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What went wrong?

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Question - (28 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2009)
A female United States, anonymous writes:

HELP! me and this guy have known each other for a very long time and I have always had mad feeling for him but was always scared to say anything to him until years later I was at T.G.I. Fridays an he finally said something to me we talked after that for like 3 days then he just up and moved to Texas, years later I ran into his brother who informed me that he was locked up so I wrote him and continued on and off until he came home which was may 2009. He called me to let me know he was home so we've been talking like every two days or so like we are getting something started or whatever I told him how I felt about him and how me talking to him since we got hooked back up with each other brought back a lot of feelings I had for him.

I cant recall him really telling me how he felt about me because always wanted to no how I felt about him but anyway on may 18 me and him had sex it was good, he called me later that day and the next day but on the third I called him and told him that me and him couldn't have sex for my b-day(may 21) because I had to go to my daughter play he was like ok we could get together another time so on my b-day no call from him so I didn't call him because he could have called me for my b-day, this went on until sunday so I called to see if something had happened to him and it's like he changed up on me I ask him why haven't he called me he stated your finger weren't broke then his phone click and it was his daughter so he said he was going to call me back and never did it's wednesday now!!! what went wrong?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009):

Dont freak out honey, guys are just like that. Its anoying i know. But its nothing to get stressed out over. He will call if he really wants to hook up again. But just remember if he doesnt call he's an asshole, and your probably too good for him. Dont waist your time on some guy that wont call you back. If he calls back great! but wait 2 more days and if he doesnt call back his loss!

-Good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009):

Nothing went wrong for him because he got what he wanted. What went wrong for you was that you thought sex would mean more to him and it didn't. Sex does not secure a relationship.

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