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Archived questions from: 1 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend's flat mate treats him like dirt and I'm slowly boiling up inside!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm having trouble with my boyfriend's flat mates. He has been living with them for 2 years now and they are not very nice people. He only lives with them because he has nowhere else to go. His parents live 4 hours away from the ...

I feel unable to let him go...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (?) - Hey, I would really appreciate some advice here! I have been obsessed (this is an understatement) with this guy for a year now and for most of this time we have not been on speaking terms. He claims to hate me and my feelings towards him vary ...

I have reached the age of legal consent and wanted to have sex with my long term girlfriend but I couldn't get it up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - I turned 16 ten days ago, and that means I'm legal in my country (UK). I thought that when I was 16 I would not have a problem with having sex, as I did not have to worry about the law etc, but my girlfriend of 8 months and I tried having sex ...

What is uncensored porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hi guys! I recently found out that my partner has a uncensored website. He also sells viagrra and something called cilas. Firstly what is uncensored porn? And is it ok for him to sell viagra? I've asked but he wont discuss business. He's now ...

Intriguing observations!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (?) - Intriguing observations: When a man's flirting/cheating actions are pointed out, he quickly runs to his gun and fires the labels: "Insecure" and/or "Jealous" at his complainant, quickly putting it all on her. When a woman's flirting/cheati...

My boyfriend hates my family because they're FAT!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend hates my family and I need some advice on how I can get him to lighten up and be nicer to them. My boyfriend was raised in an extremely wealthy family and also has the perfect body. My family is not super rich and my sister and my mom ...

I'm falling for him but know I can't have him...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hello agony aunts, I'm having some love trouble with a guy that has a girlfriend and he and me have slept together many times, but he says to me that he can't leave her. But sometimes he says stuff like 'if we were together I will be there for you'. ...

He doesn't seem to want to make love to me as often as he used to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now. We started having sex 10 months after we started dating, and since then all i want to do is make love to him!... everything was ok for 4 months but now he doesnt feel like doing it as ...

My mum is sleeping with my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 8 months. We get on great and have an amazing sex life. When we have sex we always film it. It's just a bit of a kinky thing we do. My Mum, who's in her mid-forties, is always saying how good looking my boyfr...

Why doesn't he care?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6years now and things were great for a long time, he was always so caring and so loving and made me feel special by doing nice things for me. But for the last year now he has made feel as though i am nothing to him ...

Our sex life is terrible and to make things worse my ex who I had a very passionate sex life with is back on the scene!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My husband is a wonderful, temperate, caring husband and father. He is such a great friend and I trust him completely, however, he hates and fears intimacy, sex and passionate kissing. We also have some problems in the communication department as ...

Am I wrong for wanting to start my life with the person I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been with eachother a year and a half and we are also living together(with his fam.)I work and i support him untill he finishes college. He just got a job, so i asked him... "when are we moving out?" he said whenever he ...

My fiancee's ex has realised what he is missing and is trying to get her back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - My fiancee's ex cheated on her, drank excessively, and didn't contribute anything to their relationship. I work away from home, by away I mean different country, on a rather regular basis. Now that her ex realizes what he's missing, he want...

My boyfriend has a major problem with commitment!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a major problem with commitment. I know he loves me but he pushes me away because of his past! One girl that he was with spilt her wrists because she was totally in love with him and he left her. And thats what she did. And he was ...

Help me! Big crisis!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - i hav been goin out with my gf for a long time but theres another girl who wants me and i dont know what to do someone help me please :(...

My boyfriend thinks it would be a turn on to watch me having sex with our dog!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 26 and have been with my current bf for almost 3 years. We have a great relationship, he is perfect in many ways. We get along great and have a great sex life. We are both very open at trying new things sexually and I will admit ...

How to get my boyfriend's attention back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - How to catch my boyfriend's attention back? Hi! Ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost six months now and it seems like he does not care when I'm around and he'd rather spend the Friday night with his flatmates. He expects me to so...

When I called him crying he said to me "why are you whinging?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - please help please .. I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore , we've been going out 3 years and im nearly 18 and he's turned 20 , he hardly talks to me , we used to talk everyday and now its not the same . I called him just before as I was ...

Bad breakup - can this relationship be salvaged?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Was with a guy for 10 months - in the last 2-3 months he kept to break up with me sporadically just like that but mainly after we had a trivial fight..he would dump me by txt or by phone call..and we would keep to go back with each other once 3 days ...

Another girl asks my guy out for a meal - he thinks they are friends but she doesn't even know about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - Hi right ok so girls and guys. Girls if you asked a boy out for a meal would you be classing that as asking him on a date? guys if a girl asked you out for a meal would YOU class that as a date? a guy i was with told me a girl liked him she ...

I have so messed up the best thing I had in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I was married 15years, but known him 20 am now 42. It was a strong relationship and very happy with four boy,s the result . We had up and down's but mainly up,s , he was my best friend .Nearly two year,s has gone by now since we parted because i ...

My online guy suddenly wants to go out with me after his other girl dropped him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - There is a guy I've talking with on line for abour 3 years, he has always told me he doesn't want to have agirlfriend or a serious relationship, we tried having a coffee together but it did not work really however we take on great just talking on ...

Is he tired of "us" already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - My partner and I used to have such fun together, but it very quickly went quiet. He's very busy and has a lot of pressure on him with his work. We have a new baby together. We're nice to each other and very rarely rowe. We had a break for 10 months ...

Had sex, but he doesn't call?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I had sex with a guy that i really like too soon and after our intercourse he has been distant,he dosnt call or visit and when i do call he dosnt answer so i stopped.I was hurt and i just cant stop thinking about him,i want to for get him but i dont ...

Tired of my boyfriend's immaturity

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I am so tired of my bf inmaturities and childish reactions. Yesterday morning he got mad at me and hanged up the phone on me, and has not call me since. I txted him last night telling him that I love him and that I cared about him. I also called ...

He gave her his number. Is he just seeing if I will react to this or is this a sign that he is not serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about three months now. I am 18 and he is 27. We recently talked about our relationship and come up with the conclusion that we are exclusive but we realize that our relationship is limited due to our age difference and ...

I feel my partner is going through a crisis just now... what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

1 May 2009 (M) - I am a 31 year old male who has been in a relationship for 8 years. We have 2 beautiful girls age 3 and 5. my fiance told me that she has had and ongoing affair with a man for about 4 months and will not break it off with him. she will not give me ...