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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend of two years started seeing someone else, I found out by chance, I walked away broken hearted. I wished her well. I never called him or used his name. We all work in the same building. This was sometime ago, and I have tried very hard to get on with it, I have been civil, but I have never asked her back, though on occasions I have felt she has been testing me.Last year it seemed all was not well with them and she sought of tried to blame me. I told her to leave me alone.Recently she has given girls I talk to really angry looks and they have commented to me.I feel she is trying more and more to get a reaction out of me, this year I have been civil but very neutral with her, no conversation or signs of my interest.The other day I had a problem with my car window, so I needed to ensure I parked in the secure car park at work (there isn’t enough room for everyone) you have to time it right to get a place. I arrived too early so I waited on near by pay and display until I thought I would try, I was the only car on this car park. I saw her pass on the road going to work, she saw me, I instantly thought and could tell she was wondering what I was doing . I t was like I was waiting for someone I guess. Anyway I waited another ten minutes before going into the secure car park. My ex rarely comes in our office, within ten minutes of me being in work, she came in, I knew instantly she was checking to see if I had arrived in, though we didn’t speak.That night I finished early, I thought for the first time I am going to test her, I walked past her office and knew she would see me with my bag and coat, I was pretending to text someone. I walked down the corridor to the exit, I turned and looked, she was now out of the office, part way down the corridor looking to see where I was going.I guess what I’m asking is what is she up to and what does she want me to do ?
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (2 April 2009):
she wants you back because you are better than that whom she abondoned you for,
but never let her back to you,
because she well leave as soon as she likes some one else ahd she well know that you well be there on stand by waiting for her agian !!,
dont waste you time on her and find some one who worth your time to be spent with
finally never love someone who doesnt love you or doesnt worht your love !!,
and remeber that when ever a door is closed many doors open but we dont usualy nottice the new doors becasue we spend much time consitrating on the closed one !!
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (2 April 2009):
 You do nothing. I promise she is jealous and probably always been annoyed how you have taken the breakup in stride and moved on with your life. How dare you not sit at home crying over her and calling her asking her back everyday! LOL. I will say this much, if you still fancy her, maybe try casually asking her for a cup of coffee or something simple like that. If she says no then just say no big deal, see ya. Just do what you want because right now I think you have all the power.
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