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She's torn between two lovers. Should I walk away?

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Question - (5 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *oser590 writes:

I am in love with a girl and I honestly believe she is also in love with me. There is no doubt. The way she looks at me, the way she touches me, and how we kiss tell me everything. We lose control when we are around each other.

The problem is that she already has a boyfriend. She lives with him and he supports her financially. He is paying for her car, college, and all her things. The have been together for nine years but he is no good. He has developed a police record and is also a registered sex offender. Why she is still with him I don't know?

She says the reason she hasn't left him is because she doesn't want to leave on bad terms and left with nothing. We go to college together and if she ends it now she will have to drop out this semester. I don't know for sure but I think she still loves him. They had sex last weekend but she said it was awkard.

Should I walk away if she is stuck between me or him? He knows about us but I really don't know where we stand. I am 24 years old and have a lot of experience with women so I know how to spot a sl*t or whore when I see one and she definitely isn't one. I am willing to accept the risks with this girl if it works out between us and we can build something together.

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A male reader, 2old4this United States +, writes (5 April 2009):

2old4this agony auntBrother, you two aint building nothing together as long as they are together. You said it yourself, he has all these problems yet she still is with him. This is a heartbreak situation for you and if you can make yourself do it, I say walk away. Find you a better girl. Just keep her number just in case she ever does leave him.

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