..let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm in a awkward situation and need some help. Last summer I moved to a new town and visited the local pub every weekend. I quickly fell for the barmaid who worked there, but at the time I didn't know she was a compulsive liar, she is well ...

Should I stay and work it out or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend has been going on online dating sites and flirting with girls, i also checked his email and found that he had been sending dirty pictures of himself to them. this is not the first time either and he promised he wouldn't do it again. he ...

I think she's getting something on the side

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - I am a male (47). My fiance is 43. We've been together for close on 10 years. We had a really amazing sex life up until 4 years ago, when it became less and less frequent and less and less adventurous. As I write this we haven't had sex in more ...

I'm having an affair with my sister's fiance..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I thought this through over and over and just don't know what to do. Hopefully some of you may be able to help me. I'm sorry if this turns out to be a bit long but I just want people to see the whole picture. I've been with my boyfriend since ...

Facebook about to ruin another relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - I would really appreciate people's opinions / advice on this particular dilemma...Nothing new, but I'm sure lots of people have had similar experiences. Damn facebook... Me and my girlfriend (both early 30s) have had some problems lately but we ar...

She is so withdrawn and it worries me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - There is a girl Ive been with for a few months now. I have never met anyone like her. Theres no way to describe it but I love her. I assure you its not infatuation, far from it. I think the feelings are reciprocrated because shes told me she love...

He is so sleazy so why am I still attracted to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for about a year now and we ended up kissing one night when we first me. He wanted to have sex but I said no and left. I stayed friends with him because we have mutual friends and found out that he sleeps around a lot. At 23, ...

How do I handle her?

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6 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend that I have been dating for 8 months is starting to drive me crazy. She thinks that whenever there is something wrong its always about her. I know she loves me and i feel the same with her but it seems as though she is trying to get on ...

She's like a roller coaster

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - Alright, so I was with my ex girlfriend for around a year(my longest relationship) and all was perfect for the whole beginning. She always told me how much she loved me, how I was perfect, how she always wanted to be with me, etc. For a while I ...

Best friend turned boyfriend...now its awkward!

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6 May 2009 (F) - I just started going out with this guy. He's been my friend for three years now and we always liked each other but he use to be kind of a player and only recently did he start getting serious about life, during which time we started transitioning ...

Letter To My Ex: Send or Not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

6 May 2009 (?) - Is this a good note to send to an ex? Or is it too involved? All perspectives welcome here. Like, guys would you send this...and girls, would this be a note that warmed your heart or freaked you out? Names are all made up... ~ Marie, I'...

He doesn't know that I know what he said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - well okii well i met this guy online then we met and a couple of date after he ask me if i want it to do it and i said yes then we did it but then we turn to be someone to different then i thougth cuz after he told my sister i dont like her or will ...

If he doesn't want to continue, why doesn't he say so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I just need help with this situation because I don’t know if I’m being paranoid or what. I’m 23, have never really had a proper relationship, so I don’t really know what’s considered normal, acceptable, etc. I’ve ‘dated’ guys in the past but it ...

I don't want to hurt them but they don't seem to understand

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Hi Need some help from fellow students. Sorry if this is a bit long winded but there's a lot to it and I really need some help. Ok, so I'm just finishing my first year university and am now looking for somewhere to stay for my second ...

I've become so abusive and jealous since I got pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - hi everybody, this really sucks im in a relationship and hes great but im 7 months pregnant and lately im feeling so jealous and insecure cause sometimes he looks at other women and i feel so ugly if he leaves for 1 hr., im already thinking hes ...

I just cant see myself raising my daughter. I don't think I even love her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm basically wondering what's the best way to end a long term relationship when you don't want to give the real reason? Bit of background... I'm 18 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together for 5 years and we have a daughter who's 2....

My heart is stuck on my teacher.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I guess im stuck. Just out of luck. He's going to retire, and I don't know what to do. This isn't some question on what I should do to stop him, this is something about me. I can't live without him. Mr.Syre, the most amazing man of my life, tho...