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writes:My boyfriends mum really hurt me yesterday. She started a convo about domestic violence and stuff. But then she started mentioning my mother. My mum has done some terrible things to me, but i have also gave as much back. Bfs mum thinks i dont stand up to my mum enough and that hurts. This is going to sound bad to some but i will explain, i have hit my mum, got her bashed, got her charged for beating and choking me and all sorts and that still hasnt changed her so i gave up. Mum has beaten me, got me raped locked me out and i almost was raped again (put up fight) forced me not to tell dad she was sleeping with dads step sis husband or she said she will kill me and dispose of my body so well it will never be found. U name it shes said and done it. Im just so hurt byfrnds mum would rub this all in my face like that. Not sure what my question is, just after support. Also my bf throws me around our house sometimes and says its because i dont know when to shut my face and just talk when spoke to, of course his mum took his side being an only kid. Im just so depressed and people are making it worse. The depression is ruining my life
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reader, waciehawks  +, writes (3 June 2009):
Get away from your boyfriend, he's bad news! NOBODY should hit you!
You're strong and you can walk away from all this. I'm sorry about your mother. You need to start a new life elsewhere, if you're old enough just get away from it all.
Keep strong, keep safe and don't do anything stupid.
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (29 May 2009):
 First off, get away from your boyfriend. Nobody should be putting their hands on you in any way, shape, or form. You don't deserve any kind of abuse. Not ever. Not even once.
Second, have you considered counseling? A good counselor can help you work out a lot of things. S/he can help you work on your self-esteem and inner strength.
I'm really sorry your mom was so horrible to you. *hug* You are a very strong person to come through all that and still be alive.
Good luck and keep us posted.
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reader, Summerlovn2004 +, writes (28 May 2009):
 Wow. You need to get away from those people, all of them. Don't ever let anyone hurt you. I have been though something similar with my family. I think you need to focus on yourself and get rid of that ass and his mom, you deserve better, if you don't leave him he will treat you the way your mom does. I'm so sorry for what has happened to you. I hope you can be strong and not take anyones crap.
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