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30-35,
*arcode12
writes:I am wondering, is it normal for my boyfriend to still add girls on tagged.com when he is attached to me? I admit I get jealous when girls tell him to exchange email address so that can talk online. my friends told me it is somehow not appropriate for him to do so. as he might be doing so because hes finding girls to be up to his standard and would ditch me once he found the perfect one. I want to ask him whats his motive but i dont want to sound like a freak. what should i do? cause i've been bottling up my feelings.
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reader, juleskee  +, writes (2 April 2009):
Hey look, he's attached to you, right? Well, you should trust him. I get jealous too, but I accept the fact that there are other people in the world, so I have no right to stop him from creating other friendships. But, it is kind of weird for him to do that. Because, hello, there should only be a "one and only" woman in his life, and that is you! But he shouldn't avoid contact with any of his friends. But, if those girls are people he doesn't know, then girl, he should hear you out. This makes you feel bad so he should do something about it. But, you should make sure to let him know that you trust him completely, and it just makes you feel weird that he's doing that.
Talk to him. Communication is key. If he gets defensive, then it means something.
Oh, and never cheat on him. It'll only make you a hypocrite for saying you trust him. Show him how devoted you are to the relationship, and it'll make him feel bad for acting so player-ish.
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