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Archived questions from: 15 May, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Stressed out for dumb reasons

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15 May 2009 (F) - i was with this guy the other night who i have had a thing sort of going on with for awhile. i really like him. but he is pretty laidback, almost too much to where i'm afraid of upsetting him or pushing him away, and we're taking things slow but...

My 'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean.

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15 May 2009 (F) - 'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean. He also said I'd become fat now. What in the world is it any of his business anyway. I am so mad right now- enough to not contact him again!...

He's going through a hard time right now, how can I be his friend?

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15 May 2009 (F) - hey guys . i love my boyfriend and i would and do go out of my way for him , he has been feeling a little -off- lately , not doing that great at college , job going nowhere and he lives alone so i guess he is lonely sometimes, i dont what to do but ...

What am I for him???

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15 May 2009 (F) - I am two years and a half older than him, I knew him three years ago via internet, we were chatting almost every day.. he lives at 5000 km from. I thought that the age gap and the long distance would keep us from falling for each other but I was ...

If he doesn't love me now will he ever?

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15 May 2009 (F) - Should I stay or go? I have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly two years. To begin with our relationship was great he really showed he cared and took the time out always made me happy... Now things have changed, he is dista...

I just want my roommate to respect our agreement and my feelings. is that too selfish?

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15 May 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm living in the room of 3 bedroom apartment... and i have one room mate sharing this room with me since I am living in a very expensive city and cant afford to pay the rent of the room alone and the rent is too high... I been living ...

My husband is texting another women, but says it's for the thrill, he does not want her, what to do?

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15 May 2009 (F) - Found out my husband has been texting and phoning a another woman and sending pic's ! He says doesnt know why he does this! He doesn't want her,he just enjoys the thrill the chase what should I do? Any ideas ...

She is going through changes, and I am confused, please help?

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15 May 2009 (F) - I'm not really sure where too begin. Shelly and I met over a year ago. She was in another relationship but still there was some crazy deep attraction going on between us even we can't explain. Her relationship ended around oct. of 08`. Feb 20th 2009 ...

He isn't there for me when I need him but I'm always there for him... what do I do?

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15 May 2009 (F) - Please Help Me! I broke up with my bf two weeks ago after he asked me for money and said he wouldnt talk to me. My mother passed away a few days later. I didnt contact him to tell him because he has never been there when I needed him only when he ...

I want to get out and live!!!

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15 May 2009 (F) - Ever since I was about 14 I have always been in serious relationships! when I was 15 I got into a relationship that lasted 3 years and I got engaged! I finaly left him due to problems that had been going on for a while and had, had enough of it! but ...

Boring relationship!

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15 May 2009 (M) - I am in a relationship with a girl that is really boring and talks a lot about herself, she likes spamming me with text messages during school. post your comments on what to do please...

How can I stop this overwhelming feeling of grief and sadness, and hurt, and disbelief?

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15 May 2009 (F) - hi I've been with a guy for 19 months - I did everything for him, he lived in my house, I fell truly madly deeply in love. Suddenly he texted me one day and said he wasnt coming back. I was left utterly heartbroken, depressed, the sadness when...

I feel like I'm living in a nightmare.

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15 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone just looking for a bit of reassurance again. Me and my boyfriend of 5 years have been apart for 6 months now, but I'm not handling it well at all. It was my choice to end it, and now I feel like I'm being punished. I'm on ...

8 years going... and I'm not happy inside.

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15 May 2009 (M) - Help Needed 8 years later I'm a Gay man who is with my first guy for 8 years, after the second year i decided to go to France to meet someone else, it was hard but i told my partner that i was not happy and why i was not happy, 6 years later we i...

Can someone explain what she means?

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15 May 2009 (M) - Hello, Ive been with my girl for a month now, not long I know but its going really well which is great :) On several occasions shes told me she loves me, all well and good but it does seem too soon to say that. Anyhow, she called me last night...

He betrayed my trust and lied to me about something so stupid it doesn't make sense!!!

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15 May 2009 (F) - okay... well this guy and I were best friends for almost 6 years, we started dating a year ago. Since then we have been discussing marriage. well we have been doing the long distance thing since christmas and lately I have felt things are different ...

Are we a joke? Should we end it once and for all?

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15 May 2009 (F) - Hey all Ok I hve been with my boyfriend for the past three years, we have been tru a hell of a lot together but the problem is we cant seem to really make a go off things!! We really love each other and when its good its brilliant but when thing...

B/f needs texts or calls me back!

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15 May 2009 (F) - My bf doesnt always reply to my messages or phone calls. This really frustrates and upsets me, and it also makes me worried. We have a long distance r/ship- this makes it even harder to deal with this. Last time he visited me, he was all over m...

He always accuses me of being unfaithful

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15 May 2009 (F) - ive ben with this guy for almost two years now and whenever we havearguments he threatens to leave and when i tell him to go ahead he turns everything around on me saying im the one looking for ways to leave him.then recently we had a fight ...

I am in an open relationship, should I lay my cards on the table with this other woman or not?

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15 May 2009 (M) - Hi. There's this woman at work who loves e-mailing and instant messaging me for long periods at a time about all sorts of subjects. She is single and on the look out for a man. I have a partner but she knows I am disgruntled and have shown a desire ...

I'm afraid I've already screwed up the relationship by being too clingy.

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15 May 2009 (M) - Me and this girl I really like got back together on Monday the 4th and the same day she found out a good friend got killed in a car accident. Everything was fine and I took off work and went up there with her and we were okay till Saturday. After ...

Moved in with b/f and now am lonely and depressed.

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15 May 2009 (F) - so me and my boyfriend started out great he was so sweet and we got along great. we moved in together 2 months ago and it wasn't just down the road its 3 hours away from my friends and family.. so I haven't been able to find a job yet and I just sit ...

I don't trust him sometimes because of past experiences

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15 May 2009 (F) - Hello everyone. I have been in a long-term, off-and-on relationship with a man for going on 4 years now. Of course I cannot possibly tell the whole entire journey but I will basically tell the most important issues I have. I am 21 years old and he...

How much time is enough 'space' before I should try contacting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a fight and he basically moved out of my house, and won't talk or see me. He's a sulker, and is still fighting the ghosts of his last relationship, and has done this once before, but it wasn't this severe. The last time he did ...

What should I do? I can't keep feelling like this.

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15 May 2009 (M) - ok, this is strange one. what have i done!! this is even weird and awkward for me to type but... for years ive been really anxious and worried about what happened to me and my sister when we were young. i was about 12 and she about 6. we played ...

I'd just be a burden in a reletionship with all my baggage...

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15 May 2009 (M) - I am a 24 year old guy and I am suffering from constant anxiety and what I think is depression. I can't stop thinking about all the stupid things I have done in my life but rather than laughing them off I have caused a link between them so whenever ...

Her Boss, her lover, it ended, it started and now it's ended.. advice please!!

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15 May 2009 (F) - My ex girlfriend have split now for over 5 months and I'm still finding it very difficult to move on. We were together for 3 and a half years and most of the time it really was the best time of our lives. We never argued, we laughed all the time at ...