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Archived questions from: 2 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm the other woman..who got her married man. But now it's all going wrong! Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I fell in love with a married man 5 years ago who was funny, attentive and loving all the time and spent most of his time with me including weekends and holidays. He did finally leave his wife who has move on and got remarried with a new child 2 ...

Is he lying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend came home the other night so drunk he couldn't stand on his own. he was spitting on the floor thinking he was outside. he told me he was out with another woman, wouldn't let me near him because he said he didn't shower and still had ...

He had sex with me and I haven't heard anything from him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hello. I have been seeing a guy for three months. He is 38, divorced with four children (they don't live with him)I am 35 no kids. I like him a lot, he told me that he really liked me and said he wanted to take things slow (despite the fact that he ...

It's driving me crazy..all these worries, no that I am not dating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hi! So fed up of everything atm. As i said previously, i broke up with my boyf of almost 6 years five months ago and just felt really crappy for about 4 months. I miss the relationship but wouldn't want to go back to my ex boyf, who's moved on ...

I do whatever he wants me too but it makes me feel cheap and easy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Okay so I meet this guy about 6 months back and after 3 or so weeks he got me invited to a party and we hooked up. Since then we have been seeing each other in secret 1 or 2 times a week at various places in a friends with benefits agreement, but ...

Was in a really bad relationship but I miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone,# Please help. I've been in a really bad relationship the last 3 and a half years. It ended after I found out my fiance had joined an escort agency behind my back. I've lost everything because of him and he's bled me dry with everyt...

Why does he act so strangely if he doesn't want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - This is kinda confusing. I once liked this guy. A lot. I mean I was crushing on him super bad. But he didnt feel back, so he told me to get over him. I did (as much as possible), and I thought we could be friends. We cant really. He has a few i...

She's been through alot, I know she doesn't trust me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - My wife has had alot of problems in her life. She's been raped, sexually/emotionally/physically abused, was kidnapped by her father and put up for adoption, been in really bad relationships, and now has a lot of trouble trusting me. She loves me ...

How do I help him get over his guilt with the ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - my guy is very caring but he used to keep kissing and having foreplay with his x girl before they broke up. now he feels guily about fooling around with his x girl and this keeps him from getting too close to me. how can i help him get over his ...

Relationship not what it used to be--please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for just over 18 months now. I just wanted to ask people's advice. For the first 9 months or so, things couldn't have been better- to put it simply, we were so in love! We did everything together. She always wa...

Take your shoes off! Thanks!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Call me PETTY, but i am a woman of PRINCIPLE. I recently put a sign on my front door saying, take your shoes off, thanks!! I was getting so angry with everyone bringing mud and grass in to the house and getting it all over my laminate floors ...

I broke up with him because I thought he was gay... but he wasn't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - About a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend cuz I thought he was gay but then i found out that he wasent what should i do cuz as soon as i dumped him i got a NEW boyfriend and now he doesnt really talk to me, in fact i think he hates me, what ...

How can I forgive and forget with these images in my head?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. She told me she was a virgin and wanted to stay a virgin till she gets married. I agreed, because I am a virgin too. Everything was going okay. Until last month, she said that she can't lie to me ...

Why is my ex so sarcastic to me? He was the one that wanted to break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hoping people can help a bit here and thank in advance all who respond. I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago. It was his decision and he asked for no contact so I did as he asked. We have mutual friends. A lot of the guys in our mutual group ...

I understand his frustration but it's making me feel so down that I cannot function properly.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hello Aunt's and Uncles, I have posted on this wonderful site before and hope I can call on people's advice and opinions again to help me with something that has been bothering me. Well, I will try to make this short. Earlier this year I lost my c...

Is she going through some kind of phase?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I like this girl and I'm pretty sure she likes me too. She has the top average in my grade. In recent years, she wants to be "popular" and acts stupid and bubbly when I know she's not really like that. We like each other, but her style butts heads ...

Do I truly miss him and only wish that I had him to lean on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - June of 2008 I married what I thought was the man for me. We have been together for 4 years before getting married. He came into the relationship with no children. About a year later come to find out he has 4 boys. The youngest being 8. At first I ...

These trips to the supermarket are getting more frequent!!!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - These past few days, my fiance seems different. He's been going out to the supermarket, the one we always use, more than usual. And I know for a fact he HATES going there. I wasn't feeling well so I haven't been with him, when I usually do go. ...

I can't live with him... but I can't live without him either.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for about six months now and at the current moment it's a constant struggle. It's long distance and i only see him at weekends yet that at the beginning was totally fine as i am at Uni during the week and he works etc ...

How should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I want to break up with my bf of 2 years as he has no time for me any more and talking to him about it hasn't gotten through, its been 2 days since he's called. What way is harsher and make him think oh my god I miss her... completely ignoring...

How can I get my relationship back on track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Lately, me and my boyfriend of seven months have been arguing a hell of a lot. He's usually very sweet and caring, and considerate of my feelings. As of recently, however, he's been thinking of himself more than me. He'll do something even if he ...

How can I convince him that he should call his parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - My husband and I have a problem. He isn't in touch with his parents, doesnt even want to call them. This all started when we moved in together, and escalated when he didnt call them to say that we got married (it was a small, impromptu wedding). ...

My football coach is getting too cosy for my liking.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I posted a question a few months back concerning this. Now i have more to think about. I like my football coach and i think he might know. He is the number one person i trust in my life - he knows everything about me and vice versa. That's no...

I feel really self conscious when I'm on top as everything jiggles about!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I feel really self conscious when me and my bf have sex when I'm on top. I'm 5 feet even and about 130 pounds. I'm not fat, just curvy. I feel like when I'm on top he's sees everything moving, and finds it unattractive so I try not to make eye ...

What to do when you can't do no more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfreind have been together for almost 4 years, she was 5 months pregnant with our daughter when we met, she's 3 and we have a son, he is legally mines. Me and my gf fight a lot, I usually end up the only one trying to talk it out but ...

Our friendship is falling apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - my friend is getting annoying i think she is bipolar please help me..i have a best friend and i text her all the time 24/7 we're soo opposite of each other but we are the biggest dorks around each other..sometimes over texts we get into a fight and ...

Is my boyfriend too flirty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is a naturally flirtacious person who likes to make people laugh.he has quite a few friends as girls. Some r ex girlfriends! He isnt trying to hid anything and is always honest that when he goes out he does get girls come upto him ...

I'm 19 and pregnant. The father is addicted to pot and drinking

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - ~I'm 19 and pregnant and the farther is addicted to weed and drinking. My first problem was started a year ago last January when I started to date a guy that was defiantly not the kind I use to date. He was wild almost right out of person. He di...

He can't keep an erection and I am too young to forgo this part of my life! Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year we are both in our late forties and married for 20 years and divorced. He shared withme while we had been dating for 2 or 3 weeks that he had diabetes and therefore can not get an erection. I do love ...

I like my new job but it's very challenging and coworkers are not supportive, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - HI, This is not a "love" question per say, but I am struggling right now and would like to hear from others who may be. I have a job that I really like, and I feel like I am failing miserably at it. Its very demanding and challenging. The ...

How do you know your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - How do you know your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore?...

How do I handle this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - My best guy friend of over a decade and I decided to have sex last night just to see what it'd be like with each other. Well, while he was inside me, he confessed to me that he loves me. The sex was so utterly great and the fact that he told me he ...

Was I used for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - was i used for sex? I saw this guy in the evenings and usually had sex. It was a bit of a FWB situation. It went on for a few months. I never really went out much with him or hung out with each others friends. Also, as a girl, you can tell when ...

I screwed up with my g/f and wnat her back badly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - Long story short, she is the first girl I have ever had deep feelings for and I didn't know how to handle that so after couple of months I became clingy. Every time I look back on how I acted I feel like kicking myself because, rather than just ...

My ex came back and said he wants to work things through..but runs hold and cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - My ex recently got in touch with me after he broke up with me several months ago, said he missed me and wanted to work through things. It would be a long road but he is not going anywhere. I so want things to work out so thought great. We star...

I don't think she has my best interests at heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

2 May 2009 (?) - I have this friend of mine, I say she's my friend, I wasnt working for a year and a half, she is working, we chat and laugh on the phone about her business. during that year she never called me then one day she called and asks me if I'd found a job, ...

Is flirting one step away from cheating???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I went on my boyfriends computer and i was going to check my Myspace. But he was already logged on and it said he had 9 Messeges. I was curious so i clicked. (I didnt find 9 new messeges) But i did find a conversation he was having with some girl T...

My boyfriend's friend doesn't like me... how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - we've been 7 months with my boyfriend.. and it's the first time i can feel that one of his church mates was not just into me. I mean, doesn't like me for him. there's this one time when i checked on my boyfriend's friendster account and read one ...