A
female
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:hey all. i just want to ask the guys a question. my boyfriend of two years neva gets jealous and that hurts. i end up wondering if he really loves me. am i bieng silly or oi have a reason to be worried?
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (2 April 2009):
 Ummm, jealousy isn't good, sweetheart. Jealousy springs from insecurity and possessiveness, poor self esteem. Why on earth would you want your boyfriend to have these problems?
Maybe you should stop trying to make your poor boyfriend jealous. That's just not nice.
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reader, guillaume  +, writes (2 April 2009):
 Hi,
I would see him as a good catch. Just think, he isn't some insecure paranoid bully. He trusts you and that might feel strange for you at the moment. Take care, G xx
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (2 April 2009):
 why would you want him too get jealous, it ruins relationships and destroys them. Plus some people just dont get jealous or it takes alot of effort to make them jealous.
I think you should be happy as is, he trusts you and thats is alot
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reader, damluvaam + ♥, writes (2 April 2009):
 And it hurts? My goodness...that's a different complaint.
I don't normally get jealous, but, admittedly, by nature it's an effort for me. Are you trying to make him jealous because to you jealous maybe means love? Care and concern? I've always been taught that jealousy is a very negative thing...something we should avoid with the people we love.
Don't be worried. The really, REALLY terrible thing may be true....he may TRUST you!
Denny
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (2 April 2009):
 Some guys, no matter what happens, never get jealous. I would take it as a wonderful sign that he has total trust in you and the things you do! Jealousy usually plays out when there is a trust issue. You are not being silly in the least, but I wouldn't be worried either. If you are that concerned, ask why he is never jealous...you might be surprised by the answer you get!
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