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Archived questions from: 5 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why are his friends like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I've had a crush on this guy for a while. I think he might like me too, but he is shy. His friends are being unusually nice to me at times. They are always staring at me during class. If I look up at them and they are with him they will Say ...

Confused why do I feel like I can't let go of a man who has cheated on me twice and been physically abusive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Confused why do I feel like I can't let go of a man who has cheated on me twice and been physically abusive.I feel that every time I say I'm movin on and when he calls me I give in. The last incident occured last week when he got upset cuz he said ...

How can I move on from my first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - First of all Im a bi guy who is in love with a straight guy Hes the one who made me realised that im into guys I know he is straight cuz he got girlfriend.. Theyre both on my class so I see them every day in school which makes me jealous and angr...

I'm just very confused what this girl actually wants.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - I need some help with my relationship. I'm just very confused what this girl actually wants. I was in a 9 month relationship with this girl, and things were always pretty good. Recently though we haven't been seeing each other as much, and the ...

I am trapped!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I am trapped. I need help desperately. I formed a very close relationship with one of my school teachers and, well, we ended up kissing. Just once. But my ex saw. And now he's using what he saw as an excuse to blackmail into everything - from doi...

Although I'm dating I always have to call and text to see him. Is he just not that into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - So my problem is a pretty minor one, but that's what this site's for, right? Phew. Ok. Basically, I am in a relationship with a guy I positively ADORE. I mean, I am head over heels in LOVE. I think. What's getting me down is the fact that he nev...

What happened? Why is he ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I've known this boy since September and we used to hang out but now he ignores me. Doesn't talk to me any more. I feel like he hates me and it makes me cry! I didn't do anything to him but maybe like him. He used to like me when he first met me now ...

My husband has a big attitude problem and wants to rule me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Hi, Recently my husband has been having high ego and attitude problems. He wants me do things exactly he says, if not done that way there are fights. He wants to rule me. If i take any decision he says "you have to ask me before you do anythin...

His ex still has control over him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating someone for 16 months. Relationship is wonderful except that his "ex" still has her control over him. He does not agree with this and it is a constant argument for us. He's out of the marriage because she cheated, lied and ...

Do I give him a second chance or move on?

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5 May 2009 (F) - what do you do when you just let the love of your life walk out? i had chased him enough and it got the point when i wouldnt want to fight at all i would just cry and open the door. i got sick of him tell me we couldnt be because he doesnt have ...

Should I go on holiday with my partner to please him even though we have unresolved arguments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My partner of 2 years recently asked me to go on holiday with him. Our situation at the moment is not all that great, and we argue almost daily. I've never been abroad before and I have a phobia of flying, so if I'm actually going to do this I nee...

Love my husband but feel the temptation to cheat on him with a co worker, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Help, I am married and I think my co-worker and I are falling for each other. I started a new job in a new country about 5 months ago. It was the first job I had in a long time where I've really enjoyed my colleagues and the work I've been doing,...

I'f I'm pregnant he could get into trouble with the law... Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I'm 16 years old. well ive found myself kind of being a little bit slutty i guess you could say. i go out and party and just try to have fun. well i met this guy. Hes 18. And going into the Army. I dont believe age matters. But in the laws eyes ...

He looks down on me like I'm the worst person in the world...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I met this guy in 2003. He told me that him and his wife were not together because she cheated on him. He said that he was staying in the home util he got enough money to get out. He said he could not be with her after what she did to him. He said ...

I want to give my wife one more chance...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - I am writng for advice on how to get my wife to come back home. My wife recently moved out, at my request, after six months of her telling me she didnt love me any more and wanted to move out. We have been to many councelling sessions and the whole ...

I feel hurt and used by her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - Man I feel like such a pussy typing this up. But I dont want to ask any of my buddies. Two years ago I dated this girl for about a year and a half total. I broke up with her for a couple of reasons, mainly selfishness on my behalf, I wanted...

A 3-some gone wrong!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Hey, I really need some advice for my best friend. She has been in a relationship with this guy for some time and its her first sexual relationship. A few days ago it was his birthday and she gave him a little surprise... he's always wanted a...

Should I walk away???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Thank you all for trying to help me with my dilemma. I am no child, he broke up with me about a month ago. He said some degrading things to me that are were not true. We were together for 3yrs and I accepted things that I would of normally walked ...

I broke up with her, now my conscience is cursing me for hurting her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - I broke up with my 17 year old girlfriend because i wasnt in love with her. I broke the news without any warning and probably with the silliest reason that i was committment phobic... she was devastated! I had no other way to end this and i was ...

Is my b/f being shady or am I just paranoid?

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5 May 2009 (F) - My b/f and I have been dating for almost 10 months. I had major trust issues from a previous relationship that had been a strain on ours until I started going to therapy. He has started going to therapy for some issues HE'S been having, and things ...

Ex Girlfriend dumped me three weeks ago, now she's sending me messages...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - Hi My Girlfriend and i were together for about 8 months and dumped me out of the blue three weeks ago, told me not to look for her anymore. yesterday she wants to chat on yahoo, to say hi and to ask me what I was up to, could it mean she's sort of ...

Is he really just friends with this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. I fully trusted him... he could go where ever he wanted, do whatever, and talk to whoever because I believed he would always be true to me. Then he began to mention a girl he had been ...

Why does he want a lap dance on his stag night?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My fiance and I get on really well, we have both been married before but at last are happy, we hardly never argue and everyone says that we are made for each other. I am unusually laid back about most things BUT we are getting married this year and ...

Molested by my father: How do I explain to my mother that I can't let them have my kids at weekends?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Ever since I was 4 years old I remember being molested by my father. Even he will admit that he would touch me and get turned on since I was a baby. When I turned 12 he started having sex with me. I didnt tell anyone because I believe in aweird ...

Boyfriend's new female friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - BF and I have been going out 3 years and this year I've graduated and started working and he started another course in uni. He's always been very outgoing and had lots of friends, but mostly guys who I know quite well. But since starting his new ...

I'm in a sexless marriage and I'm soooo frustrated!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Well, I have a sad situation. My husband, does not desire any sex. I don't know why. He suddenly lost his erection once, and than next time he couldn't get it up at all. He went to doctors, but they didn't find anything wrong. Now, he never wa...

Friends... or is she ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - Heya everyone, I've liked this girl, for about a year now (I think), I asked her out a while ago and she said yes but we didn't eventually. A couple of months ago she started getting close to one of my best friends (not bf and gf, just close mates...

I'm being blackmailed by an ex who has gotten me in debt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - im being blackmailed by an ex, he has got me 20k in debt and has got cars on finance in my name, now im being threatened by solicitors and courts with legal action as the payments havent been made, when i ask him whats going on he says he will sort ...

I am so worried that I could be pregnant, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I am 17 years old, I recently gave birth to my beatiful 8 month old daughter. I never had any symptoms of being pregnant with my daughter. The only symptoms was me getting bigger!!! I promised myself that I would NOT have sex again until I got ...

Teacher attraction: is it ok to add him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Is it okay to add a former college teacher that i was sort of attracted to when i took a class with him last semester to my list of friends? I mean this is weird but he used to look at me literally every 4 seconds (yes,i counted) maybe he was att...

How do I get him to hug me or do anything??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - i am almost 16 and me and my not offical boyfriend have been "talking" for ever and he hasn't done anything not even hug and i really dont know how to get him to at least hug me or something he tells me that i am great its not me. he doesnt like ...

My parents and my best friend all hate my gf! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - My parents and my best friend and some of my church hates my girlfriend. Her and I have been through alot and we dont wanna stop. You cant change how someone feels about someone else in their heart. I wont give up and I wont stop! I will do ...

He has mental issues and I want to dump him! Should I be scared?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has mental issues and the more we stay together the more controlling he is becoming towards me. When we started dating, he was so much fun and exciting and did everything possible (in a good way) to make me fall for him. As we got to ...

We're engaged so shouldn't I be his benefactor on his life insurance policy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My fiance` has just recently turned in his papers for benefits at his semi-new job. One of those benefits was life insurance. He rarely deals with his folks and out of curiosity, I asked when the last time he even talked to them was. His response ...

Is he too busy or losing his feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I just started dating this guy. He is really sweet but gets me so frustrated some times because he is so opinionated, as so am I. He says he loves me and I love him so much. He makes me really happy, but the problem is we don't talk that much. He is ...

We really like each other, but if his gf finds out..she'll kick my butt! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - im in love with this guy who is completely amazing..and he likes me back...but hes dating this other girl...and he said that if he wasn't dating her he'd be dating me...but i really want 2 date him and we are really close and all...but if his gf ...

She doesn't have a very attractive body...will I get over that eventually?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - I recently started a relationship with a girl I get along very well with. She lives in a different city and she is considering moving to the city I live in. When we are together, I am attracted to her mind enough so that we have a decent love life. ...

This new guy is so special..but I don't feel like I deserve him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - So i've been in toxic relationships for the past 2 years. Horrible controlling relationships with too much abuse that i put up with. Now that's it's been like 3 months since my last one and i have a new boyfriend. He's a great guy we started off as ...

What will he be like when he gets out of jail? Should I wait or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years; since we were both nineteen. And he's been in jail for the last year for a crime he did not commit. In fact, it was a crime his best friend committed but he died because of it. I am...

I had a dream...where he got really mad at me! What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - okay so my situation is well i have a little crush on this guy who is named Pedro and well I sit by him in a class and we talk and stuff and he is very cool to talk to.Well today I had a dream that we were walking side by side and that I told him ...