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Archived questions from: 21 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm wondering if he's cheating..he won't have sex, says its because I'm being mean!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Ok I have asked a few questions on here before and I got another! I got to start off saying I love my boyfriend very much all and all we have a good relationship! Except he has lied to me that I know of once involving another girl! He was not ...

Is he at it with me or is he telling the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I'm heartbroken, I've driven the man I cherish away, we have been together nearly 2 years, he told me he was seperated, i thought it was strange he never wanted me to meet his family and he always hid my things when his friends came to stay, he said ...

Has anyone ever left their girl because of her past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - Has anyone ever actually had enough courage to leave their girlfriend or fiance because they couldn't cope with her past? I'm stuck between walking away from someone I love for my own sanity, or having a loving loyal wife but having to deal w...

Why can't I get him to communicate with me to at least try to work it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Hi, well like many others my boyfriend of a year dumped me, a day before our one year anniversary. I don't think it was a commitment thing cuz he always was asking for me to move in and such . But I was on a lease and couldn't at the time . But ...

Whenever I try to talk about him coming to the doctors with me for a pregnacy test he just changes the subject to sex! What gives?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is acting really odd. It all started when I told him I missed two periods and told him about it. For then on all he talks about is sex and not just normal things he talks about how he pees on himself and licks his own cum. Hes nev...

I WON'T leave her!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - There is a girl in my grade that I like and she hates me. I will NOT leave her. Please help me!!...

My boyfriend is practically being held hostage in his own home! help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Hey everyone! Well i have posted questions on here before and youve always been really great help. This isnt really a huge problem, not compared to others and i guess this is kind of silly. Well im sitting my A levels and so ive now off...

How do I approach him about trying swinging or introducing another in the bedroom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Hi there! Well, I am in a 2 year relationship and things are just great. However time went by and sex just isn t the same but I'm a very creative person, so I have always lots of kinky ideas and games. My bf is a dear, really good looking and so n...

Spying fiance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I have been spying on my live in boyfriend for two years. I use the computer software but I have recently purchsed a gps for the car. He has been talking marriage I am in love with him but after spying I have caught him talking to his client in an ...

Is he a controlling boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, we've been together before but split up for about half a year before getting back together. Lately, I've noticed a lot of things in him that i see in my parents relationship. My mum is very ...

When I get drunk I turn into a different person and I'm so cruel to her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - I'm so scared of losing my girlfriend, but i can't stop hurting her! It's like i've got the bad guy on one shoulder, and the good guy on the other! We've been for almost 2 years now and both at college, and going to the same uni in october....

Does my boyfriend want us to get back together or is he just lonely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend broke up with me a couple months ago because of growing tensions. We had been together over a year and talked marriage. A month into our breakup, he started traveling for work. He'll be traveling for a few months. At that same time ...

Do you think he gets a kick out of treating me badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Ok.. so this situation has been going on for a year now, i used to be really best friends with this guy who has been blowing HOT and cold with me for a whole year now. ive cried many times over it.. he would act weird and say horrible things t...

Should I still be expecting him to make a bit of an effort after we have been together so long?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Recently I feel as though my boyfriend doesn't care enough about our relationship, and I'm not sure what I can do. When we first started going out, my boyfriend effectively did all the chasing, he made such an effort and did everything he co...

Hard break-up, should I keep any hope of getting him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I am in the deepest pain I have ever been in my life, deeper even than when I lost a very close relative. My boyfriend of 8 amazing months broke up with me on Monday because of something I said. For a bit over 3 months, he was gone on his study ab...

Part of me is craving being single, and the other part loves my perfect girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - So, I've been going out with long-term girlfriends for the past five years, since I was 15. There's never been much of a gap between long-term relationships. The first turned out to be a compulsive liar and screwed with my head quite badly, the ...

She told me about her past and I just can't get over it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - Been with my girlfriend around a year and a bit she is much older than me which for me was not a problem as she has a fun personality and i barely felt the difference at the start i am in love with her and she is my first true love i didnt have a ...

Easily quickly forgotten...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Hi: It will soon be 2 months that my ex and I have ended our 3 year relationship. It's been rough, I see now that he was selfish and a coward for breaking up over the phone over, I opened up my heart after my divorce, and I thought he was so nice. ...

Finding it hard to stand up for myself without making the argument worse!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been friends for four years and dating for 1, and this is really starting to bug me. We'll get into these stupid ridiculous fights and he'll accuse me of really dumb things (ei. my friend that doesn't like him: he thinks that ...

Does he still love me now that we live together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I was wondering if you could please help me. I dont know if my boyfriend loves me anymore! We have been together 2 and a half years and moved in together with each other last weekend. I expected it to be really romantic - cuddling up on the couch ...

If he wanted a fling you would think he would choose a girl he has less history with!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - *answers from guys REALLY appreciated* Hi, I'm female, 21yrs old. My best friend (male) has been confusing me. At my 21st bday he kissed me now he acts like it never happened. (I posted a different question about the same guy a while back http:...

How can I tell him I've had enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I am really confused as to what I should do? Me and my partner met 3 years ago and were dating for about 1 and a half years then became exclusive. We have been living together for just over a year. It has been difficult at times as he has been away ...

Need advice - Is my husband gay? Desperate for answers.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I am posting this personal information in hopes of getting different perspectives on my current situation. I am a 39 year old married woman. I have been married to my husband for almost a year, with him for 3 years. I found out 6 months into...

She said she wants to take a break but to continue hanging out together!! This is all so confusing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - hey everybody well today i was talking to my girlfriend and out of nowhere she tells me that she would rather take some time off from being with me because she wants to make sure that im the one she wants to spend the rest of her life with. I told ...

She told me I am better than her boyfriend and she loves me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - alright, last night, i did something, i should be ashamed of but im not, i slept with a girl thats taken, ( dont worry we used protection ) she was screaming really loud, she told me that i was better than her bf, and that she loves me, what sho...

How do I go about this situation with my boyfriend of 2 months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - i saw my boyfriend yesterday at uni, he seemed very down and he told me he was tired and stressed about uni work. i dont really know what is going on, usually we hold hands walking around campus, we did, but it was loosely held. we sat on the benc...

Do I end it with my cheating boyfriend when I have raised his baby by another woman as my own?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Ok, where too begin I have been with my boyfriend/ father of my 8 month old child for a 2 years now we have been realy good friends since we were really little we are still young both only 22 but anyways when we first hooked up i kinda became ...

10 reasons its her fault the relationship didnt work

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - Here are the top 10 reasons that it's HER fault the relationship didn't work. Reason 1: You aren't cool enough. Guys love cool girls, its probably our favorite characteristic for a girl we want to keep around longer than 2 hours. The problem...

He cheated on me, dumped me and wants to think about where we go from here, I am heartbroken, what do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of one year and three months just broke up with me because I tried to discuss my feelings. He has a past of cheating with me and after the incidents it left us with the problem of me not being able to trust him, that was back in Sept...

After 11 years and children together, my boyfriend has an affair and possibly fathered a child, we're still together, but how do I get over this emotionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Aunts and Uncles: I need your advice anyone. How do I get over this affair? I have never felt so emotionaly drained in my life. I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years he is my soul mate, my world, my everything and I am in so much pain I have ...

He's mean and I am tired of his behavior, how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - so my ex and i have always had an up and down relationship after our break up. cause he was really mean to me. but he like he told me he was very sorry and would chnage and he did change for like 2 weeks and was really sweet being the guy i always ...

How can you love someone who hurts you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I have a friend of mine who's maddley in Love with this guy who treat her sooooo badly and she just won't leave him alone he talks to her like crap and just walks all over her.he hits her and just so nasty and disrespectful but she just can't leave ...