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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He prefers bigger breasts and mine are small...how do I deal with his remarks about that?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to stop being insecure, but I don't know how. Granted, never been the most self confident chick in the block, since I'm not the prettiest. But when we started dating, he used to compliment me a lot which gave me a huge ...

Trying to break up with him but he threatens he'll do something drastic! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I am 18 very young and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He started living with me at my dad's house before we were even together because he had no where to go and I cared for him. So our relationship started off really fast at first I ...

Been engaged for 7 months and she stopped wearing her ring!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - I need some advice here... I've been with my lady nearly 3 years. We've been engaged for 7 months. We both work in the night club industry and she stopped wearing her ring about a month ago. Ladies!! do you think it is ok to take your ring off for ...

Help me get the love of my life back after I broke his heart

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was with my fiance since the age of 18,We hadn't gotten married yet on my account because i wasn't ready.But as far as everyone including us were concerned, we were. He was my first and the love of my life. We were together for 15 y...

I am scared of breaking up with this guy when I know there is no future.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I am just writing in for some advice, i have been involved in a relationship for the last almost 3 yrs now.i am crazily in love with this guy.infact the story goes like this.before i started dating this guy i had asked him if caste or religion wud ...

I want him to want to be with me properly and not just his conselation prize.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - My ex got dumped yesterday and I felt really good about this becuase he had left me for her and because he was wanting to see me. I stuck to my guns though and said no and made him feel he had 2 work for it. Now though I am worried that all the old ...

Now what do I do he is still emphatically denying it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - Hi there i hope somebody can help. I have been married for 4 years. We have 2 children, 3 and 9 months with our 3rd due in october. It all started the day before our first wedding anniversary we were away when my phone received a picture message ...

I just don't see what would be so hard about spending one weekend sober with his pregnant fiance??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23... I'm 5 months pregnant and were engaged, before i got pregnant we had a very active social life but only at weekends... occasionaly he would go to the pub without me as i work shifts but since ive became pregnant he ...

He broke up with me but he keeps calling me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4947 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me but he cant tell me why and every excuse he give me dont add up to what the problem was between us... what could the reason be why he still calls me all the time telling me how happy he is with his new girl and now i ...

I caught him red-handed but I still love him. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - here goes: My boyfreind of 5 years has been dealing with some depression and anxiety. he has been going to doctors for this and we have been on and off the whole time. He has lied about his where abouts and who he has been with. And he even joined a...

I am so miserable and I have no idea what to do! Advice please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - Hi I need your advice really bad. I lost someone I really love because I decided to date someone else because he didn't take care of his business as far as getting his divorce. I didn't date the other but a few months. He treated me real bad and ...

I am troubled and need advice from someone wiser than me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - I need an outsider's insight, and advice concerning what I should be doing, saying, thinking right now. What should I, a generally self-confident yet sexually frustrated young man, be focusing on? I do not understand my paradoxical emot...

I am in such a mess ! I just need someone to point me in the right direction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - please help. i am in a relationship which is so wrong. my partner is really hurting me mentally, physically and financially. we live together with our son who is 4 and im so scared he will turn out to be just like his dad. i know i have to leave, i...

My wife just doesn't love me anymore..? What more can I do?

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9 May 2009 (M) - when me and my wife got married two years ago everything was fine until our wedding night. on our wedding night my wife denied me. we had already had a kid together and we had been waiting 8 weeks to have sex on our wedding night. that night she ...

I'm so insecure how can I stop being so jealous?

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9 May 2009 (F) - Hi all, i need some advice on how to be more secure with myself. I get jealous very quickly when pretty girls are around. I'll give you 1 example...recently a new girl joined our team at work and she is absoultly stunning and all the men flock ar...

Insecure broke up,now are friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - The following may seem wierd and overhyped but it's just a small part of my life which I need help in, and I have given everything you need to know in detail (thats why so long) so that no wrong opinions and conculsions are there...it's long but if ...

Shy guy, I can't talk to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - I like this guy, who knows I like him. But I've been kind of ignoring him lately (playing hard-to-get -_-) but he doesn't like me back. (If a guy knows you like him, why not ask you out right? And he hasn't done that.) We were acquaintances bef...

This co-worker seems to be obsessed with me, how do I deal with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - Hello: There is this woman at work who is overly involved with my affairs in the work place. This job is her life and she has to know about everybody and everything. She didn't like the fact that I was closer to our dept manager than she was ...

Did she just use me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

9 May 2009 (M) - Ok This is really bugging me now so I despratley need some help please. I'll try cut a long story short. Basically I have been mates with this girl for 9 years and we met up back in March and she was engadged to get married but then she said sh...

It seems we're doing everything that he wants not me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - hello all.. we have been in a long distance relationship for 4yrs.. both of us are from india and work in US in different cities. we are thinking of getting married soon. i have always wanted to go back to india after 2-3yrs but my boyfrend wants ...

Within a few days I lost my pregnancy and my Mom booted me from her life. How do I cope with this?!?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - well three months ago i found out i was pregnant for the first time, i have always wanted kids as i have been raised looking after my twin 10 year younger brothers and helping out looking after my two nieces. well as u can expect i was over the moon ...

Is it love or is he after me just to get a mortgage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

9 May 2009 (F) - i want to know if my current boyfriend really loves me, or is just using me to get a mortgage ...