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Archived questions from: 17 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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I don't know how to break up with her in a peacful matter that'll work out fine for both of us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

17 May 2009 (M - I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year now. We're both still young. We moved into an apartment after about four months of dating, it's both of our first times on our own and we're completely dependent on each other. The entire spark, the ...

It's like Romeo and Juliet, a family fight forbids our love... help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - I am 15 and he is 15. We have fallen for each other deeply but we can't be together because our familes got in a fight and completly hate each other and even hate the fact that we go to the same school but can't move due to the economy... we only ...

Help!!! How can I get my husband's attention?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - I've been married to my present husband for a year now. When we first got married, we didn't live together for almost 8 months! He finally moved in with us in January this year. 5 weeks later I found out that he loves to watch porn on the computer ...

What's going on with him here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - Ok, so, some background: me and my boyfriend have been together a year and a half. I was at his house this evening and for dinner we had burgers and salad [with onions]. Later on in the evening, we were sitting on his bed and, im not sure how it ...

Help... my friends keep ganging up on me!

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17 May 2009 (? - Since im the quiet one out of all of them and they are all so confident they sometimes gang up on me. I give up trying to stand up for myself because i never win anyway. I tried going off to find a different group of friends and i managed but then ...

Overreacting over his drinking binges?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - I have been married for 10 years. When my husband and I started dating, he consumed alcohol. I did not mind at the time because I only saw him intoxicated once and thought he only consumed alcohol on the weekends. Due to our occupations, the first ...

Does it sound like she still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - I'm not sure how too go about finding out that question. So, I thought I'd come here and ask for advice after I told you part of the situation. We started dating in Feb 09' we've known one another for nearly a yr and a half before that. It was the ...

How do I get through this break up and still be her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 May 2009 (M - I'm sorry if this is too long for you to read, but I'm just giving the whole story so you can give a more cogent, well thought out answer. Okay, so in the beginning of the school year (september 2008), this new girl came to my school (which on...

Why did he run off like he did? I thought we were friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - All last semester I was flirting off and on with one of my co-workers, and then friend, despite him having a girlfriend. We both new it was just us being friends and we didn't spend much time together out of work, probably for that same reason. But ...

We fight soo much!

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17 May 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time- almost a year and a half. I love him to death but we fight SO much. I feel like if i am with someone i love then i should be happy, but i'm always upset or mad, rarely happy.We broke up last ...

Best friend cheated with my b/f and now I think she might be trying again to get him

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17 May 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I have been going out again and things have been really great. But in the past, him and one of my best friends had gotten together behind my back for a month. It has been almost a year now and i have forgiven both of them and have ...

Every time we get into a fight I wind up hitting him!

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17 May 2009 (? - I REALLY don't know what to do @ this point. I'd been w/ my boyfriend for about 6 months, and everything was great the first couple of months, and than we started fighting constantly because he thought I cheated on him w/ a friend of mine w...

What a mess I'm in!

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17 May 2009 (M - I met this 23 year old woman back in november. I am 31. Prior to having met her I had broken up from a 10 year relationship that brought about 2 children, who are now 9 and 5. This woman and I went out for the first time a few weeks after meeting. ...

He's breaking my heart all over again

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17 May 2009 (F - Hi, I am hurting so much inside because about l7 years ago, when I was engaged to my ex fiance', I fell in love with a married man and he means the world to me but he would never leave his wife for me even though he is living in hell with her. He ...

Haunted by the past

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17 May 2009 (F - i don't if i'm going crazy or if whats happening is normal.my bf and i have been datin for a year and a half and i love him so much but there is only one problem i can't forget what he did in the past.he played me and made me feel like i'm not good ...

I love him, I cheat, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - my problem will probably appear very mixed up and contradictory. But i'm saying this from my own experience from my boyfriend of 15months. Since around 4 months ago, me and my boyfriends relationship deteriorated slightly, many arguments came and...

How do I fix my relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

17 May 2009 (M - I have never asked advice online before so here I go. I have been dating a girl for a year and a half now. I hav lied to her on countless occasions on stupid stuff. I am 31 and she is 40. She has 2 teenagers that live with us. We have always worked ...

He treats me well but I've caught him in lies

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - okay right i've been with this guy for a year yesterday he treats me so much, like yesterday he took me shopping with £300 he spoils me so much. the last 2 months, we've been going down hill. he's lied to me over our relationship. At the begi...

Why isn't sex such a big factor now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - So me and my boyfriend havent had sex in a while(since last month)and we have talked about how we want to whenever it is were away or miss each other. i love him and obviously our relationship isnt just about sex which is good. but what confuses me ...

Is leaving him alone the best thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and about 2 years ago I cheated. I told my boyfriend I wanted a break because he wasn't there until late at night and then he'd be up early for work and I felt like we were so distant but I still did ...

I want another baby. My husband does not...How to change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - i want another baby but my husband doesn't. i have a 1.5 year old little boy who is the center of both our universe's. i want to wait till i get out of school (another 5 years) but i know i DO want another one. my husband is completely against it. ...

I'm sick of the fighting! Am I not seeing his side or do I just walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - I just want some raw honest advice. I have been with this guy for over a year. I love him, he loves me. He would NEVER cheat on me, he is financially stable, if I ask him to do something (reasonable) he always does. We just aren't getting something. ...

Real problems between my son and his step father...any advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - I am in a quandary. My son is 10yo, and has behavioral problems. They seem to be getting steadily worse and I know the problem is my husband, his step father. He gets so verbally and mentally abusive when my son messes up, that he just makes it ...

My husband makes me feel like I make him unhappy...help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - My husband lights up to the sight of anyone around him, normal and happy. When he is with me he makes me feel like I make him unhappy quit and withdrawn only touches me when ready for sex I want my marriage to work but feel bad like I make him ...

We had sex and now he wants to be "friends"...???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

17 May 2009 (F - my boyfriend and i had sex then he want us to be friends what does that mean...

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