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Archived questions from: 16 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What if I am missing out on the love of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Finally moving in a week but not sure if I might be making the right decision. My bf and I had been together in a LDR for 5 years. Our relationship, has gone through a lots of down. He has lied to me on several occasions; and even though he says ...

I SAW the email from her, confronted him and now he's angry with ME!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - hi, my boyfriend recieved an email from a woman it said Hi, Thank you for your diary. Have a nice evening. It was nice to spend time with you. again we do it bye Smiler I asked him about this. all he said was that he has ...

I know it was just 'sex' but we're both married and I feel so guilty.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 18 years and have 4 children, he is miserable, swears at me, and is gernerally a nasty person, other days he is a kind loving person. I am attracted to someone else now which I think is just an escape from my real ...

I forget about b/f when his uncle is around!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Well i've been with my boyfriend for a year and four months. Everything between us is great all the time, except when his uncle is there. His uncle is 24, i'm 14, and my boyfriend is 15. Before my boyfriend and i got together, I had a really b...

GF problems help?

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16 May 2009 (M) - Hi well i've been with my gf for 1 year in 2 month. Lately are relationship been having problems. We are actually in long distance relationship we live like 6hr away from each other so we rarely see each other lately. She always talks about how ...

I need to make him trust in me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I met this guy on a cruise 2 months ago. We had this amazing connection unlike anything I had ever imagined. He told me he was 33 (i'm 23) because i was joking and saying how older men always hit on me. Turns out, he confessed a week later, he's ...

Girlfriend needs a break because shes afraid

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16 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and myself have been dating for 8 months now, we meet at college and things were going fine. At the start of summer vacation she tells me she needs a break because she afraid of commitment. Shes told me she is eventually going to need ...

Did he mean what he said? how can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - This is the 2nd time i broke up with my boyfriend. But now I know this one is for sure.The reason we broke up 2 months ago was i found out he was cheating on me. I asked him to choose but he said he is already in love with this new girl so I decided ...

I want to get myself back to 11 years prior when I didn't care or think about my wife's past. How do I get myself there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - I have been married for close to 12 years now. After a month of being married my wife tells me of her past relationship and that she had an abortion, but she would not reveal the name of the guy. She was extremely upset and she thought I needed to ...

Tired of feeling like an employee instead of his wife

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - Ok here's the long short of the story. My man is in his early 30's and I'm in my late 20's. We've been together for over 2 years. During the honeymoon period, we had earth shattering great sex! I mean the sheets would be smoking if you know what I ...

Only 2 weeks but I think I really screwed things up

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16 May 2009 (F) - I'm in the first two weeks of a new relationship and PMS has just kicked in for this month. I've suddenly become really unhappy and irritable. And I'v already took it out on my BF through about 10 texts this morning, to which he hasnt replied to ...

Why is he so jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - hi guys i been wiyh my boyfriend for a while and we promised that we gonna be together foreva but we both have different religions which is abit hard sometimes to understand each other. i can not have a normal convesation about as he gets upset or ...

Problem prone life. What shall I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I feel really down all th time due to many things. i flucuate with my weight and either am happy coz i get to eat what i want but hate it coz i feel fat or am on a scrict diet where iam losing weight but am unhappy because im not eating what i want. ...

He says I have insecurities but I don't!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I been seeing this guy for 5 months now, we saw alot of each other in the beginning but now he seems to forget to call, i have spoken with him and sometimes when he cant get me right away and we have plans he goes and does something else. he said ...

I deserve a better friend than this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - My best friend has really let me down. It's been years of making and breaking promises, disappearing for months at a time without an explanation or a way to contact her, and the last time I visited her; she ignored me, became passive aggressive, and ...

I love him but he doesn't want to commit ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy exclusively for 8 months, I lost my virginity to him, I absolutely love him, but he doesn't feel the same.He says he is confused, he says half of him wants to be in a relationship with me, and the other half wants to see ...

What is going on in this "relationship"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I'm African American. So I snogged a co-worker that I was close friends with at a party and his Caucasian friends seemed to have a problem with it. At work everything was as normal and we were chillin out as usual. He told me he did not want a ...

I told him its either her or me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I have been living with someone whom I love more than anything. He works on a tugboat and is gone most of the time. I recently found out that he is texting his friend's girlfriend (His friend works on the boat with him). I confronted him about his ...

I love him but I don't know if he's worth it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

16 May 2009 (F) - I want to break up with my boyfriend i still love him with all my heart but our relationship has been falling apart he says he doesnt want to leave me but i dont understand how is it that he loves me sometimes he says things to me that hurts me or ...

Flakey friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

16 May 2009 (M) - Often my friends flake on me, sometimes they don't stick to their word or suddenly something comes up and they can't stay with their commitments. This is causing me real problems and upsets me because I feel like I can't rely on them or sometimes ...