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Archived questions from: 3 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Current relationship is depressing me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - Hi there, I have been in this relationship with my girlfriend for about 10 months now. But lately I am depressed, when i asked myself ; 'why?' I came to the conclusion that this current relationship is depressing me. She is very indifferent a...

I need help is it wrong or should I say something??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Recently I’m 20 and I have been having feelings both emotional and sexual towards my mum's cousin's husband's brother’s son. We have always said we r cousins even though we are not related through blood. We have been close for about seven years. i ...

Why and what is the reason for his actions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - 33 years old, married, and work as a nurse. I met a physician 58 years old that has tooken an interest in me. He is a flirt and a social butterfly. I am shy, quite, and reserved. I started noticing him when he started flirting with me which ...

I want to leave my husband as I know I don't love him, but I don't want to break his heart. Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I'm not sure how to start with this question.... I don't know where to really go, or what to do. When I was 18 I dated a man who was horrible to me. I ended up getting pregnant, and had a miscarriage three months later. When I found out I was preg...

I feel like the most boring, ugliest, most bitter person ever! What do I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I don't know whether I'm depressed or what. But I don't feel ok. I don't feel very happy. Ok, so let's see. This has been happening for a while, but usually I feel bad because of boredom and because I feel I lack something. I have some hobbies but...

Is she really busy or just not ready to see me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - I have been dealing with a lot of insecurities and issues recently but kept many of them to myself as I didn't want to seem "weak" or unattractive to a female friend I'm very very close with. Recently we were at a party and after seeing her...

I cant handle another break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance for about 3 years now and we have a 7 month old son and i have 2 little girls from a previous relationship. Everything was great when we first met and were friends and also after we took it to the level and started to ...

What has happened to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Hello His 17 and i am 16 Basically I fancy my brothers friend and yesterday my brother and his girlfriend went outside and told him in my front garden if he fancies me and he just said no my brothers girlfriend called me and he said to me “Loo...

Why does he always come back if he doesn't really want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Hi, me and my ex had a good strong relationship. We had so many good times and we went thru a lot together. Wen our son was born it was the happiest time of our lives. Things were so going so well. After our son was born things changed. My partner ...

Am I really a dumb b*tch? That's what he said! Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - “Sometimes you must allow yourself to go through some hurtful things so you can become strong because you were emotionally weak”. (My quote) ***This is long, but not boring*** Were do I begin! I'm in love with an ex-con who had it together, but...

He accuses me of cheating..how do I deal with his temper tantrums and foul language?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance are going through a very rough patch. We've been together for 2 years and he recently proposed. We were friends for about 5 years before we started our relationship and I felt I knew him inside out. Many people told me I had ch...

Torn between current boyfriend and ex..break up now? break up later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 2 years and I'm planning to break up because I'm not really happy and fulfilled with him. Before him, I was with another guy, in another country and another continent. We lasted for 2 months in a long distance ...

Why am I always paying for things with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I am not a generous person for sure. In fact, I care about spending equal amount of $$$ when I am going out with frds or significant others. For example, I've been seeing this 30 years old grad student for a semester. I just realized we've b...

Why does he keep coming back?

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3 May 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been separted for over a year, he knows I still care for him but he says he doesnt. A few days ago he tells me that he does still love me - would be easy to go back with me but he wants to stand on his own 2 feet. I was ok with ...

I love my fiance but I just don't know about her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - i everybody my name is zach and i am haveing problems with my feiance jessie i love her to death but i just dont know wat is goin through her head lately cause when i try to talk to her she gets pissy and she always pushs eachother away i dont know ...

20 year old boy with a serious problem

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - Hello everybody, I'm a 20 year-old boy with a HUGE problem. I'm living in Germany now for almost 2 years, and in this time I've got to know different people. 2 months ago I met a girl who is 14, 15 in 3 months(... this is being so hard to write...). ...

She has cancer and is pushing me away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - My best friend of 5 years and girlfriend for 6 months has cancer. I spent 4 weeks in the hospital with her while she had an operation and treatments.I truely love her and care very deeply about her. Tonight we were laying in her bed watching a movie ...

I'm trying to push him away because he really hurts me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've met this guy in the work and we always see each other once in a week.and we started to talk about almost 3 months ago..In the first month he always text me called me.Everything went perfect..during 3 months we only hang out once..Af...

I think he called me fat.am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Sorry that this is kinda long, but I think the back story is relevant... So I've been dating this guy for about seven months and 99.9% of the time he is really sweet and really good to me. But there are these little things. I'm 5'7" 148 lbs. No...

Why am I always thinking of her?Its been too long

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - hey,dear people. i really have a problem.i used to loved a girl in the college.she 's beautiful,so i try to court her.i do whatever i can do to make her like me,but she refused me.she don't like me and "you are nice guy but i don't like you…"so it's ...

FWB but it means more to me than that and he's really hurting me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, For the past six months i have been in a kind of friends with benifits relationship with a guy in my group of friends, i only started talking to him last september and one of my frends gave him my number.He seemed like such a nice...

Do I think he'll be back, absolutely... but why does he do this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I met a man on line years ago. We spoke for a long time months before we finally met. Our first meeting we kissed and that's when I knew he had me. We spoke later on that day and agreed that we definitely should get together again. Every time we ...

My marriage is dead. Is there a chance with this new woman?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - I am a 57 year old married man with two teenage daughters one of whom does not live with my wife and I any more and the other being 17 years old. My marriage is dead and has been for years. There is no love any more between my wife and I and too ...

Am I beating my head against a brick wall here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (M) - This is an update to an earlier question. "Jill" and I have been dating for the past three months, and things really took off for us. Before that, we had been friends for several years. It feels like we have such good chemistry, and we just fit ...

I'm sick of all this sneaking about. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

3 May 2009 (F) - I was at my friend's house one night and her older brother was there (hes 27 and im 17) and ive always thought he was really fit but my friend has always warned me to stay away from him 1. because the age diffrence and 2.Its a simple rule yo...